A man's first charm is a sense of responsibility. ——Yu Qiuyu
In the entertainment industry, the feelings of artists seem to be very casual, some people can divorce just after marriage, and some people can also find a girl who is dozens of years younger than themselves to talk about a grandchild love. There are many examples of marriage and children, and there are many celebrities who are fathers at the age of 58, such as Li Shuangjiang, who gave birth to a son at the age of 58, and Wang Gang, who gave birth to a son at the age of 60.
Among them, the most admirable is the Macau gambling king, who can give birth to a daughter when he is 78 years old. But now his record has long been broken by Liu Shikun. Because he can still be a father at the age of 81, it is really amazing.
The 81-year-old is overjoyed
In 2020, although Liu Shikun, who is already 81 years old, is still not old, he let his 44-year-old wife give birth to a daughter for him. Liu Shikun was particularly happy because of this, and directly named her daughter BeiBei, which means the little baby held in the palm of his hand.
Of course, this could not have been his first child, and his wife was not his first.
He had been married twice before her. It is hard to imagine that Liu Shikun's eldest son was born in 1964 and is already 57 years old, and the second son was born in 1996 and is now 25 years old. Compared with this child, Liu Shikun's eldest son can almost be her grandfather.
Despite this, Liu Shikun still did not shy away from sharing this joy with everyone. Liu Shikun's wife also said that her husband especially likes this little daughter, usually likes to stick to her, hold her at home and play, and do not feel tired at all. Although the age difference between the two is 81 years, he especially cherishes this daughter.
Liu Shikun also knows that she is old and may not accompany her daughter for a long time. But he hopes that when his daughter grows up, she will not forget him and know how much he loves her. Every time he said this, his eyes would be red, but he did not expect that when his wife comforted him, he would say something very surprising.
Because they were worried that their daughter would be too lonely when she was old, they wanted to have another brother and sister for her to accompany her. But they also know that everything has to go with the flow.
At the age of 83, I still want to have a second child
Their way of getting along in this way also makes many people sigh, in fact, love is indeed irrelevant to age.
Although at the beginning of the two people after marriage, the outside world is not optimistic about them, and even add up to the bad words, but over the years, their love life has indeed shown a different sweetness to everyone.
They love each other and live happily ever after, but there is a gap in age, but this does not affect their love for each other in the slightest. They know that age affects love, but age is by no means a factor in determining happiness in life.
Although there is a big difference in the age of two people, they will firmly grasp each other after falling in love. Although there are many difficulties in life, they have overcome them one by one, and there is also the crystallization of love.
The two of them are national treasure piano masters, one is a piano player, with the same interests, so that the two have a lot of psychological fit, coupled with the spark of love, so that they do not consider so much in terms of age.
Maybe this is why, they themselves feel that the age difference is nothing, so they still want to fight for the second child. Although the difference between the two people is 37 years, their psychological age is very young. In an interview, his wife also revealed that although she was already an elderly woman, she still wanted to prepare for a second child.
For Liu Shikun, although he is so old, he is also looking forward to the arrival of his second child. He prefers that his daughter will be accompanied by younger siblings in the future, rather than being alone.
Therefore, the two people have put the plan of the second child on the agenda and discussed it with the family. After all, Liu Shikun's age is there, can not be too demanding, can only go with nature, if you really get pregnant with them will naturally be very happy.
Is it not responsible for children to have children at an advanced age?
But everyone also feels that it is unlikely to be realized, after all, Liu Shikun has almost no possibility of childbearing at this age.
Liu Shikun's birth of a child last year has shocked many people, and he also broke the record of the gambling king who gave birth to a daughter at the age of 78. If we are older, we don't know.
In fact, many people are also worried about what will happen to this daughter's future, after all, her father's age means that he will not accompany her for a long time. In fact, Liu Shikun has long planned, for this daughter, Liu Shikun has now prepared more than 400 million yuan of education funds for her, which has ensured that her daughter can have no worries about food and clothing in the next life, no matter when she can not worry about money.
In addition to their daughters, the beneficiaries of this program will have two vacant seats to fill the vacancies, perhaps these two vacancies are their second or third births.
There are also many people who feel that it is not just a matter of money. Liu Shikun is such an old age to become a father, there should not be too much sense of responsibility, after all, the age gap between father and daughter is too large. Besides, he had not been an untimely father, and both of his wives bore him children.
Therefore, having a child at his age is almost irresponsible to the child. After all, he could not grow up with his children, missing his most important adolescence.
However, Liu Shikun did not think so, although he felt that there was no special feeling about being a father, but she especially liked her daughter, and when he saw her daughter, it was difficult to hide the excitement in his heart, and even every hour or two he would secretly look at her, and his heart was full of sweetness.
The last point is that at the age of 80, you still want to have a child, and from a physical point of view, the child's body may not inherit good genes. After all, his father's health is not guaranteed, and for Liu Shikun's wife, the age of 40 is an advanced maternal age, and she has a great risk of giving birth to a child.
When a child is born, it is another big problem in education. They are older, they must not be able to keep up physically and mentally, coupled with the three-year-old generation gap, how different their educational philosophy is from modern educational concepts, we can't imagine.
But compared with these, it is the biggest irresponsibility to really not pay attention to raising children, which has nothing to do with age, but only with their sense of responsibility.
Judging from the current situation, they cherish this child so much that they should make a decision after comprehensive consideration. Then let's wait and see, hoping that they can harvest the second child of their love.