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"What do you think is going on!
I've been so busy on the day of the delivery boy, guess what I found when I got home!"
A netizen posted this inexplicable content on social platforms, and for a while, his post was frantically liked and commented by netizens, speculating about what happened after he got home.
It turned out to be a takeaway brother from Guangdong, who had to make money to support his family, but it was not easy for him and his wife to rely on such takeaway income, but he didn't expect his wife to not only not help with housework, but also to spend money on empty food, which made him quite angry soon after he returned home.
So what is the wife doing at home, and why does she make her husband so angry?
1. Reasons for anger.
On the same day, the takeaway brother started to deliver takeaway at five o'clock as usual, but until more than seven o'clock that night, he didn't have time to rest for a day.
Watching the takeaway delivery, the takeaway brother was in a much better mood, driving an electric car and rushing home like a wind, but on the way, his mood was not too much, but because of a shop on the side of the road, he was blown up in an instant.
It was a relatively high-end dried fruit shop, and in the window above, durians of different colors were placed on it, which looked very spectacular, but the durian in this store was so big that it cost more than 100 yuan.
Although everyone's concept of life is different, but a woman with an elegant temperament, life must be indispensable to these high-end things, then of course it will be for him, no matter how expensive the price is, he will not complain, but the takeaway brother looks like he has just received an order for durian delivery.
And for the takeaway brother in this community who has recharged 6,000 yuan, at least three or four durians must be delivered, which is a big fortune for the takeaway brother, nearly two or three hundred yuan.
No wonder the takeaway guy was angry, because just this morning, when he went out, he mentioned to his wife that he should let her clean the house and then give him a lunch box, and he would be back at about seven o'clock.
But when he came home at four or five o'clock in the afternoon, he found that he could only use oil, salt, sauce and vinegar at home, but there was no lunch box, and there was no rice in a rice cooker at home.
Later, when I asked what happened to my wife, I learned that she saw someone in the circle of friends drying durian early in the morning, so when she saw that this durian seemed to be delicious, she suddenly had a whim, and ate four or five durians in a row, and after eating it, she felt very good, and she wanted to buy some dried fruits to eat in the circle of friends, so she spent the last hundred yuan of the family to buy a bunch of durians.
The takeaway brother was not happy when he heard it, he just didn't want his wife to be too idle, so he asked her to cook, but he didn't expect that his wife didn't move all day, but she sat on the durian and didn't do anything she said, which is the difference between this and not saying anything.
And his wife's behavior made the takeaway brother think that his takeaway brother's income was not enough for her to spend indiscriminately, which made him feel that his income could not support the family's life, not to mention the expenses of children's schooling and so on.
It's just this kind of anger, but he drove ducks to the shelves for the takeaway brother, he just wanted to send out his wife's behavior at the time, so that she could repent under the criticism of netizens.
However, the takeaway brother didn't expect that such an act would cause heated discussions among many netizens, and everyone's opinions were also varied, which made the takeaway brother confused.
Second, netizens hotly discussed the differences of opinion.
On the Internet, there are many netizens who stand on the side of the takeaway brother, they think that this kind of thing is very normal, not to mention going out to work all day long like the takeaway brother, even white-collar workers like themselves sometimes don't feel that they have any work at home, and they will really do it at home, even if they are told to cook and do housework, they will be very ashamed to say that they won't, Zichuan is not a nanny.
There are also some who think that the takeaway brother is too picky, they think that if the wife doesn't work at home and doesn't make money, she only takes care of the housework, and doesn't let her play anywhere, if she wants to eat something delicious, what's not okay.
This is also a manifestation of this kind of thinking in today's society, some people think that if the wife does not work, she should not take anything, and some people think that the wife should give everything if she does not work.
Not only that, but there are many people who think that their wives don't work at home, and the takeaway brother should take care of his wife by himself, and they feel that if a person wants to be good to the world, he has to pay the price of taking care of other people, and even many owners of Malegobi can feel sorry for their wives and children.
Some netizens take it a step further, they think that between husband and wife, they can have different outlooks on life, but they can't let themselves directly use their outlook on life to affect another person, which is a very selfish behavior.
And the most intense is that some netizens believe that at this time, it is not the time for the takeaway brother to post, and his wife cheats.
Originally, the takeaway brother just wanted to vent his dissatisfaction in his heart, but he didn't expect that this speculation of netizens made him instantly stunned, he didn't realize that his wife's behavior was like this, and he couldn't even maintain his income on takeaway, their lives, so what reason is there not to break up?
This was originally something that the takeaway brother didn't expect, he was just venting his dissatisfaction in his heart, but he didn't expect that it was the moment of the celebrity that made him feel that he should have a good talk with his wife and find a solution to this problem.
3. Equality of family economy.
Originally, he just wanted his grandmother to vent his dissatisfaction, but he didn't expect it to develop like this, and his wife also confirmed the pre-guess of most netizens that she was not cheating.
The wife sent him a long document, the content of which was why the grandmother sold the little brother angry in the first place, and finally the wife wrote that she hoped that the grandmother and the little brother could sit down with her and talk, find a way to solve the problem, and not make things worse.
When my grandmother saw his wife's documents, he finally put down a big stone in his heart, because his wife is not the kind of person who is really alone, and his grandmother's brother was born because he wanted to cry too much outside, but no one wiped his tears and helped him wash his face, so he had this idea.
But when my grandmother and brother read his wife's document, he was even more angry, the cause of the incident was still his wife, because the original wife was used to not being good by her grandparents since she was a child, and she was pampered, and all the things were done by him who was in a good mood and wanted to do.
Because they are husband and wife, they are good brothers who have known each other for a lifetime when their grandmother and brother were still in college, until they finally got married, and they married him as a wife without any way, but in the years after marriage, they were very discordant, their personalities were incompatible with each other, and his takeaway brother was also very difficult.
But with the help of my grandmother's brother, they finally came together again, but my wife's character is difficult to change, and my wife doesn't have a way to solve the problem.
On the contrary, the birth of grandma and his wife is getting better and better, and there is no pressure in life, until he gave birth to his own son, and his wife is getting worse and worse to herself, because he doesn't want to live with others, so he spent the money from their wedding, and in front of his grandmother, he took out the money in the card, and said that the purpose of this trip is to divorce his grandmother and brother.
So, no matter how much my grandmother and brother tried to persuade it, it was useless, and in the end I could only say, this child belongs to me, although my son is a lion who opens his mouth, but it is also for the days to come, but my wife is gradually getting better and better, and even no longer loses her temper with my grandmother's little brother.
epilogue
Economic problems in the family often lead to deeper conflicts, and both parties have their own roles and responsibilities.
Perhaps, the ideological cognition between the grandmother and the wife is a microcosm of the society, and the difference in the perception of the division of labor and responsibilities of the family in the society is also a very important embodiment of the cooperation and understanding between the husband and wife.