Parents all over the world hope that their children are all advantages, and they are sensible and obedient, polite and emotionally intelligent, both intelligent and studious, but these advantages are cultivated through the day after tomorrow, and if there is no correct method, they will not cultivate excellent children.
On the weekend, three or five friends go to a suburban party together, and there is a 5-year-old boy at the friend's house, who thinks it is interesting to see everything, and keeps asking questions.
"Why do apples grow on trees instead of underground like turnips?"
"Why are you hanging peppers on the door?"
"Why do sunflowers keep pointing in the direction of the sun?"
Some questions can still be answered, but some even these adults do not know, but they have to look up on the Internet, and then explain after checking, but this little boy has one question after another, making friends helpless.
The boy's mother said, "Why are you such a problem with this child that you can't play honestly?" ”
The child listened to his mother's words, stopped talking, and ran to play on his own.
It is a good thing that children like to ask questions, but some parents feel that this child is always thinking about something useless, and such a big child has something to ask.
According to studies, some of the performance of children in the process of growth just shows that the brain is developing rapidly at this time, if this time can be correctly guided, then it will be of great help to children's intelligence, observation, imagination and so on.
Children have these four characteristics of good things
The first feature: talking.
Some children especially like to talk, see anything will say a lot, but also especially chat with others, even if it is better than their own can chat for a while.
Just like some children in the video now, they are not very old, and they talk one by one. Adults sometimes feel that this child is annoying, how to keep talking.
This is not a disadvantage, the child is good at expression, and the expression ability is very strong, which shows that the mind is clear, can be observed at the same time, immediately speak out, the response is also very sensitive.
At this time, parents must not be impatient, let alone perfunctory, should pay attention to what the content of the child is, and then give guidance, trigger the child to continue to think, so as to exercise and improve the ability to observe and express.
The second feature: dismantling toys.
The toys that I just bought back may be broken, and then I am still thinking about how to restore them. Such children also especially like to play with blocks and patchwork toys.
A man sits in a toy pile, tearing toys apart like an engineer. Parents may not like this scene, and the newly cleaned house is tossed around again.
In this way, children have strong hands-on ability, like to ponder, and will be particularly interested in some mechanical principles, and parents should not delay the future inventors.
The more children like to play with blocks, it shows that they are good at thinking, because children always want to build blocks out of various shapes, and then think while building, which not only exercises the brain, but also promotes hands-on ability.
Third feature: ask why.
Just like a friend's child, it is a very beneficial thing to like to ask questions, indicating that children are thinking, and no problem is a big problem.
When the child starts from the first question asked to you, the parents should be prepared to guide and continue to provoke the child to ask questions until the child understands the questions asked.
If parents do not know, do not refuse to answer because of face, should seek truth from facts, and then take the child to find the answer together, which is a respect for the child and can also deepen the child's memory in the process.
If the parent is impatient after answering a few questions, it is equivalent to saying to the child, you don't ask, it is too annoying.
Children can also feel the emotions of parents, in the long run, children will lose interest in asking questions, and they will no longer think.
Fourth feature: cheeky.
Some children are very naughty, said by the parents, will not be angry, tantrums, but a hippie smiley face to coax you, such a child has a good mentality, and high emotional intelligence.
Good mentality is manifested in an optimistic personality, some children are said a few words, they are bored and do not speak, they are sulking, which will cause depression. And those children who are still laughing, do not trust this matter at all, and there will be no shadow.
In addition, it also shows that the child's emotional intelligence is high from another perspective. The performance of high emotional intelligence is that the other party feels comfortable, although parents are annoyed because of the child's naughtiness, but looking at the child's naughty look, they can't get angry.
Treat such children, but also to guide correctly, neither too ridiculous, that is, poor mouth, childish, can not be too severe, hit the enthusiasm of children, guide children to correctly express themselves, can make children more distinct in the collective.
As a parent, to learn to observe the child's performance, but also to understand the meaning behind the child's performance, and then through the right way, guide the child to the right direction of development, there are shortcomings are not necessarily bad, hurry to see, how many of your children?
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!