Xinju: Feng Xiaoqin's life was doomed the moment she decided to marry Gu Lei
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Release on 2022-03-2217:24
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Haiqing, nursery rhymes and Zhang Songwen starring in the TV series "Heart Residence" was broadcast immediately, and Haiqing, who played Feng Xiaoqin in the play, also rushed to the hot search because of his acting skills, but the full acting skills of this drama are online, if there is no accident, it will be a big hit!
The story is based on the whole family of feng xiaoqin, a daughter-in-law from abroad, and Lang Jun, a local.
Haiqing's Feng Xiaoqin, nursery rhyme's big sister Gu Qingyu, a tenacious and capable, a shrewd and strong, two people under the same roof, a series of stories of open and secret struggles, two people also from tit-for-tat to mutual understanding, and finally accompanied by important moments in life.
Many people say that watching this drama will make people afraid of marriage, mainly because of the encounter of Feng Xiaoqin's role, and personally agree with this view, but fear of marriage should not reach this level, after all, every family has its own story.
Feng Xiaoqin's family is from abroad, because he was not admitted to college, he came to shanghai to work in the metropolis, in order to be able to settle down in this city, he was introduced to the local Lang Gulei.
Gu Lei is a native of Shanghai, the family is not good, there is an eldest sister Gu Qingyu in the family, shrewd and capable, loving his brother, his mother died early, the family in the grandmother, father and aunt to help, the two brothers and sisters grew up smoothly.
Gu Lei's natural personality is weak and he has no ability, but when Feng Xiaoqin saw Gu Lei, he stuck it like a moth to a fire, just so that he could stay in the city of Shanghai
The two were married for eight years, and with a cute son, Little Tiger, Gu Lei found a job with the help of his eldest sister, with a small salary, and did not need too strong ability, just needed to live in peace.
After Feng Xiaoqin married into the Gu family, she became a full-time wife, taking care of the whole family's life at home, eating three meals a day, buying vegetables and cooking, picking up her son to school, and taking care of the whole family very thoughtfully.
There is a detail in the play, in the morning, the family gets up, they see that there is breakfast on the table that everyone likes to eat, and they eat happily, and the husband who wants to go to work asks from time to time, where is my wife's clothes, where is my watch, and where is my son asking me where my school bag is?
This detail makes people sigh, Feng Xiaoqin is at home, meticulous, and every small detail is remembered in mind, in case the family needs it.
Here we are not difficult to find that Feng Xiaoqin is like a nanny, serving this family of old and young, in addition to hard work, she still feels happy, after all, the feelings of the two couples are very good, and the family gets along very well.
Compared with some full-time mothers in real life, Feng Xiaoqin does not have to face a strong husband, can be a housewife with peace of mind, and does not have to worry about her husband having an affair, although it is bitter, it is also acceptable.
Feng Xiaoqin looked at her growing son and moved to buy a house, because although the family is relatively large, but the four generations are in the same house, the house is simply not enough to live, and there is a big sister who is not out of the cabinet, the current eight-year-old son can only squeeze in a room with himself, and buying a house has become an urgent thing.
So Feng Xiaoqin forced her husband Gu Lei to borrow money from the eldest sister, but how could such a shrewd person as the eldest sister not see through the affairs of these two couples, and the family of three closed the door to discuss how not to borrow money.
Seeing this, some viewers will have the impulse to rush into the TV to make gu Lei, a fool, it seems that Feng Xiaoqin is usually too accommodating to them.
The money was not borrowed, there was no way, Feng Xiaoqin's girlfriend thought of a way to run away from home and let them try it for a few days when no one took care of it.
But Feng Xiaoqin finally did not bear to be tricked by her husband to go home, and in the end she did not borrow money, and her great aunt and aunt also came to the house to persuade them not to buy a house.
Finally, Feng Xiaoqin couldn't help but get mad, and the great aunt and aunt left curtly.
However, in the end, Gu Father took out half a million yuan to pay a deposit to Feng Xiaoqin, and the matter of buying a house was settled.
From here, it is not difficult to see that since Feng Xiaoqin met Gu Lei, she has put her posture particularly low, and in the face of such incompetence and a man, she is still unwilling to let go and wants to marry him.
After getting married, he served the whole family like a nanny, but he did not receive wages like a nanny, and he was also looked down upon by the Gu family and his relatives.
Many people see Feng Xiaoqin's encounter and feel afraid of marriage, but have you ever thought that in marriage, you put your posture so low, anyone can step on your feet, what dignity do you have? What do you do to ask others to respect you?
If you want to win the respect of others, you must first respect yourself, so that you can win the minimum respect of others, right?
There is also a detail in the play, Feng Xiaoqin's sister Feng Xixi did not get admitted to college, and after her sister got married, she also came to Shanghai to look for opportunities and lived in the Gu family, but she worked in a small supermarket, earning not an ordinary little, so in the Gu family, she was ostensibly a guest, in the eyes of the Gu family, that is, a nanny who did not want money.
Because the eldest aunt and son were getting married and bought a big mansion, the great aunt felt that the son's family was so big, the son and daughter-in-law were working in the government department, and no one cleaned up, so they hit Feng Xixi's body.
The great aunt and Gu Father discussed and let XiXi go to her son's house as a nanny, and the salary she gave must be more than that of doing odd jobs in the supermarket. Gu's father refused at that time, saying that XiXi was a guest in our house.
And Feng Xixi ran out of the Gu family angrily at that time, wanting to stay in Shanghai, it is really not so easy, look at her sister, these years are not easy, but with her current strength, it is impossible to win the respect of others, so, after hurting her self-esteem, Xi Qian still returned to the Gu family after waking up outside.
From these details, it seems that in the city of Shanghai, it is difficult to get a Shanghai hukou and become a new Shanghainese, but it is not impossible for people with insufficient ability to achieve their goals through the springboard of marriage.
Many people look at the fear of marriage, in fact, if the marriage of two people are equal, mutual respect, mutual self-respect and self-love, I believe that in the marriage is also relatively happy, Feng Xiaoqin bones feel that they have climbed the Gu family, so it is easy for the Gu family to look down on themselves.
This may also be a kind of taking your own needs.
Therefore, Feng Xiaoqin's position in the marriage and the end of her marriage were already doomed when she chose to marry this person, and this choice was made by herself, and no one forced her, so whether it was bitter or tired, she could only bear it herself.
The follow-up of the story will have greater changes, how the family should get along, as Gu Lei leads the box lunch offline, the contradictions of the family are further intensified, nursery rhymes and Haiqing will also have a large number of sisters-in-law tricks, these may be what everyone loves to watch.
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