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Recently, I saw a hot topic on a certain topic, which was about the frequent conflicts between the wife and the mother-in-law during the confinement period, which caused a lot of discussions.
I think the popularity of this topic is also due to the fact that the conflict between the wife and the mother-in-law during the confinement period is a very common problem, and there are many jokes to be told.
Today I will talk about how big the conflict between my wife and mother-in-law is during the confinement period in my family, if you have similar jokes at home, you can discuss it together.
1. Mother-in-law's thoughts.
After the wife stayed in the hospital for ten days, after returning home, her mother-in-law kept cooking confinement meals for her, but the wife always gave various opinions about her mother-in-law's confinement meals.
My mother-in-law cooks two meals a day, one for breakfast and one for dinner, and for lunch, my wife and I eat the meals packed from the hospital.
The wife always starts to pick on the thorns after breakfast, saying that the food cooked by her mother-in-law is not delicious, and that she has an upset stomach after eating.
When the mother-in-law heard this, she was also very angry, saying that her wife was just ignorant, and someone in the family cooked for her, and she was picky, which was true.
My mother-in-law is very attentive when she cooks for her wife every day, and it takes a lot of time, and when she cooks, she also has to consider my wife's taste and me, so I have to make two versions.
The food she cooks for her wife should not only take into account her taste, but also her body, and she must not eat food that is too greasy and spicy, but also nutritious.
When my mother-in-law cooks for her wife every day, she is very attentive, she will get up early every day, and then cook well, and when her wife gets up, she can eat.
My wife sleeps until about nine o'clock every morning, but my mother-in-law gets up at five o'clock every day, but my wife is still sleeping.
One day, my mother-in-law was in a bad mood, so she didn't get up early to cook for her wife, and waited until her wife got up before she started cooking for her.
When the wife got up, she said that she was very hungry, and her mother-in-law cooked for her, but when she was done, the wife said that she didn't want to eat this, she wanted to eat that.
The mother-in-law was already in a bad mood, and now she was going to cook for her wife again, and she was very angry, so she said to her wife: "If you don't want to eat, don't eat, you are hungry!"
When my wife heard this, she was also very angry, and then she had a quarrel with her mother-in-law, and I just got up at this time and heard the two of them arguing.
I hurriedly went up to persuade the fight, but found that my wife had to pick thorns every day, saying that my mother-in-law's cooking was not delicious, and my mother-in-law was cooking for my wife very hard every day.
So I said to my mother-in-law, "My wife's sense of taste will become very sensitive during the confinement period, and she said that it is not delicious, probably because her taste has changed, not because the food you cook is not delicious."
When my wife heard what I said, she was also very angry, but my mother-in-law was also very angry, so I said, "Quarreling can't solve the problem, you both calm down, I'll take my wife out to eat, you don't have to cook today's meal."
So I took my wife out for breakfast, and I also took my wife out in the evening, and my mother-in-law was also very angry, saying that I didn't care about the family, but I didn't want to explain too much to her.
2. The wife's thoughts.
After my wife and I had breakfast outside, we started shopping, and my wife wanted to buy some clothes, so I went shopping with her.
However, my mother-in-law thought that I was used to my wife, so she began to lose her temper and said a lot of angry things to me, but I ignored her.
My wife and I went out for a day, and at noon, I took my wife to a hearty meal, then bought some clothes that my wife liked, and then came home.
The mother-in-law felt much better when she saw that her wife had bought so many clothes, but the wife said to her mother-in-law, "Look, my husband took me out for a meal and bought me so many clothes, and you don't cook as much as he wastes."
When my mother-in-law heard this, she was speechless with anger, but I said to my mother-in-law, "Eating and buying clothes are two different things, eating is to fill your stomach, and buying clothes is to make you happy, you can't compare food with clothing."
After hearing my words, my mother-in-law also figured out a lot, so she said to her wife: "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have quarreled with you, what you like to eat, I'll do something for you tomorrow, you can relax today."
My wife was very happy when she heard this, and went to the bedroom with my mother-in-law to try on clothes, while I watched TV in the living room.
My wife and I went out for a day, and at noon, I took my wife to a hearty meal, then bought some clothes that my wife liked, and then came home.
The mother-in-law felt much better when she saw that her wife had bought so many clothes, but the wife said to her mother-in-law, "Look, my husband took me out for a meal and bought me so many clothes, and you don't cook as much as he wastes."
When my mother-in-law heard this, she was speechless with anger, but I said to my mother-in-law, "Eating and buying clothes are two different things, eating is to fill your stomach, and buying clothes is to make you happy, you can't compare food with clothing."
After hearing my words, my mother-in-law also figured out a lot, so she said to her wife: "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have quarreled with you, what you like to eat, I'll do something for you tomorrow, you can relax today."
My wife was very happy when she heard this, and went to the bedroom with my mother-in-law to try on clothes, while I watched TV in the living room.
3. Summary.
I want to say that the contradiction between the wife and the mother-in-law is not that the wife is ignorant, but that the mother-in-law does not know how to empathize.
When dealing with family conflicts, it is important to respect each other's positions and feelings, find common ground, and resolve differences.
In the family, conflicts between wives and mothers-in-law are a common problem that needs to be resolved through communication and understanding.
The confinement period is a period when the relationship between the wife and mother-in-law is prone to tension, which requires tolerance and understanding between family members.
The relationship between the wife and the mother-in-law is not something that can get along overnight, it needs to be accumulated bit by bit, and mutual understanding between everyone is also needed.
Finally, I wish everyone a happy day and don't be angry.