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The criteria for happiness and success in life vary from person to person, with some people valuing material possessions, while others are more concerned about family happiness and inner fulfillment.
Having a car, a house and a deposit is not as good as family harmony and happiness, and family happiness is the real success.
But how do you get the happiness that family happiness brings?
Today, I will talk about my own perception in this aspect.
First, there is the help of parents.
When I was a child, my parents were notoriously wealthy in the village, with large fields and a large number of livestock, and not only that, but my father was also a wealthy merchant in the village, and the family also had a small workshop.
Therefore, although the family has six children, they have always lived very well, without suffering from hunger at all, and many other material conditions that are not available to others.
When I was studying, my parents not only gave me the best tuition and living expenses, but also gave me a house of my own so that I could study, and they also covered all the expenses of my life.
This made me jealous of many people in school, who felt that I had money in my family, and I didn't have to worry about it, and I didn't have to study hard to get into a good school.
But they didn't know that all the hard work that was able to give me was paid for by my parents with their own hands, and I should cherish it, study hard, and be admitted to a good school.
Therefore, since I started school, I have been working very hard, and I have been able to get in the top few exams every time, and I have been the first in my grade in the final exam every time.
When I was admitted to college, my parents also gave me a sports car, which made me a new "rich second generation" in college and became more jealous.
But I don't care, because I know that those people haven't experienced my life, so they won't understand that it's not a happy thing to have this.
As a result, I am still a very hard worker, and I have been able to get the first place in my grade every time, and I have won many other awards.
But when I graduated from college and was about to look for a job, I suddenly found that there were some problems in my father's business, so the money I spent along the way made my parents nervous.
So, I decided to give up looking for a job and chose to stay at home to help my father solve his business problems.
My father was very impressed, so we have been very smooth in business, and then my father's business has become bigger and bigger, and it has become a large enterprise, and I have become the general manager of this company.
My father was very satisfied with my abilities, so he completely handed over the business to me, and he just took a position as a porter in the company, and he would come to help us with some things every day.
With the help of my father, I successfully helped my father make the company bigger and bigger, and finally became the chairman of a listed company.
Since then, my father and I have run a business together and have lived a very happy and fulfilling life.
Second, there is no one to help.
However, because his father is getting older and his health is no longer as good as before, he finally left this world.
I was very sad about my father's departure, but I also knew that life would go on, so I had to bear it all on my own.
However, without my father's help, I still encountered a lot of trouble in the company, and some people even wanted to bring down my company.
But I relied on my own ability to defeat them in the end, and the company became bigger and bigger, but I was not satisfied and still struggled hard.
It wasn't until one day, when I had a little achievement, that I realized that I had always been trying to prove my abilities.
My father's help is like a pie falling from the sky, but the money I earn is easy to spend, which makes me very sad.
Because I have experienced that it was difficult to be alone without my father's help, so now whenever I want to give up, I tell myself that there are still people waiting for me.
There are many people watching me, and I can't let my father be disappointed in the spirit of heaven.
III. Conclusion.
The help of parents is a kind of luck, but self-reliance is also a quality, and we need to learn to take responsibility for life independently.
It is important to have a car, a house and a deposit, but the warmth and happiness of the family can bring more inner satisfaction.
I have experienced two kinds of life with and without the help of parents, and I have realized the difference between someone and no one, so I cherish the happy family in front of me even more.