In the latest plot of the TV series "Heart Residence", Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan have officially separated.
The two have not even been in contact since they separated, and the relationship has become so strange that their respective parents realize that it is not good.
There is no doubt that from the direction of the plot, it is not difficult to guess that their marriage is coming to an end.
The fuse that led to their separation was undoubtedly the quarrel between Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu after he was frustrated in all aspects.
In this quarrel, Shi Yuan said a very classic line:
With a flick of your little hand, you burned all my efforts, all my attachments, all my dignity!
In Shi Yuan's eyes, Gu Qingyu seems to be doing everything wrong, and all she does is "show superiority".
But I believe that when most viewers hear Shi Yuan's words, they will be like Gu Qingyu and the second monk will be confused:
What's wrong with a mother who pays for her husband's efforts to treat a seriously ill woman?
What's wrong with exhorting husbands not to jump into the traps set by competitors?
Worried about her husband's health, what is wrong with advising him not to work so many odd jobs?
Gu Qingyu's actions are all for shi yuan's sake, although the approach is more mystical.
But isn't this the result of Shi Yuan's constant refusal to accept his wife's help and his death to face his sins?
Why would he be so embarrassed to turn around and beat a rake backwards, accusing Gu Qingyu of not respecting himself?
In fact, in the contradiction between Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, both of them have unshirkable responsibilities.
Shi Yuan's problem is obvious, that is, he is obviously incompetent, but he wants to have all the face.
As a result, he was taught to be a man by the ruthless reality, and he could not vent his anger in his stomach, and could only "be angry with his wife for incompetence".
Gu Qingyu's problem is not in dealing with Shi Yuan's matters, but in the scale of interaction with friends of the opposite sex.
Yes, Gu Qingyu's most wrong place is not that he did not respect Shi Yuan, but that he had been hanging on to Zhan Xiang.
Before Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan quarreled separately, the two also quarreled because of Shi Mu's gaffe at the family meeting.
They both knew that this was a problem that would take time to solve, so they didn't get into a fight.
Shi Yuan's approach is also decent, although he is not aware of his wife's crying point, but the next day he can also take the initiative to take the initiative to show goodwill.
But Gu Qingyu's approach is more confused, she not only ignored Shi Yuan, but also on the way to work after encountering Zhan Xiang suddenly wanted to take a vacation, directly invited Zhan Xiang to climb the mountain, eat hot pot "one dragon" entertainment.
Zhan Xiang's liking for Gu Qingyu is something that anyone with a discerning eye can see, and Feng Xiaoqin even ridicules him as "Gu Qingyu's changming lamp".
Would the shrewd Gu Qingyu not be able to see Zhan Xiang's thoughts?
Obviously, she was clear, but she still did not hesitate to ask Zhan Xiang for help, and also played with Zhan Xiang.
Isn't this kind of behavior typical of eating in a bowl and looking into a pot?
Friends of the opposite sex are not impossible, but knowing that this heterosexual mind is thinking of "taking over the plate" and still getting together, Gu Qingyu's approach is difficult not to make Shi Yuan feel suspicious: Is this rich and oily Bai Fumei really single-minded about himself?
After all, the reason why they can come together is entirely by relying on the filter bonus of childhood white moonlight, so that sensibility triumphs over reason.
With the impact of life's trivialities, after the gradual return of reason, the gap between the wrong door and the wrong door will make them understand:
Their needs for love vary.
The love that Gu Qingyu needs is to get up every day to see the white-clad teenager reading English poems, and he can still hear piano music when he comes home from work;
The love that Shi Yuan longs for is that the husband has a successful career, the wife is a bird, and the husband and wife respect each other as guests.
They both thought that the other could satisfy themselves, and they had no choice but to slap each of them with a slap on the face of their own life after marriage.
Gu Qingyu actually realized this earlier than Shi Yuan, after Shi Yuan joined the opposite company without listening to her advice in order to satisfy Shi Yuan's "family honor", her rationality had already made her "head down" to her husband.
So, she began to get closer to the spare tire zhanxiang who loved her again.
After all, a chartered man who has no excellent parents, money and leisure in order to learn English and piano for herself obviously makes her happier.
In fact, if he had not met Shi Yuan again, Gu Qingyu would actually have chosen To show his skills and turn the spare tire that had been licking for more than ten years into a positive one.
Shi Yuan's appearance made her blinded by love, and the hormonal agitation made her impulsively choose flash marriage.
But the reason in her subconscious reminded her that Shi Yuan was not necessarily a suitable marriage partner, but Zhan Xiang was.
Therefore, even if he has become a wife with a husband, Gu Qingyu will still hang on to Zhan Xiang and keep his lovers above the level of friendship.
Judging from the interests, Gu Qingyu's approach is obviously "insurance" for himself.
In case of "overturning" in Shi Yuan, the Zhan Xiang brand spare tire can be replaced immediately, simply not too shrewd.
However, from the perspective of feelings, Gu Qingyu's approach not only hurt Shi Yuan, but also did not respect Zhan Xiang, which was a very selfish act.
After all, what love and marriage can be perfect? If everyone ate in the bowl like Gu Qingyu and looked at the pot, there would be no good story of love than Jin Jian. Marriage can not be regarded as a business, too much calculation, the feelings are weak.
Recalling Gu Qingyu's impersonal approach when interfering with Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin's family affairs, it is not difficult to find that this character really does not know how to handle family relations, and I wonder if she can grow at the end of the play?