What is the opposite sex? Baidu tells you that the opposite sex is from the part of the trait that can attract the opposite sex, some people are naturally popular with the opposite sex, easy to get acquainted, and some people are not very "pleasing" and need to get along more to be gradually accepted by the opposite sex.
In a way, the opposite sex is much the same as peach blossom luck. But the former is taller.
I've also heard some men complaining: "My opposite sex is so bad." "In fact, they should find the reason in themselves." The right medicine to improve, but why not have the opposite sex?
Looking at men with good heterosexual relations, in fact, they have a lot in common:
First of all: do not expose women's secrets
Everyone has their own secrets, some of which others do not know at all; some of which others know but cannot say. Even if you are very familiar with the opposite sex, other people's secrets should never come out of your mouth. This is not simply "relying on the cooked to sell the cooked", but also hurting others with the familiar signboard.
For example, a woman treats you like a boyfriend and tells you she is out of love. If there is a way to listen, the pain can be reduced accordingly. As a result, you turn around and tell the world: she is out of love, don't irritate her. (Text/Drifting Yu tong)
Are you kind enough? It's better to bend over backwards and do bad things.
Second: don't break a woman's mind
I have a girlfriend Xiaoli, who was so angry that day that day that she announced in the group: "I officially broke off my friendship with whomever and whoever I am!" "Those are her good buddies, and how helpful they are in life. Everyone used to envy her, and it was nice to have such an all-round male girlfriend.
Such a friend, is she willing to give up? It turned out that this buddy knew that Xiaoli liked his brother. Seeing that Xiaoli has been in a one-way crush, the buddies take the initiative - he tells his brother that this good woman should not be disappointed. However, the brother hurried to have a showdown with Xiaoli: You are not my cup of tea. Xiao Li was ashamed and embarrassed, and this was why it was so bitter.
Dude, why would you?
Again: do not hurt the face of women
Many men always feel that they are speaking at a very high level. However, on the one hand, other men are low-key and introverted; on the other hand, everyone is kinder. What you say is too lazy to argue with you, but that doesn't mean you can talk nonsense.
This hurts a woman's face in the light and in the dark, and no matter how rich and handsome you are, you will make people take a detour.
My college classmate Xiao Peng is such a typical figure. He is tall, handsome, talented and rich, and the biggest drawback is "bullying and committing murder." He is the speaker without the heart, and the other is the listener intentional. Many classmates and teachers who liked him gave up not long after.
Finally: not interfering with women's freedom
Ha, this is also the personal experience of my colleague Yaoyao.
Originally, I thought the male neighbor was not bad. This distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor, and it is rare that the other party is so generous and enthusiastic. The two went out almost at the same time, almost taking the bus to work together. The only difference was that the neighbor got out of the car before her.
Later, Yaoyao saw this male neighbor like a ghost. The male neighbor was too annoying: "YaoYao, you only came home in the middle of the night last night?" A single woman, shouldn't be like this. "Yaoyao, you're in your menstrual period now, right?" How dare you drink iced coffee? ”
Yaoyao said, "This is interfering with me, what is he doing?" Am I being watched? What do I say and do is under his control? ”
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It is not difficult to see through a thing, but it is difficult not to say it thoroughly. In the end, this is also a manifestation of kindness.
The so-called opposite sex is nothing more than true respect and true love for others. Yuanfang, what do you think?
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