Mr. Ye Shengtao, a famous educator, said, "Education is to let children develop good habits. ”
Students in the same class, the teachers who teach are the same, and the listening environment is the same, why are there high and low academic performance between children? This may have intellectual implications, but it is more important to see if the child has good learning habits.
For example, the learning of the primary school stage, the knowledge of the primary school are all basic knowledge, all very simple, as long as the children do not have any intellectual problems, they can learn to understand. But there will still be a big gap in academic performance between children. If you still have to say that the intellectual gap between children is too large, it is too far-fetched for you.
If you want your child to become excellent, parents need to cultivate the following 5 habits of their children from an early age, which will not only make children learn more self-disciplined, parents will also be more worry-free, and they can also benefit their children for a lifetime.
Lead by example to cultivate good habits of self-discipline
If parents have no bottom line to love their children and get used to their children, then children are bound to become extremely willful and stubborn.
If you want your child to become self-disciplined, you not only need to strictly require your child from an early age and develop a good code of conduct for your child, but also need parents to lead by example, take the lead, and be a good example for their children, so that children can better abide by the rules.
For example, after the child goes to primary school, parents can slowly cultivate good habits such as cleaning up their school bags, tidying up their desks, and cleaning up their own dishes and chopsticks after eating. Even if the child has never done it, parents should not always think that the child is still young, so as to replace the child and help the child to do it, which is not conducive to cultivating the child's ability to be independent and autonomous, and it is not conducive to the child to develop good habits from an early age.
From a young age, I asked my children to go to bed at the allotted time, and even if there was a good TV, I would ask my child to turn off the TV. This is true not only for children, but also for themselves. Therefore, every night, no matter what TV you are watching, or playing games toys, when it is time to rest, you will accompany your child to bed on time and tell stories with your child.
Although the child also has a lot of reluctance at the beginning, but over time, the child will also develop a habit, consciously take the initiative to turn off the TV, and then go to bed.
Cultivate children to be civilized and polite
Speaking of civility and understanding courtesy is the basic quality of a person, if you can't even do this, then you will definitely be looked down upon by others.
At a banquet, a mother brought a child to a banquet. When eating, the child turns the table quickly, constantly sandwiching his favorite dishes, sometimes not adding up, and directly grasping, and the parents on the side do not stop it, but help the child clip the favorite dish.
The people at the same table frowned, but Bao Ma did not care, Bao Ma's expression repeatedly said, just children, you are so old, are you still with him?
In life. It is not uncommon to believe in such parents and children. Parents spoil their children too much, causing children to become less disciplined, less polite, and think that they are loving their children, but they may harm their children for a lifetime.
For the good of the child, it is very important to cultivate the basic behavior etiquette of the child. The continent is a land of ceremonies, and we cannot disgrace our ancestors.
In order to cultivate children's behavior etiquette, we can start from the dinner table culture, from greeting others to raise children. Teach children to eat without sleeping, teach children to greet their elders and a series of behaviors such as politeness.
Children who are polite and civilized will be welcomed by others, and when interacting with each other, they will be more likely to get the acceptance and recognition of others.
Cultivate children's good reading habits from an early age
Although going to school cannot be a lifelong thing, reading can accompany us for a lifetime. Just as the so-called learning is endless, our life should be spent in continuous reading and learning, so as to continuously improve ourselves and not be abandoned by the times.
Cultivating children's good reading habits from an early age can not only allow children to accumulate rich knowledge over time, so that children can more easily succeed in the college entrance examination, but also can keep children away from mobile phones and televisions and waste their youth.
In order to cultivate children's good reading habits, parents can not blindly force their children to read and read, but should lead by example, and develop good reading habits themselves, so that children can learn from each other, read with their parents, and like to read.
From an early age, parents can accompany their children to read and tell stories to their children, especially to tell children small stories before going to bed, which is not only conducive to coaxing children to sleep, but also allows children to learn a lot of knowledge and gradually develop good reading habits.
Cultivate a hobby in your child
Hobbies and interests can accompany the child throughout their lives, and the child benefits throughout their lives. Hobbies can be music, singing, art, football, basketball, table tennis and other sports. Not only can cultivate people's sentiments, but also to exercise physical fitness, improve physical fitness, so that children have a strong physique. When the child is young, let the child participate in sports, but also can promote the child's physical health development, help the child grow tall.
When children have their own interests, they can better make like-minded friends, so as to avoid making fox friends.
Improve your child's concentration
No matter how smart children are, if they are always distracted in class, they will not pay attention to things at all. Then it is difficult to achieve excellent results. And those who tend to rank high in grades and achieve success in their future careers are often those who have strong concentration. If you want to exercise and improve your child's concentration, then the primary school stage is the best time.
The first thing parents should do is not always to disturb their children in various names and interrupt their children's concentration. Secondly, parents can often accompany their children to do things that help them to focus, such as playing puzzles with their children, building blocks, and reading concentration training books.
There are many books to improve children's concentration, among which playing stickers with children is a good choice.
I recommend "Left and Right Brain Development Sticker Picture Book" to everyone, this set of picture books is also a picture book that I often play with my family's second treasure.
"Left and right brain development sticker picture book" is rich in content, very interesting, can greatly stimulate the interest of children, every time said to accompany the child to play stickers, my family's second treasure will run fast, they will run to the sticker picture book.
"Left and Right Brain Development Sticker Picture Book" contains common animals, plants, vehicles, etc. in life, which can be used by children to play while learning a lot of knowledge and understanding a lot of things.
"Left and Right Brain Development Sticker Picture Book" contains 16 major themes such as intellectual development, moral business cultivation, situational ability, learning and business training, attention, hands-on ability, regular training, cognitive ability, financial and business training, reaction ability, memory ability, time game, creative ability, classification ability, space game, visual training, etc., and the content is richer and more comprehensive.
The difficulty of the picture book "Left and Right Brain Development Sticker Picture Book" is also from easy to difficult, layer by layer, so that children have the feeling of playing games to pass the level, it is easy for children to get a sense of achievement, and the more children play, the more addictive they are.
Let children play stickers, not only can exercise the child's manual brain ability, but also can exercise the child's classification and sorting ability and spatial thinking ability, and can also make the child more focused and serious. If you also have a 2-6 year old baby, then you may wish to play with the stickers with your children, after a period of time, the child's change will surprise you.
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