Confinement, finding the right sister-in-law is more useful than finding the right husband!

Did you ask your sister-in-law during confinement? What do you think about your sister-in-law?

Let's listen to the story of Mom @Toto Mom from Lilac Mama Planet.

The child is 5 months old, and I am glad that I have hired my sister-in-law! I would like to give the highest evaluation to my sister-in-law: If I have a second child, I will still look for you!

Looking for a sister-in-law

Prefer large confinement companies

After all, the sister-in-law is dealing with people, so there will be things that cannot be determined.

No one expected that my sister-in-law aunt who signed it in May could not go to the house for personal reasons, and she also felt very sorry, and the sister-in-law company urgently recommended another sister-in-law to me, and she went to the house on the same day.

The family was a little unhappy about this, but it was solved. Fortunately, it is a sister-in-law company, otherwise it may be difficult to find anyone again!

The same is spending money

Signing a contract is better than a verbal promise

There is a company platform, more reliable than the private introduction, and there are people who guarantee the bottom of the problem.

Originally, the mother-in-law wanted to choose a sister-in-law introduced by an acquaintance, and others thought it was very good, but I directly refused. Every family is different, and what others think is good may not be suitable for me.

Sister-in-law can be interviewed, can be tried, and can explain which point there is a problem. The experienced sister-in-law, who is also very measured, knows how to quickly integrate into a strange family.

The principle of the moon sister-in-law is reassuring

My purpose is very clear, professional care of the baby is the first, followed by the care of me.

But my sister-in-law said that her principle is: taking care of me is the key, because the mother is in a good health and mood, and the milk is good, so that the child can be raised well. The children are well, and the whole family will be very happy.

I think she's right.

"Needs" in the confinement

Sister-in-law "understands me" more than her husband

For example, taking a bath and washing hair, the sister-in-law suggested that as long as her body felt suitable, there was no sweating or fear of cold. My husband thinks it's okay to see how I feel.

When breastfeeding, my husband will only watch from the sidelines, and my sister-in-law will hand me a pillow to cover the blanket to see if my posture is uncomfortable.

At night, I only need my sister-in-law to wake me up, and my sister-in-law will hold the child to my side, adjust the posture, I can directly close my eyes and breastfeed, and my husband will only wake me up.

When I want to drink milk tea and eat spicy and hot, my sister-in-law will not give pressure, and will even comfort me and say, "There will be no big problem when you eat it once." But the family is worried about whether it will affect breast milk and children.

Sister-in-law is more respectful of the personal wishes of the new mother, and when the family's attention is all around the child, the focus of the sister-in-law is me, which makes me very happy.

In the face of new life, there are many overwhelmed moments, but all my emotions have been "seen" by my sister-in-law, who tells her own experience of going to the household and can effectively "help" relieve my anxiety and nervousness.

Sister-in-law Taught Bao Dad by hand

I don't have to "bother with my tongue"

From how to hold the child, to how to wash the butt and take a bath, it is all the month sister-in-law operation again, the husband operates again, the sister-in-law watches next to it, online guidance!

This will not appear: I have learned it myself, no time, no mood, no energy and no patience to teach My Father again!

If you study uniformly, there will be no contradictions and meaningless disputes such as "what I read on the Internet should come this way" and "I think you can't do that".

Sister-in-law Yue told her husband, "Mother-in-law is a milk return artifact." The husband remembered for a long time, on this sentence, the sister-in-law is also worth it.

Eating a "Confinement Meal"

I'm not fat, I'm thin

During the confinement period, the elderly want to make their mother's milk good, and they inevitably want various "big supplements".

Let Bao Mom eat all kinds of meat, drink all kinds of soup, as the kindness of the old man, I understand, as a knowledge mother who often watches popular science, I definitely refuse!

You directly reject the elderly, it seems that you are willful and do not understand things; you and the elderly science popularization, communication difficulties, the older generation of people's ideological concepts are difficult to change. It is impossible for you to forward a link, and the old man will read it and believe it.

It is good to have a sister-in-law in the moon, she is experienced, she can reason with her mother-in-law in a dignified manner, theory plus practice, it is easier to convince her mother-in-law.

The confinement is professional enough, and the confinement meal is completely low in oil, less salt and less seasoning! It can also ensure that each meal of protein and vegetables is balanced in various nutrients. You don't have to worry about getting fat at all.

My sister-in-law said, "Confinement meals are definitely guaranteed to be healthy and not fat!" It turns out that this is the case, I myself has a light diet, 110 pounds after giving birth, and this weight is also after sitting confinement. Now that the child is 5 months old, I have lost 92 pounds, which is a little thin, but it may return to normal as soon as I wean.

My mother-in-law was very afraid that I would not eat well, which would lead to poor recovery and poor milk. As a result, I proved that if I didn't drink those oil soups, the children would still be white and fat, so now my mother-in-law no longer has any obsession with the soup of "big supplement".

Grass planted online

Sister-in-law gave me "plucked"

There are many families in the household, and there are many used brands, and I know how effective the things my mother buys are. So at her suggestion, I bought a lot less and saved a lot of money and time.

For example, the super expensive bed in the bed, the beautiful saliva towel, the oversized urine pad, the setting pillow, the crib pad, the pacifier, the back towel, the sleeping toy... (The examples I give are also measured according to the needs of my own baby, which is "unnecessary" for my baby and does not apply to everyone.) ）

Sister-in-law actually helped me

Resolved a "mother-in-law contradiction"

After giving birth, I was in a bad mood, physically and mentally exhausted, and I cried many times. During confinement, he inexplicably had "hostile" feelings with his mother-in-law.

I feel that my husband and mother-in-law are happy every day, they have not paid anything, and they have enjoyed the happiness of the birth of a new life. And my life, from my body to food, clothing, and housing, has been completely changed.

When I hear them exaggerate their laughter or exaggeration of their love for children, I feel disgusted, as if I had given birth to someone else.

Sister-in-law has been in many families, so she will encounter similar situations, she knows more where my uncomfortable "point" is, and understands why there are so many disgusting emotions. As an intermediary, she communicates words between the two sides, is more enlightening, and proposes solutions.

The husband can't do this, he just wants to make the two "mothers" happy, and the use of perfunctory comfort is useless. As a man, I don't understand the helplessness of the role of "daughter-in-law" in some things. I just think, "Why do I think my mother is good enough for you, and you're not satisfied..."

Far from it... How do you feel like writing, "Is it necessary for my husband to be there during confinement?" I really don't mean to compare my sister-in-law with my husband, but my sister-in-law is "more useful" than my husband!