01: It is Zhou Rong who has been "pushing her daughter out"
"The World" has been updated to 34 episodes, and the more you watch this show, the more doubts in your heart become bigger and bigger.
Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng, one is a high-achieving student who graduated from Peking University and a young associate professor at the university;
The other is also a great poet who is well-known throughout the country.
With such "high-configuration" hardware, why should the only one daughter be fostered in the home of his younger brother Zhou Bingkun?
And once fostered, it is more than ten years.
When Feng Yue was about five or six years old, Zhou Rong left home for seven or eight years and went home to visit her family for the first time. As a result, the parents did not see each other, but they sent their daughters home.
This gift, she and Feng Huacheng fell "easily".
Resuming the college entrance examination, Zhou Rong prepared for the college entrance examination and was admitted to Peking University as soon as she took the examination.
Four years of college, three years of graduate school, plus the time of doctoral studies, the time before and after adding up, there are also a small ten years.
In fact, at that time, Feng Huacheng already had a job, and he also paid a lot of salary.
In addition, Zhou Rong was in college at that time, not only did she have no expenses, but she also had some subsidies every month.
On this condition, the two people took their daughter Feng Yue to live next to them, which was not a problem at all. After all, how much could it cost to raise a child at that time?
Zhou Bingkun, whose income is not high, can raise a big son and raise her girlfriend, but Zhou Rong can't do it?
Disgusted that Feng Huacheng's unit is small, he picked up his daughter and did not have her independent space.
But foster care here in Zhou Bingkun, the child has an independent space? Zhou Nan and Feng Yue, before Zhou Bingkun bought a large bungalow, had been sleeping in the Chase Bunk.
Even when the two were in elementary school, they slept in the same bed.
Therefore, these concerns and reasons why Zhou Rong did not accept her daughter are actually difficult to establish.
When Zhou Rong went to school in Beijing, she did not pick up her daughter, not so much because she could not provide good conditions for her children, but rather that she was not "free" with her children around.
But if you have a child around, how can you talk about three or two friends at home on the weekend to talk about life and ideals?
With a child around, where does she have so much energy to cope with heavy schoolwork?
At the beginning, Zhou Rong did not want to pick up Feng Yue, but between the child and herself, she chose herself.
Later, when Zhou Rong realized that she was a mother, in the eyes of the child, she was a "raw person", and even went to bed at night, only recognizing her aunt and mother, not her mother.
Zhou Rong panicked.
At this time, she reacted to the absence of her children's growth for so many years, so that she finally had a gap with her daughter.
It was also from this time that Zhou Rong had the idea of taking the child to her side. But when the child is young, when she can pick it up, she doesn't pick it up.
When he wanted to take it away, the child was unwilling to go away with Zhou Rong.
Is this the most realistic "retribution"?
02: Feng Yue's "tragedy" of finding a married old man, more or less, has the factor of Zhou Rong
Any relationship, if you want to go on, can not be separated from the careful management, even if it is a mother and daughter close relatives.
When Feng Yue needed Zhou Rong the most, Zhou Rong was not there. When she passed that age, would she stay where she was before and wait for Zhou Rong?
In fact, Zhou Rong had many opportunities to ease her relationship with her daughter Feng Yue.
For example, when the house of his younger brother Zhou Bingkun was repossessed, the family moved back to the old house.
Zhou Rong could completely stand up and even take Feng Yue back with a straight face. After all, Zhou Bingkun's old house had two rooms, and Feng Yue moved out, which was reasonable.
As soon as the child moves out, as long as Zhou Rong's method is appropriate, the two people can always ease the relationship in the day and night.
But Feng Yue's sentence "I can't accept sleeping in the same room with another man" directly made Zhou Rong shrink back.
Adolescent girls want to have independent space, that is the common sentiment of people.
Since the unit can't share the room, then when the parents, spend some money to rent a small two-room outside, won't it all be solved?
But Zhou Rong was intimidated by her daughter, thinking not about how to solve substantive problems, but once again pushing her daughter to others.
What happened from foster care in my brother's house to foster care in my brother-in-law's father-in-law's mother-in-law's house?
Since Feng Yue's own memory, she has been "under the fence" because of her parents.
Although both Zheng Juan and Hao Dongmei have released the greatest kindness to her, "sending people under the fence" is "sending people under the fence".
This kind of grievance in her heart, when it comes to Zhou Rong, will inevitably turn into resentment.
After Feng Yue becomes an adult, he will find a married old man and become a disdainful "little three", which is of course the reason for the loss of his beloved Zhou Nan.
But I'm afraid it's more of a family environment that grew up in this kind of "sending people to the fence". Without a sense of belonging, there is no sense of security.
Since there is no "person" who makes him feel a sense of belonging, he will retreat to the second place and pursue money, right?
What's more, Mrs. Jin had a saying that was not wrong. Feng Yue, a little girl who grew up on the bottom floor, suddenly lived in a small villa of Gao Gan.
There is their own independent, beautiful, and warm bedroom for girls, as well as the elders like Mrs. Jin, and such an elite couple as uncles and aunts.
Going in and out of the high-ranking cadres' family homes, eating and having nannies, etc., will inevitably have an impact on Feng Yue's heart, and will also make her breed some shameful "superiority".
Having enjoyed such a superior life, can Feng Yue still calmly accept the poor life of the "Light Character Tablet"?
Facts have proved that Feng Yue in the back, in order to pursue a good material life, chose a "married old man".
03: Zhou Rong's "social incompetence" makes her relationship with Feng Yue even worse
In the plot updated yesterday, a big problem was exposed to Zhou Rong, that is, "social incompetence".
To Zhou Rong, who has a high opinion of herself, does not like or disdain to deal with others, and the consequence of this behavior is that her social IQ is almost "negative".
In order to be smoothly assigned to the house, Zhou Rong found Cai Xiaoguang, although it was not explicitly stated, but that meant that it implied that people "walked away from the relationship".
But take the back door, just go to the back door, Zhou Rong still has to hold it, let Cai Xiaoguang understand the meaning by himself.
And Cai Xiaoguang was indeed very good, not only did not debunk Zhou Rong's careful thinking, but also took things over. Found Zhou Rong's school leader and stuffed a box of sea cucumbers.
I thought that the matter of ten to nine was stable, who expected Zhou Rong's house to still not be divided.
Looking for a relationship, I haven't done anything yet, and if I change normal people, I will definitely go to dredge up again. But Zhou Rong's reaction was a big surprise.
She went to the school leader and asked for the gift in return.
Really going back for a gift...
This is good, completely offending people.
Seeing this scene, and then contacting the previous plot, I found that Zhou Rong's social skills really did not become like this in a day or two.
Whether in Beijing or Jichun, Zhou Rong lives in the Tube Building. And there is no surprise, Zhou Rong and his family, the relationship with the neighbors is very poor.
Bad relations with neighbors in Beijing are enough. Back home, I also couldn't get along with my neighbors.
It wasn't the neighbor's problem, but Zhou Rong's problem. And the neighborhood relationship of a family, to a large extent, depends on the hostess.
Zhou Rong, a person, has always lived a relatively "clear and high" life, and is also more self-centered. This pride makes her unable to let go of her body and neighbors.
She held it, and others "respected".
Coupled with the fact that you can't be a human being, this is not a sinner.
Zhou Rong's "incompetence" is even more vividly reflected in the handling of the mother-daughter relationship with Feng Yue.
There is a saying that Feng Huacheng is right, that is, Zhou Rong considers the problem and never puts herself in the shoes of others.
She always puts her ideas first and then thinks preconceivedly.
Therefore, Feng Hua became a sub-room, a camp of Ji Ji, which she did not understand and disdained to understand. For this reason, there is a lot of ridicule and contempt.
And what about the daughter?
Zhou Rong felt guilty, because of guilt, she behaved very reasonably in front of her daughter. And because of this loss, she was unable to straighten her waist in front of her daughter.
She wanted to manage, but she felt that there was no bottom tube.
In addition to the loss, there are strangers.
Not understanding her daughter's temperament and hobbies, Zhou Rong does not know what to do to make her daughter satisfied. She wanted to take care of it, but she couldn't get started.
The two emotions were mixed together, which made Zhou Rong behave very cramped and nervous every time she faced her daughter.
In fact, she has many ways to ease her daughter's relationship. Living in the same city, and being a mother and daughter of a concubine, she can put down her body.
Put yourself in the shoes of your daughter, why is the relationship between the two so stiff?
The way Zhou Rong understands her daughter is not to spend time with her. Instead, she seized the opportunity to peek into her diary.
Knowing that her daughter values privacy the most, a diary is always carefully locked. It is not an exaggeration to say that the diary is Feng Yue's "reverse scale".
And Zhou Rong is also the younger daughter over, but between the urgent desire to understand her daughter and her daughter's privacy, Zhou Rong did not hesitate to choose the former.
With others, Zhou Rong always held it.
Get along with my daughter, and I don't want to put down my body and communicate calmly. In this case, Feng Yue could accept that she was strange.