Today, 90% of children are sent to kindergarten at the age of 3.
When the baby is 2 years old, it has entered the sensitive period of social interaction, and the baby at this stage, parents must know how to let go, can no longer hold on to them tightly, but let them exercise in society.
But this exercise is different from college students entering society, but it only has some initial contact with society, contact with some nature, play with peers, and even go to the park to see the white pigeons foraging on the ground.
Sensitive periods of social interaction are not a sign that you can go to kindergarten
The desire for social interaction and kindergarten are two very different concepts
2-year-old babies begin to have the desire to explore the world, flowers and birds, and the companionship of children of the same age will stimulate their curiosity. But it does not mean that we must communicate all the time, nor is it absolutely impossible without contact.
If possible, sending your baby to an early education institution for systematic education is a good choice. Receiving 2 hours of training at the early education center every day can exercise the development of your baby's brain without causing them to fear.
This fear is also the product of separation from my mother. Babies at this stage are in the stage of intuitive image thinking, as long as they can't see their mother, they will have uneasy emotions, and they can't accept that their mother is only leaving briefly.
At this time, if the baby is sent to kindergarten, the separation from the mother is too long, and their sense of security will be overdrawn little by little. Thus hindering the normal development of thinking and brain.
2-year-olds are also weak in their ability to take care of themselves
2-year-old babies are very weak in their ability to go to the toilet, although at the age of one and a half, the mother can start to try to help the baby quit diapers, exercise themselves to go to the toilet, but to really achieve their own alone toilet, to be around the age of 3.
Therefore, 2-year-old children will inevitably wet their pants frequently when they go to kindergarten, even if the kindergarten teacher can tirelessly change the pants for the child, but the child's psychic damage is still very large.
Coupled with the ridicule of other children, children are likely to be reluctant to go to the toilet for this reason, or hate to go to kindergarten. Whether it is the former or the latter, it is not easy to solve.
When your child reaches the age of 3, he will be sent to kindergarten?
Then, since children around the age of 2 are not suitable for kindergarten, then according to the choice of other mothers, they can be sent to kindergarten at the age of 3. If you are over 3 years old and have not been sent to kindergarten, are you not losing the starting line?
Moreover, most parents will make such a choice, taking 3 years old as a time node, you can send your children to kindergarten as early as 3 years old, and the sooner parents feel the better. That is, the success of the run.
But such behavior can sometimes harm the child. Although the development level of different children is different, the general development indicators will not be far apart, and how many "prodigies" are there in life?
It's just that the specific situation needs to be controlled by parents themselves. Even if you have been over 3 years old and have not yet been sent to kindergarten, don't worry too much, maybe this kind of growth environment is more suitable for children!
Parenting experts admit that sending to kindergarten at the age of 3 is not the best choice
We all know that boys mature later than girls, which is related to the hormones in boys' bodies and the development of boys' way of thinking, so whether it is a 3-year-old baby boy or an 18-year-old boy, it is "childish" than girls of the same age.
In this way, if there is a baby boy at home, before sending the baby to kindergarten, we must pay more attention to all aspects of the baby's ability, whether it can sleep independently, go to the bathroom independently, and play well with children and so on.
In addition, whether it is a baby girl or a baby boy, there is someone at home to take care of it, and if possible, it is best to send it to the kindergarten a little later. 3 and a half years old is a good time. Similarly, baby boys can be a little later.
Babies at this age can self-regulate their attachment to their parents, control their emotions, understand the teacher's words, and follow the rules well.
Alpaca mom has something to say:
Mothers must correct their own thinking, the purpose of the baby's kindergarten is to promote growth, not to grow and promote seedlings. This is supposed to be a natural thing to do, and if you do the opposite, there is no need.
Moreover, when the baby does not go to kindergarten, the mothers can not completely ignore, think that what things wait until after kindergarten, the teacher will teach the baby, but they have hidden from idleness.
Such thinking is a must. Whether it is kindergarten or primary school, home co-education is the most important, even if parents do not know anything, do not have any experience, but also try to learn, and grow up with children.
Today's Topic:
How old is your child in kindergarten? How long was his period of anxiety at kindergarten? How did you guide it?