The TV series "Heart Residence" starring Haiqing and Tong Yao was broadcast, did you watch it?
The scene of the sister-in-law arguing in the play looks too enjoyable, Tong Yao and HaiQing are on the same stage after the scene, and the audience can't help but watch it, especially after Gu Lei went offline, the quarrel between Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Qingyu was successfully brought into the role by the two actors.
When feng Xiaoqin was seen hysterically questioning, many viewers expressed sympathy, as if they saw many married women from Feng Xiaoqin's body.
Feng Xiaoqin's nanny-style marriage status
Feng Xiaoqin's marriage is a typical "nanny-style" marriage, after marriage as a full-time wife, not only to take care of children, but also to take care of the elderly, three meals a day can not be less, housework is all covered, the daily thing is to surround the husband, the elderly and children.
Doing more than a nanny, but not taking a penny, and even being looked down upon.
Feng Xiaoqin was very tired, she married into the Gu family for eight years, because of the requirements of her husband's family, so she did not go to work, after marrying, in addition to not wanting her to pay, basically she was required to do it.
On weekdays, Feng Xiaoqin has to take care of a family of five, meals must be done well, and housework must be done well. At the time of the family gathering, more than a dozen people were busy, only she was busy, the living room was the elders and peers watching TV and chatting, and in the kitchen was her alone washing, stir-frying, and cooking.
When everyone else was on the table, she still had to stir-fry in the kitchen, and she didn't have a chance to eat a bite of food. He looked at her coldly and didn't see any help.
If it was to treat her as a family member, Feng Xiaoqin had done so many things, and in the end she was still treated as an outsider.
She wants to buy a house, but she is jealous of herself, emphasizing that she can't just write her name, and her husband, father-in-law and eldest sister are hiding in the room for a small meeting, but behind her back, they are calculating her.
In the Gu family, Feng Xiaoqin is not respected, not understood and trusted, and will even be said to be angry with yin and yang, she seems to be a free nanny of this family, just need to marry home to a place to live, you can do a lifetime of things for the Gu family.
What is the difference between Feng Xiaoqin's life and that of a nanny?
Why are more and more people afraid of marriage
Seeing Feng Xiaoqin's life, I instantly understood why more and more women would be afraid of marriage, because they were afraid of meeting a husband like Gu Lei and an in-laws like the Gu family.
Gu Lei is a typical type of person who is satisfied with the status quo, as long as he eats and drinks, has a job, and lives well. So they don't want to make progress, they just want to live well now.
When Feng Xiaoqin forced Gu Lei to go to the examination meeting, Gu Lei would violate the yin and yang, prevaricate the past, and make a big fight every time the examination. If you marry such a husband, you will be insecure for a lifetime, because your husband can't earn money, and the family's income has to rely on the help of the eldest sister.
The Gu family is a typical enjoyment family, and I have to admit that the Gu family has money, plus a Gu Qingyu who will earn money, so the old age of the two elderly people in the Gu family does not have to worry at all.
When they are young, they may rarely cook, or hire nannies and part-time workers, get used to enjoyment, and don't think about doing it themselves.
Once you meet such a husband or family, if the woman still gives up financial independence, then the marriage will certainly not be happy.
More and more people are afraid of marriage, mainly from having to bear too much after marriage, especially women. Take Feng Xiaoqin, for example, the Gu family simply treats her like a nanny to summon, wash and cook with children, etc., inside and out are her.
But the Gu family did not regard her as their own, if they regarded Feng Xiaoqin as their daughter-in-law, then they would not exclude her when discussing family affairs, nor would they be wary of her everywhere.
After marriage, I tired and tired to take care of the family, and finally I was treated as an outsider, and the psychological gap was very large, so I would be afraid of marriage.
If you are a person, just think about yourself, you don't need to prepare three meals a day, you don't need to do housework inside and out, and you don't need to be angry.
Seeing Feng Xiaoqin's encounter, I have to say that it is precisely because there is such a thing in reality that everyone will feel empathy and feel that Feng Xiaoqin is really not easy.