"Caigen Tan" ninety-six, the spring breeze thaws, and the family has had it, it is not appropriate to be angry, it is not appropriate to abandon it, this matter is difficult to say, and it is ironic to use other things; Like a spring breeze

"Caigen Tan"

Ninety-six, the spring breeze thaws, and the air is de-iced

Family members have had, it is not advisable to be angry, it is not advisable to abandon it, this matter is difficult to say, and it is ironic to use other things; if you don't understand it today, you will be warned again in the future.

If the spring breeze thaws, if the air is peaceful and the ice is removed, it is the model of the family.

【Translation】

When a person in his own family makes a mistake, he should not lose his temper casually, nor should he easily let it go and leave it alone; if he is unable to explain the mistake directly, he should use the metaphor of other things to admonish and hint at it; if he is still unable to repent for a while, he must patiently wait for the opportunity to give advice. This method of education is like a warm wind in spring that thaws the cold of winter, just as a warm air stream melts condensed ice. Such a family can be considered a happy and happy family.

[Comment]

There are two types of education methods that are most likely to go to extremes in family education, one is the beating and scolding type, and the other is the laissez-faire type. The former is that parents either beat or scold their children who make mistakes, with a rough attitude and simple methods, neither analyzing the reasons for making mistakes, nor paying attention to the effects that education should achieve, and the education is completed after beating and scolding. This kind of education method is not conducive to the growth of children, and beating and scolding have become habits, either the child bears silently and becomes cowardly, or the child resists and causes greater mistakes. The latter is that parents are indifferent to their children's affairs, eat, drink and have fun by themselves, either in song halls and dance halls or playing mahjong, and let their children grow up freely. This is not at all fulfilling the responsibility of parents, and it may lead to more mistakes due to the bad influence of parents. The family education environment and family education methods are inseparable, and the warm family and the gentle education method are the cradle of children's growth.