Children's clothing rises "milk and spicy wind", People's Network: How can a distorted childhood be restarted?

Suspenders, tight skirts, high heels, it's hard to imagine that these words would be associated with children's clothing.

But now when we search for girls' clothing on e-commerce sites, a bunch of small models full of "mature taste" will pop up.

If you don't distinguish carefully, you can't tell whether it's adult women's clothing or the so-called "girls' clothing".

Backless skirts, off-the-shoulder outfits, crop tops, these "styles" that are also slightly sexy for some adults, are dressed up in children.

What's more frightening is that these clothes are gradually being accepted by parents, and there are various "hot girl outfits" designed by parents for their children on social media.

Some people even gave this style a special name, called "milk spicy wind".

As the name suggests, even a child with a milky voice can take the "sexy hot" route and dress up as a "hot girl".

But can children's childlike faces, with revealing clothes and sexy postures, really be "spicy"?

Presumably, any normal person who sees a child in such a costume, the first reaction is physiological discomfort, followed by questions about parents:

Why do people dress up children like this, and what is the psychology?

The healthy growth of children is inseparable from the correct guidance of parents, rather than distorting children's aesthetic and psychological development under the banner of "freedom of dressing".

As the hot comment given by People's Daily for "Milk Spicy Wind":

How will children's distorted childhood come all over again?

Don't let a deformed aesthetic ruin your child

What kind of clothing children wear, to put it bluntly, is a reflection of the will of parents, and they themselves have no autonomy.

Some parents let their children take the "milk and spicy style" route, which may be new and fun, or may be to follow the trend, or simply want to "suck up a wave of fans" on social media.

But for children, the impact of "milk and spicy wind" wearing is extremely far-reaching.

Children's psychological development is immature, aesthetics and values have not yet been developed, and what parents do will subtly exert an important influence on children.

The wearing of "milk and spicy" will make children mistakenly think that they can also dress "hot", sexy exposure is female beauty, premature to imitate the clothes of adults, and even every move.

But this is obviously inappropriate for children, and it is easy to develop deformed aesthetic concepts for children.

And from a psychological level, premature contact with the adult world may trigger "precocious puberty" in children's minds, making children subconsciously regard themselves as an adult, harming children's mental health.

Therefore, for any reason, it is a big mistake to let children dress "milky and spicy".

Not all eyes looking at children are pure

Associating children with sexy and hot clothes is actually equivalent to another form of "child soft pornography", which can easily expose children to the scrutiny of bad people.

As parents, you should understand that in the Internet age, information spreads faster and more widely than you can imagine, and we cannot guarantee that all eyes looking at children are pure.

The Supreme People's Procuratorate has released a set of data showing that in the three years from 2017 to 2019, the number of people prosecuted by the procuratorate for crimes suspected of sexual assault of minors reached 43,400.

And that's just the number of prosecutions, and there will only be more than that in cases where they hide in the shadows and are not discovered, or where parents swallow their anger and do not call the police for the sake of their children.

We can't assume that every friend around us is a good person, let alone the online world for everyone.

Uploading photos of children dressed hot on social media is likely to attract outlaws to the gaze from the abyss.

But sadly, not all parents understand this, and they are even complacent about likes and compliments from strangers on social media.

Give children the "freedom to dress" they deserve

For the child's "milk and spicy style" dress, some parents will think, isn't it easy to dress freely? I am willing to dress my children as they please, this is my freedom, and no one else has the right to interfere.

Indeed, parents can dress their children full of childlike fun, and they can also make their children dress casually, but they cannot dress up their children as so-called "milk and spicy style".

The beauty of children lies in the innocence that is not polluted by the world, not in the violation brought about by the exposure of mature clothing, and the mature aesthetics in the adult world should not be brought into the child's world.

What's more, is it really out of the child's own opinion that parents dress up their children as "milk and spicy wind"?

Children's values and aesthetics have not yet been developed, and many times they are imposed on them by their parents, who only know that parents think that this way of wearing will look good, and then feel that this kind of dress can win the love of others.

For children, the so-called freedom to dress is originally a false proposition.

Therefore, when children are ignorant and do not know what is true beauty, parents have the obligation to guide their children to develop healthy aesthetic concepts and dress their children in clothes that are suitable for their age, which is the real "freedom to dress".

Epilogue:

The so-called "milk and spicy style" is just to change the name of "child soft pornography" that is more in line with the trend and more acceptable.

Parents make their children dress up "milk and spicy style", not only will make the child develop a deformed aesthetic, but also provide a gourmet feast for those bad people, and it is the child who is ultimately injured.

Today's topic: What do you think of the child's "milk and spicy style" dress?