Just after the Spring Festival, the topic of "should the child's old age money be handed in" rushed to the hot search.
Now this year, it is not easy to be a parent, this is the end of the year, buy, use, send, but spent a lot, how can parents not think of "returning to the blood"?
No, the amount of money the child collects is not a small amount, how can this "huge" "little red ticket" not be moved.
Some netizens laughed and said: Every Spring Festival: there will be a group of "fraudulent" gangs that beat the idea into the hands of their children.
Isn't that the child's money?
This year, children have to keep the pressure money in their hands, it can really be described as a battle of wits and courage, as difficult as ascending to the sky, and finally have to "break the defense"
As the saying goes, "The longest road that dolls have traveled, that is Mom and Dad's" routine.
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If you want to keep the pressure money,
The difficulty is comparable to ascending to the sky!
In order to "set" the child's pressure money, parents can be described as a variety of tricks and routines.
★ Routine one: false promises, not done
Children, this money mom first deposited for you in the bank, and when you get to the time to talk about marriage, your mom will take it out for you.
However, the young are only children, and the "big cake" drawn by the mother can only be eaten by children.
In charge, the child found that it was difficult for him to find traces of "pressing old money" anymore.
There are some smarter dolls who also know to let their parents write a receipt, which is reassuring.
Promise to spend my own money after the year, my parents just keep it for me,
This "reassuring pill" is like this unreliable receipt, and the day the child wakes up, it is almost "digested".
However, ginger is still old spicy:
"All returned" became "not returned at all", a word difference, a thousand miles of falsehood.
At a young age, he suffered the loss of "illiteracy".
★ Routine two: take advantage of its lack of preparation, quietly touch and take
Some children put the "pressed money" under the pillow when they sleep, thinking that it is more reassuring.
As everyone knows, the child does this, the parents are more "at ease" The parents sneak out one or two, and the child may not know when he wakes up.
This move is only suitable for ordinary little babies, who do not know what money is, it is easier to fool around, and they do not know how much money they have lost.
★ Routine three: steal the concept, skillfully take advantage of it
Parents misinterpret what relatives and friends say to their children: Originally, the money should be taken by yourself, but don't be "stolen" by your parents
To the parents:
This is the money that your uncle put on you, pressed for the years, and when the hour comes and you don't give it to your mother, you will become old, and when you run out, give it to me quickly, and your mother will put it up for you.
Some simply tell the child directly:
"If I hadn't pressed people's old age money, would they have pressed you old age money?" So of course your money has to be given to your mother. ”
Although there are thousands of kinds of unwillingness in the child's heart, the "heavenly power" that hinders the mother can only be obediently offered with both hands.
★ Routine four: there is no repayment, even coaxing and deception
"Mom went to buy vegetables, the money is not enough, borrow your use."
This loan is a few hundred or thousands.
"You only have a few pieces of money in your hand, Daddy has dozens of them here, do you want to change them?"
"Change! change! change! ”
This link suffered heavy losses.
★ Routine five: superficial fairness, secret deception
The couple distributed the money according to the denomination size in advance, and then you and I each, so that the baby had no connection with the hundred yuan every time...
It seems to grasp more and grasp less luck, but in fact, they are all careful machines for parents.
In short, if a child wants to keep the pressure money, the difficulty is comparable to ascending to the sky.
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Children who are "scammed" by their parents to squeeze their money,
What happened next?
Although the dolls are young, their IQ is not low at all
Every year, the money is deprived of "ruthlessness", just so-called, there is oppression, there is resistance,
Some dolls began to "accuse" Mom and Dad, quietly taking away my pressed money to buy duck necks.
Came back and asked me if the duck neck was good.
Quietly taken by her mother to buy duck neck:
Screenshot of the "Boy Says" program
Secretly taken by Dad to refuel:
Although the living conditions are relatively good now, usually children eat and wear without worry, they are worried about "pressing the old money is confiscated"
The joy of dolls receiving money in the New Year can be described as the best time in childhood.
For children, the happiest thing is to receive one red envelope after another.
This is one of the happiest and fondest memories of every child's childhood.
Children spend money indiscriminately, and parents simply deprive children of their right to control and enjoy the money of the pressed age,
Then, in the still childhood, it is necessary to erase part of the joy and expectation of the child.
More seriously, it will make the child resentful and affect the parent-child relationship between parents and children.
Parents must not confiscate their children's old age money in the name of custody, not only to bury resentment in the hearts of children. It will also increase the distance between the child and the parent, thereby reducing the child's trust in the parent.
There is no basis for disagreement with the law.
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Parents take away the child's pressure money and do not give,
It's illegal!
Let's first look at the definition of pressing old money:
In the New Year, the elders pack the rmb in a red envelope and give it to the child to pray for the child's blessing Meaning: Avoid disasters and welcome blessings, and bless peace.
★ Is it the child's or the parent's?
According to Article 657 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China on the gift contract:
The elderly give the younger generations money, which belongs to the gift contract relationship of one party that has pure benefits. Once the child accepts the money, the gift contract is formed.
Therefore, no matter which elder gives the child's old age money, the ownership of this money belongs to the child and belongs to the child's personal property.
★ The child is still young, can the money be kept by himself?
There are also clear provisions in the Civil Code:
Persons with limited capacity for civil conduct may independently carry out civil juristic acts for pure benefit, and 8 years of age is a dividing line between limited capacity and incapacity.
Other words:
When the child reaches the age of eight, the money can be handed over to the parents for safekeeping, and they also have the right to keep it for themselves;
If the child is under the age of eight, the money should be handed over to the parents for safekeeping.
Note that the child can be handed over to the parents for them to help keep, but the custody is only for safekeeping, and parents cannot spend it for the child.
★ What if my child spends money indiscriminately?
Indiscriminate spending money should also be divided into categories, if it is in the purchase of toys, buy fireworks, the money spent is not much,
If it is a recharge online game, tipping anchors, and other behaviors beyond the age of intelligence are invalid, so parents can rest assured,
★ As parents, can we use our children's pressed money?
As mentioned above, this money belongs to the child's personal property, and it is illegal if we do not have the consent of the owner of the property, that is, the consent of the baby.
Don't be afraid, although it is illegal, it does not constitute a crime.
If you have your child's consent, of course, it's okay.
It's not that you spend less money, you can all let the child store it completely.
Depending on the age of the child and the financial situation of the family,
Children who have a concept of consumption can take more appropriately, and children who have no concept of money can properly leave it to their parents for safekeeping, remember, it is safekeeping.
It is treated on a case-by-case basis.