Family circumstances have a great influence on dress and behavior.
Children who grow up in different families will have great differences in personality, and in a relaxed and pleasant environment, children are more confident and optimistic, and for a long time in a repressive environment, children are naturally inferior and autistic.
Moreover, these behavioral characteristics cannot be concealed at all, as long as they have dealt with them, they can immediately know the real reason, ordinary people are not to mention teachers.
Our children are bored with school, which is caused by the teacher!
Mu Mu's hometown is in a remote rural area, his parents have been working outside the home for many years, originally handed mu mu to his grandmother to take care of, which is considered to be a left-behind child and a left-behind elderly.
When Mu Mu was 6 years old, her mother decided to take Mu Mu to her side, go to preschool for a year, and then directly enroll in school when she was 7 years old. After all, the quality of teaching in rural areas is very worrying, or better in cities.
At first, Mu Mu came to a new environment and felt very good, and the high-rise buildings opened their eyes, and he was very excited that there were no longer just cabbage and potatoes on the table every day.
However, his low self-esteem made him very timid, and after going to school, he did not dare to talk to the children in the class, even if the teacher asked him, he could not say it clearly.
Over time, the teacher didn't ask him much. The children also felt that he was too lonely, often posing as if no one was allowed to enter, and did not want to play with him.
One day, Mu Mu tentatively told his mother that I didn't want to go to school, I wanted to go back to take care of my grandmother, the city school was not good at all, I didn't want to go to school.
Hearing Mu Mu say this, the mother called the teacher without saying a word, and the teacher was irresponsible, and even the responsibility for the child's boredom was all off to the teacher.
Alpaca mom has something to say:
The teacher's responsibility is unshirkable, and it is the teacher who does not guide Mumu in time to help him overcome his fears, and does not communicate in time, delaying the best time.
Moreover, it may also be because the teacher saw that Mu Mu's family situation was not very good, and consciously did not want to see Mu Mu, thinking that such a family could not cultivate any good children at all, so subjectively gave up on him.
But in fact, are there fewer teachers who will take such a distinction today? Examples abound of labeling children because of their family status and thus changing a child's life.
The kindergarten teacher knows how the child's family situation is, and these "characteristics" cannot be hidden at all
The price of clothes and shoes under your feet
When a child's family is very superior, the clothes they wear must be a notch higher. And those children who dress ordinaryly, the family situation is naturally also a working family.
Because of different family circumstances, mothers' consumption capacity is different, and the grade of goods selected is naturally different. It is no exaggeration to say that economic strength and taste are directly proportional, and rich mothers do not allow their children to dress mediocrely or even shabby.
Even affordable clothes and high-end clothes can be distinguished at a glance. Therefore, when the kindergarten teacher observes the child's dress for several days in a row, he can know a little bit.
What is the level of self-confidence when social interactions
The same is the choice of toys, children with poor families can only choose cheap toys, or natural stones or dirt in nature. And those children with good families can choose high-tech toys, VR or electronic products.
Moreover, because of the difference in toys, the impact on children's eyes follows, and the latter must be faster than the former when accepting new things, which naturally leads to them talking more when expressing themselves with their peers.
Therefore, when the teacher introduces new things to the children, observe the children's performance, you can judge the child's family situation.
Attitude and willingness to follow the rules
According to our previous thinking, we will think that children with good families will be more spoiled, because parents with rich wealth will be arrogant about their children's various problems and put on an attitude of how I have money.
But in fact, children from well-off families today know more politely than children from ordinary families. Because parents are high-society people, how can they tolerate their children's behavior that violates the norm?
Therefore, those children who can strictly abide by the rules set by the teacher are often the product of superior family situation. And those children who are not well off, they are even more troubled.
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