Each child's family situation is different, and the quality of the family environment directly affects the child's mental health.
The family is the cradle of children's birth, parents are the child's first teachers, and the family is the most important place for the formation of children's psychological quality.
The impact of the family environment on the formation and development of children's psychological quality is long-term and profound. Therefore, the establishment of a good family environment is an important guarantee for the healthy development of children's physical and mental health and the formation of good psychological quality.
According to the data, the incidence of anxiety or depression problems in mainland children is about 6%-7%, and these children appear to be withdrawn, easily agitated, irritable or poorly communicated. Among them, school-age children have a decline in academic performance and are prone to disciplinary violations. Anxiety or depression problems can be identified by an anxiety or depression volume analysis.
Many studies have shown that the occurrence of mental ill-health problems in children is mostly closely related to poor family environment. For male children, family conflicts and parental divorce are major sources of anxiety or depression.
For female children, it is not only psychological problems due to family conflicts or parental divorce, but also related to family intimacy, emotional expression, knowledge, entertainment, etc.
It can be seen that in the process of children's growth, parents should actively provide children with a harmonious and friendly family environment, rich in family affection and interest, and minimize family conflicts.
In particular, parents should become a role model for their children, not worry about small things, be open-minded and optimistic, so that children are well educated, reduce the incidence of unhealthy psychological problems such as anxiety and depression, and promote the healthy development of children's physical and mental health.
The influence of the family on children is subtle.
If parents grow up violent, scolding, and quarreling, they will make their children feel insecure. After a long time, the child will slowly worry, be suspicious, timid, or develop in the opposite extreme direction.
The child is like a blank piece of paper, on which there are landscape paintings, or animals, all of which are written by parents. You will find that parents who often play with mobile phones, their children must also like to hold mobile phones, if this becomes a habit, then the future of the children is very worrying.
2. A good family emotional atmosphere is the premise of the formation of good psychological quality
The emotional atmosphere of the family refers to the general attitudes and feelings that prevail in the family, which are composed through language and interpersonal atmosphere.
This atmosphere directly affects the psychology of each family member in the family, especially for the formation of children's personality.
It is necessary to vigorously promote family virtues, correctly handle the mutual relations of family members, and form good norms.
For example, we must not oppress people by speaking and doing things, we must convince people with reason, teach people with emotions, teach people by example, get along harmoniously, respect the old and love children, and be civilized in language.
Strive to build a harmonious atmosphere in the family, fully reflect that the family is the harbor of life, and help the formation of children's psychological quality.
3. A good parenting attitude of parents is the key to the formation of good psychological quality
A democratic, normal attitude towards educating children, such families can be patient, equal, easy-going, understanding, mutual love and care.
Parents can give their children more encouragement and inducements, and they can properly criticize and correct their children's shortcomings and mistakes, improve their children's awareness, and correct their shortcomings.
In this way, children are gradually cultivated to be honest and friendly to others, self-respect, self-reliance, generosity, enthusiasm, can accept criticism, withstand pressure, care for others, and have the ability to deal with things independently.
The family environment plays an important role in the formation of children's personality, as long as we parents are correctly raised and create a harmonious family atmosphere for our children, it is inevitable that children will have a good character and can grow up healthily.
As the saying goes, "Good medicine is good for the sick, and good advice is good for the ear." ”
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[Author of this article]: Secretary Zhang of Orangutan Village
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