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I am the old Zhang of the Zhang family, I am over the age of six, retired at home, I thought that my life in my later years would be plain and comfortable, but who would have thought, but I was disturbed by an unexpected family conflict.
It all started when my son got married. He found a girl from other places, named Xiaoli, quiet and beautiful, and her tutor was also good. I met my wife a few times, and I thought that this girl was sensible and polite, so forget it.
Before we got married, our family discussed making a wedding wine for them, and held a wedding banquet according to the tradition, and we never forgot the mooncakes. At that wedding banquet, my son was so happy that he couldn't close his mouth, and Xiaoli was also shy and happy, and it could be seen that both children were very happy.
But it didn't take long for his son to come with the happy news that Xiaoli was pregnant. The whole family was boiling, and I, who was a grandfather, was even more happy as if I had taken medicine, thinking in my heart that there would be more babies in the family.
However, after the happy event, contradictions also followed. Xiaoli proposed to invite the confinement lady, and my wife and I thought it was a happy event, and we agreed to it. We found a confinement lady who looked reliable and spent 20,000 yuan to hire her.
Unexpectedly, Xiaoli wanted to live in her mother's house. I thought it was a little strange, but fortunately, I thought that maybe her mother's family was better, so I acquiesced.
Until one day, my son came to me and said, "Dad, Mom, Xiaoli wants you to deliver confinement meals in the middle of the night." ”
I was a little unhappy at the time, thinking to myself, why is this girl so exquisite. But seeing my son's embarrassed look, I was embarrassed to refuse.
So, I had to get up early every night to cook some nourishing soup and give it to Xiaoli. After a long time, I began to feel that it was not a taste. This is a great joy, how can it be like I owe her?
I felt a little aggrieved and a little angry. I didn't tell my wife about it, for fear that she would worry.
As time passed, I felt more and more that it was not a taste. The house was originally full of laughter, but now it is filled with an indescribable dullness. I was torn between my son and daughter-in-law, and I really didn't feel good.
Just when I was worried about these things, my wife finally noticed the unhappiness in my heart. She pulled me to sit down and asked gently, "Lao Zhang, why are you in a bad mood lately?" Is there something going on at home?"
I looked at my wife's concerned eyes, and my heart softened, so I expressed all the unhappiness in my heart. After listening to this, my wife frowned and was silent for a while, and then said softly: "Don't take this matter too seriously, I'll talk to Xiaoli about it." ”
The next day, my wife found an opportunity, pulled Xiaoli aside, and patiently enlightened her: "Xiaoli, look at your mother-in-law, people have worked hard all their lives, and now that they are old, it is inconvenient to do these things, you have to think more about others." ”
Xiaoli listened to her wife's words, lowered her head a little embarrassed, and agreed softly. I saw it in my eyes, and I felt a little more comfortable in my heart.
However, the good times were short-lived. Just when I thought that this matter was solved, Xiaoli made a new request: "Mother-in-law, my mother's house is now renovated, and I want to help for a few days." ”
When I heard this, I felt a little angry in my heart. What does this little girl want? I have no opinion on the decoration of her mother's house, but she, a person who has just given birth, why does she want to run to help? Besides, there is a child at home, who will take care of it?
I was too embarrassed to say no, so I vaguely agreed. Seeing that I was in a bad mood, my wife also persuaded me a few words, but I still felt aggrieved in my heart.
In the past few days, the home has become even more deserted. Although my wife and I didn't say anything, we both had an indescribable indignation in our hearts. I thought that this home would become more and more lively, but now it is becoming more and more upsetting.
I began to feel a little regretful that I had agreed to invite them to a confinement lady, if I had known that it would be like this, I would rather use the 20,000 yuan to do something good than get upset.
But when I think of my son and daughter-in-law, I feel a little unbearable. After all, they also make these requests for the good of their families. But why shouldn't I?
Just when I was worried about these things, my wife finally noticed the unhappiness in my heart. She pulled me to sit down and asked gently, "Lao Zhang, why are you in a bad mood lately?" Is there something going on at home?"
I looked at my wife's concerned eyes, and my heart softened, so I expressed all the unhappiness in my heart. After listening to this, my wife frowned and was silent for a while, and then said softly: "Don't take this matter too seriously, I'll talk to Xiaoli about it." ”
The next day, my wife found an opportunity, pulled Xiaoli aside, and patiently enlightened her: "Xiaoli, look at your mother-in-law, people have worked hard all their lives, and now that they are old, it is inconvenient to do these things, you have to think more about others." ”
Xiaoli listened to her wife's words, lowered her head a little embarrassed, and agreed softly. I saw it in my eyes, and I felt a little more comfortable in my heart.
However, the good times were short-lived. Just when I thought that this matter was solved, Xiaoli made a new request: "Mother-in-law, my mother's house is now renovated, and I want to help for a few days." ”
When I heard this, I felt a little angry in my heart. What does this little girl want? I have no opinion on the decoration of her mother's house, but she, a person who has just given birth, why does she want to run to help? Besides, there is a child at home, who will take care of it?
I was too embarrassed to say no, so I vaguely agreed. Seeing that I was in a bad mood, my wife also persuaded me a few words, but I still felt aggrieved in my heart.
In the past few days, the home has become even more deserted. Although my wife and I didn't say anything, we both had an indescribable indignation in our hearts. I thought that this home would become more and more lively, but now it is becoming more and more upsetting.
I began to feel a little regretful that I had agreed to invite them to a confinement lady, if I had known that it would be like this, I would rather use the 20,000 yuan to do something good than get upset.
But when I think of my son and daughter-in-law, I feel a little unbearable. After all, they also make these requests for the good of their families. But why shouldn't I?
Just when I was worried about these things, my wife finally noticed the unhappiness in my heart. She pulled me to sit down and asked gently, "Lao Zhang, why are you in a bad mood lately?" Is there something going on at home?"
I looked at my wife's concerned eyes, and my heart softened, so I expressed all the unhappiness in my heart. After listening to this, my wife frowned and was silent for a while, and then said softly: "Don't take this matter too seriously, I'll talk to Xiaoli about it." ”
The next day, my wife found an opportunity, pulled Xiaoli aside, and patiently enlightened her: "Xiaoli, look at your mother-in-law, people have worked hard all their lives, and now that they are old, it is inconvenient to do these things, you have to think more about others." ”
Xiaoli listened to her wife's words, lowered her head a little embarrassed, and agreed softly. I saw it in my eyes, and I felt a little more comfortable in my heart.
However, the good times were short-lived. Just when I thought that this matter was solved, Xiaoli made a new request: "Mother-in-law, my mother's house is now renovated, and I want to help for a few days." ”
When I heard this, I felt a little angry in my heart. What does this little girl want? I have no opinion on the decoration of her mother's house, but she, a person who has just given birth, why does she want to run to help? Besides, there is a child at home, who will take care of it?
I was too embarrassed to say no, so I vaguely agreed. Seeing that I was in a bad mood, my wife also persuaded me a few words, but I still felt aggrieved in my heart.
In the past few days, the home has become even more deserted. Although my wife and I didn't say anything, we both had an indescribable indignation in our hearts. I thought that this home would become more and more lively, but now it is becoming more and more upsetting.
I began to feel a little regretful that I had agreed to invite them to a confinement lady, if I had known that it would be like this, I would rather use the 20,000 yuan to do something good than get upset.
But when I think of my son and daughter-in-law, I feel a little unbearable. After all, they also make these requests for the good of their families. But why shouldn't I?
Just when I was worried about these things, my wife finally noticed the unhappiness in my heart. She pulled me to sit down and asked gently, "Lao Zhang, why are you in a bad mood lately?" Is there something going on at home?"
I looked at my wife's concerned eyes, and my heart softened, so I expressed all the unhappiness in my heart. After listening to this, my wife frowned and was silent for a while, and then said softly: "Don't take this matter too seriously, I'll talk to Xiaoli about it." ”
The next day, my wife found an opportunity, pulled Xiaoli aside, and patiently enlightened her: "Xiaoli, look at your mother-in-law, people have worked hard all their lives, and now that they are old, it is inconvenient to do these things, you have to think more about others." ”
Xiaoli listened to her wife's words, lowered her head a little embarrassed, and agreed softly. I saw it in my eyes, and I felt a little more comfortable in my heart.
However, the good times were short-lived. Just when I thought that this matter was solved, Xiaoli made a new request: "Mother-in-law, my mother's house is now renovated, and I want to help for a few days." ”
When I heard this, I felt a little angry in my heart. What does this little girl want? I have no opinion on the decoration of her mother's house, but she, a person who has just given birth, why does she want to run to help? Besides, there is a child at home, who will take care of it?
I was too embarrassed to say no, so I vaguely agreed. Seeing that I was in a bad mood, my wife also persuaded me a few words, but I still felt aggrieved in my heart.
In the past few days, the home has become even more deserted. Although my wife and I didn't say anything, we both had an indescribable indignation in our hearts. I thought that this home would become more and more lively, but now it is becoming more and more upsetting.
I began to feel a little regretful that I had agreed to invite them to a confinement lady, if I had known that it would be like this, I would rather use the 20,000 yuan to do something good than get upset.
But when I think of my son and daughter-in-law, I feel a little unbearable. After all, they also make these requests for the good of their families. But why shouldn't I?