In this era of face viewing, beauty filters have become a daily routine for many people. Every day in front of the camera, we become a beautiful picture in the eyes of others, and over time, we mistakenly think that we are the real self. However, when the gap between praise and reality quietly widens, can we still be calm in the face of real criticism?
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Recently, a skirmish caused by a verbal discord occurred in Guangdong, which is enough to make us reflect on this issue. The main characters of the story are a delivery man and a female hostess. While waiting in front of a restaurant, an argument sparked over a comment that eventually led to a physical altercation.
It is reported that the incident occurred on May 8, and the delivery staff accidentally complained a few words while waiting, but unexpectedly angered the welcoming woman at the door of the store. In the quarrel between the two sides, the delivery man used the adjective "fat head and big ears" to trigger a strong counterattack from the woman.
In the video, it can be seen that the woman was emotional and launched an attack on the delivery man, first throwing a water bottle directly at the delivery brother, and then smashing the delivery brother with a stormy fist, fortunately, the little brother was wearing a helmet, and the woman's output did not cause much serious damage.
Although the delivery person's physical condition was significantly better than that of the woman, and she exercised restraint throughout the whole process and did not fight back, the woman finally grabbed the delivery person and demanded an apology from her.
This scene sparked a wide discussion among netizens. Many said that the delivery man's comments were not groundless, and that he showed great patience and tolerance in the face of the woman's fierce attack.
In this regard, some netizens said:
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In addition, netizens also analyzed the woman's behavior. Someone broke out that the woman was extremely favored at home, and she had extremely high expectations for herself and the outside world. But it's this high demand that makes it harder for her to accept criticism in real life, especially when confronted with comments about her appearance.
Surprisingly, late at night on the second day of the incident, the restaurant owner of the female staff of the restaurant took the initiative to contact the delivery rider, apologized to him, and begged him to delete the video. The restaurant owner said that this incident has had a great negative impact on their restaurant, and he hopes that the two sides can properly resolve it to avoid irreparable consequences.
Faced with the restaurant owner's plea, the delivery rider finally chose to compromise and promised not to hold the female employee legally responsible, while also deleting the video. Still, the aftermath of the incident has not gone away.
In modern society, we are increasingly accustomed to finding identity and praise in the virtual world. We rely on beauty filters and want to be our flawless selves every time we appear. But can this approach really keep us from facing reality forever? When virtual beauty conflicts with real evaluations, how do we deal with ourselves?
The truth is often brutal. We can't live forever in the praise of others, and we can't always run away from the real comments that make us unpleasant. Learning to accept ourselves, including our strengths and weaknesses, is where growth begins. Finding a balance between the virtual and the real and living the most authentic version of ourselves may be the goal we should pursue.
The events are a reminder that maintaining authentic, rational ways of communicating and having conversations, whether in person or in a virtual network, is always the key to building good relationships. In this world of faces, we should have the courage to face ourselves and cherish our inner voice, rather than letting external evaluations dictate our emotions and behaviors.
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