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"In the World": It is not that Hao Dongmei is too cold, but that she has been accustomed to relying on others since she was a child

In the TV series "Human World", the love between Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei makes us see that even if there is a special identity, as long as there is love between the two, they can be in the same boat and spend their lives together in this world.

However, in the original work of "The World of Man", the author did not describe it in this way, because the TV series is to take into account the feelings of the majority of the audience, we are accustomed to the ending of the big reunion and small reunion, leaving a touch of light and beauty in the hearts of the audience, which has long been agreed upon.

So in the original work of "Human World", what is the ending of Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei? The two did not stay together for a lifetime, after Zhou Bingyi died of stomach cancer, less than 3 months after the price of the same "red second generation" rich businessman as him, a rich businessman who was rich in transnational business, she returned to her track.

After Hao Dongmei got married, Zhou Bingkun went into the city to Zhou Cong's house to help renovate the balcony, and after finishing his work, he walked across the street and met Hao Dongmei and her second husband, who was wearing a mink coat and half-high heeled high boots at her feet, intimately holding her husband's arm.

This unexpected encounter made the two people stunned in an instant, and it was impossible to pretend not to see each other. Zhou Bingkun originally wanted to call his sister-in-law, but suddenly realized that he could not let this be called, and instead called out "Sister Dongmei", Hao Dongmei did not introduce her second husband, nor did she ask about Zhou Cong.'

After Hao Dongmei left, Zhou Bingkun unconsciously burst into tears, because he suddenly realized the fact that Hao Dongmei was no longer his sister-in-law, because of the death of his brother Zhou Bingyi, this layer of relationship was completely over, and they would not have any contact in the future.

As for the relationship between Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei, Liang Xiaosheng, the original author of "The World of Man", sharply summed up, "The relationship between Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei is like a car on two roads, the wrench worker willfully pulled a turnout, hung up on each other for decades, and now they are separated, each on each other's road." ”

From beginning to end, Hao Dongmei is a "rich flower", and the editor is not surprised by her coolness.

"In the World": It is not that Hao Dongmei is too cold, but that she has been accustomed to relying on others since she was a child

I. When she was a teenager, Hao Dongmei borrowed the momentum of her parents

Everyone has their own starting line, Hao Dongmei was born in a high-cadre family since childhood, his parents are old revolutionaries who came from the bloody storm, ran through the snowy mountains, turned over the meadows, is the founder of new China, they are very strict with their children, they are also very strong, and it is precisely because of this that it is difficult to cultivate independent and self-reliant children.

As long as Hao Dongmei follows the requirements of her parents, does not use her own brains, nor does she have to do it herself, she can enjoy a good material life, as well as the respect of others who love the house and Wu; on the contrary, Zhou Bingyi, who was born in the urban slum of Guangzi, his parents are very ordinary people, and there is no help for his future.

From the very beginning, Zhou Bingyi knew that if he wanted to get ahead, he could only rely on himself, and eventually became the only student of Guangzi Film to guarantee the key middle school because of his character and excellent learning. It was at this school that he became acquainted with Hao Dongmei, the child of a high-ranking cadre.

Almost from the moment she saw Zhou Bingyi, Hao Dongmei knew that Zhou Bingyi was definitely not a thing in the pool, which was also her class advantage, since she was a child, she had heard about the competition for power around her parents, her eyes were sophisticated and vicious, and her shots were also stable and fierce.

When he was a freshman in high school, Hao Dongmei expressed his admiration for Zhou Bingyi, at that time, although Zhou Bingyi was only a young teenager, he was very clear about his identity, as a child of ordinary people, he knew that only if he was good enough, he could get the trust and love of others.

For Hao Dongmei's admiration for himself, Zhou Bingyi showed great clarity, he did not get carried away because of the other party's pursuit, he thought it was safer to maintain pure friendship. But there are also common points between the two, they both abide by the rules, have a measure of life, and do things in a principled way, so the two have always maintained a relationship of "above the friend, not enough in love".

Later, Hao Dongmei went to the light word piece, and at that moment she was in tears. New China has been founded for many years, and there are places like light characters, which she believes is her father's dereliction of duty, because her father is the vice governor who is in charge of urban construction. After listening to Hao Dongmei's description of the light character piece, his father, Governor Hao, personally inspected the light character piece and promised to transform it.

For this matter, Zhou Bingyi was very touched, he thought that Hao Dongmei was a kind-hearted girl, and therefore had a good feeling for her. After Zhou Rong learned of this matter, she also advised Zhou Bingyi to love her well, and clearly expressed her hope that one day Hao Dongmei could become her sister-in-law, and the two also began a warm boiling water love.

In those days, there was no television, no cinema, reading was their way of entertainment, they were all people who pursued growth, and the relationship between the two was very simple, even if the curtains were drawn at home, it was to see the banned world masterpieces.

In the original work, Zhou Bingyi also doubted the love between them, the relationship between the two has always been tender like water, the level is like a mirror, has not risen a point, nor has it lost a point, the surface looks normal, in fact, it looks abnormal, Hao Dongmei feels that he insulted their love.

In fact, it was this disagreement that made the two people realize to each other that love was more like a product of that special era for them. Liang Xiaosheng borrowed zhou Rong's mouth to make a conclusion about the combination between his brother and sister-in-law, marriage relationship, naturally fate at work, but also based on the premise of the family's social hierarchy, super-level fate is not universal, most of them are directed by specific eras, or Lang Cai's female appearance.

"In the World": It is not that Hao Dongmei is too cold, but that she has been accustomed to relying on others since she was a child

II. In the era of the fallen, Hao Dongmei was attached to Zhou Bingyi

In that special era, Hao Dongmei's father was overthrown, and she herself became the "Black Five Category", at this time Zhou Bingyi was still with him, without complaint or regret. After the college entrance examination was canceled, Zhou Bingyi responded to the call of the state and then went to the construction corps, while Hao Dongmei followed him to the village next to the corps as a zhiqing.

All along, Hao Dongmei has long been accustomed to the existence of Zhou Bingyi, and has developed a long-term dependence on him. Because of Zhou Bingyi's outstanding performance, he was transferred to the Propaganda Section of the Division Headquarters, and soon he was favored by the famous deputy political commissar who came down to inspect him, and he was to be transferred to the military region to take up a post, which was at the deputy regimental level.

There was no doubt that this opportunity everyone dreamed of, but Zhou Bingyi gave up because he could not leave Hao Dongmei. Judging from this matter, Hao Dongmei is indeed very knowledgeable, and she can see that Zhou Bingyi is serious and reliable, and will definitely not abandon her.

At that time, Zhou Bingyi was the propaganda officer of the Construction Corps, and Hao Dongmei was only a young intellectual in a nearby farm, and his status was obviously higher than his, and it was precisely because of Zhou Bingyi's care that Hao Dongmei was able to spend that period of despair safely.

Later, the college entrance examination was resumed, Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei were admitted to college, Zhou became a high-achieving student at Peking University, and Hao's parents were also rehabilitated, at this time Zhou Bingyi's psychology changed: before he was like a tree, Hao was like a vine, and now it seems to be reversed, Hao Dongmei himself does not feel it, but Zhou Bingyi feels very strong, and he also feels restrained in front of his mother-in-law.

Pure love may exist in theory, but the combination between two people is more considered to be something other than feelings, who is more attached to whom? Who is more favorable? And all that.

III. After becoming an adult, Hao Dongmei was attached to Zhou Bingyi's "power" magnate

At the beginning, Hao Dongmei's mother, Jin Yueji, was not optimistic about Zhou Bingyi, she thought that her daughter was really too bottomless, how much suffering her parents suffered in the war years, and later survived in prison, did not her daughter become a "black five category", was not it to go to the mountains and go to the countryside? Is it more bitter than when they were revolutionary?

If her daughter Hao Dongmei can be strong and keep the minimum standards for choosing a mate, what kind of family can't she find? I have to go to a place like the light word film to find out how good the children of ordinary people can be, indicating that Jin Yueji does not agree with her daughter's choice, after all, she is a high-cadre family, the other party is just an ordinary family, and the door is not right.

For her mother's opinion, Hao Dongmei did not say much, but walked away with a silent smile. It was only later, after Jin Yueji came into contact with Zhou Bingyi, that her thinking changed, and she also believed that Zhou Bingyi was a material that could be created, and under her intervention, zhou Bingyi was transferred to the military factory as the secretary of the party committee, and suddenly became a real power figure at the level of the main hall.

At that time, the operation of the military factory encountered difficulties with you, and Zhou Bingyi stepped forward, just went to the Soviet Union to look for opportunities, and signed a single ship dismantling contract, which could bring great benefits to the factory to solve the urgent need.

Zhou Bingyi was done, but also brought lace news, he drank a bad stomach in the socializing, and when he was hospitalized, he met a female doctor named Oria, and with her help successfully signed the business. When leaving the Soviet Union, Oria set up a feast, and the two kissed together through the effect of alcohol.

After this lace news appeared in the newspaper, Hao Dongmei took the newspaper and questioned Zhou Bingyi, he explained that this was local etiquette, Hao Dongmei naturally understood the mystery, but only let his mother find an opportunity to knock him, did not really entangle this matter, pressed and did not mention it.

Because Hao Dongmei understands very well, even if this matter is true, what can he do? Her parents have long retired for many years, and it is an eternal truth in the official field that people take tea and cold, if she wants to continue to be her own "rich flower", she can only rely on her husband Zhou Bingyi, so she cannot break up.

"In the World": It is not that Hao Dongmei is too cold, but that she has been accustomed to relying on others since she was a child

IV. In his later years, Hao Dongmei climbed the rich man's nobility

Zhou Bingyi has been self-disciplined and refined throughout his life, and the officials have become bigger and bigger, so that his daughter-in-law and mother-in-law are highly respected and have always lived in the envy of others. However, when Zhou Bingyi was seriously ill and retired from the official arena, Hao Dongmei began to judge the two, and the woman who did not lose her demeanor in the down-and-out era began to become cynical and jealous, and she was angry at every turn.

The original Hao Dongmei knew Dali and never spoke dissatisfied with social reality, others said that she did not take the stubble, usually took advantage of people's lack of attention to leave, but after retirement, especially after Zhou Bingyi's illness, she was not only extremely concerned, but also enjoyed it, and even swear words were frequent.

On the surface, Hao Dongmei hates some "second generation of officials" and "third generations of officials", and those who use the influence of the older generation for profit are actually better than saying that she hates others for having more wealth and power than she has.

After the husband and wife were idle, Hao Dongmei accepted the invitation of his old classmate and took Zhou Bingyi to Play in Europe. At that time, the middle school classmates who were born from the children of high-ranking cadres basically became the first to get rich, and many of them had already moved abroad and lived a colorful life abroad.

The attitude of these old classmates toward Hao Dongmei is not so much sympathetic as it is actually more like pity, because people like her who have retired from the position of director have simply become an outlier in their eyes, and they feel that her life is miserable, and they have to spare no effort to help.

In fact, Zhou Bingyi can see that these classmates of Hao Dongmei are really not polite, because they are the same type of people, sincere, enthusiastic, intimate and friendly, far above the general classmate relationship, without any communication barriers, this is the same circle.

The trip to Europe allowed Hao Dongmei to re-enter the circle she once had, and it also made her mood more difficult to calm down. Soon after, Zhou Bingyi suffered from stomach cancer and died soon after. Three months later, Zhou Rong received a text message from Hao Dongmei, hoping that she could be her bridesmaid.

Hao Dongmei's second husband, also introduced by her European friends, is the same as her "red second generation", the father and son do a lot of transnational business, the longer they go abroad, the more they miss their homeland.

As a person of Zhou Bingyi, he must also hope that Hao Dongmei will have a good life, just as Hao said to Zhou Rong, "I made such a decision for your brother, and before he died, he asked me to promise him to do this." Of course, I also need to find a new home. “

It's just that Zhou Bingyi himself may not have imagined that less than three months after his death, lovers who had been in the same boat for decades had directly married someone else. It can be seen that for Hao Dongmei, love is just a dispensable thing, and what she likes is ultimately "not rich or expensive".

"In the World": It is not that Hao Dongmei is too cold, but that she has been accustomed to relying on others since she was a child

V: Epilogue

Since birth, Hao Dongmei has been attached to her parents' magnates and has been accustomed to this sense of superiority since childhood. When he was down, he could only rely on Zhou Bingyi, who came from a worker's family, so as to get life and political protection, and the residual temperature of his mother's rights could only play a role through Zhou Bingyi.

Hao Dongmei retired, Zhou Bingyi retired, so that Hao has a huge gap in her heart, a trip to Europe, let her see the changes of the times, at this time she understands that money is what she wants.

Hao Dongmei is a "rich flower in the world", all his life is constantly attached to others, never really belonged to himself, as long as he can live in the envy of others, the rest is not important.

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