"Hope for the son into a dragon, hope for the daughter into a phoenix" is the common sentiment of people, in order to urge children to study hard, parents can be described as tireless, "painstaking", but also to make plans, but also to supervise the implementation, from time to time also have to tell some inspirational stories, pour some chicken soup for the soul or something. The so-called "words are not as good as teaching by example", no matter how much "chicken soup" is poured into the child, it is not as good as the parents to take the lead in setting an example, leading by example, requiring the child to work hard, first of all, they must be diligent and diligent!
Sometimes, parents ask too much, too fine management will indeed make children confused or even bored, some children in the diary described their parents' "double standard": they sleep, I have to sleep, they wake up, I have to wake up; stay at home to feel annoyed, go out to play to be afraid that I spend money indiscriminately; I don't talk is dumb, I talk is to resist; eat and wear only and poor ratio, learning only to compare with good; watching TV eyes will be blind, playing mobile phone eyes will, reading books will not ...
Some students were scolded by their parents as "stupid birds" and retorted unconvincingly: "There are three kinds of stupid birds in this world, the first one is to fly first; the second is tired and unwilling to fly, and there is the most annoying, that is, they can't fly, they lay an egg in the nest, forcing their children to fly desperately." It can be seen from this that the parents who are nagging and blindly preaching are more bored with their children, and they play mahjong all day playing mobile phones but hoping that their children can not release the scroll, which is not very realistic.
Some people say that parents are the positions that have the greatest impact on their children, but they do not need to hold a certificate, so they have caused a lot of educational problems, if parents also have to hold a certificate, I am afraid that many parents will be laid off because they are not qualified. What if you are not satisfied with the parents' education methods and are overwhelmed by the parents' "chicken baby" education? The practice of a middle school student in Hunan is worth learning from.
Don't parents often give their children inspirational books? This middle school student in Hunan also prepared a "big gift" for his mother - a set of 10 books on "parents' success". When handing these books to his mother, the child did not forget to exhort two sentences: "Study well, every day upwards", a good look of "looking forward to the mother becoming a phoenix", just like the way parents taught their children Dun Dun.
This wave of "reverse operation" is terrible, with its human way to cure its body, the plot of "chicken baby" directly came to a 180-degree turn, becoming a "chicken mother". This mother usually pays more attention to the child's learning, and after the child enters junior high school, she arranges the daily time to be full, but she does not leave the mobile phone every day, and the child dares not speak out about the mother's "double standard" approach.
Later, this student saw this set of ten "successful parental studies" on how to be a good parent on the bookshelf of his classmates, which "You are just pretending to accompany your child" and "Don't yell, don't scream, a practice of mother" and other books can be said to be readily available. So this child has a clever move, parents can urge us to become diligent children, why can't we let parents strengthen their learning, let them become "successful parents" who know how to educate?
So the child used his own pressure money to buy this set of "Successful Parents Learning" series of books and gave it to his mother. Looking at this sudden gift, the child's mother was a bit "caught off guard", in order to maintain the authority of parents, borrowed books at the same time, but also did not forget to "fight back": winter vacation homework written? Have you practiced brush writing? Have you seen the four great masterpieces? After this video was uploaded to the Internet, it triggered a heated discussion among netizens, and many students did not call out after seeing it: Learned, learned, I also want to take my pressure money.
The impact of family education on children is profound and long-term, parents are the child's first teacher, to educate children well, can not rely on experience alone, to grasp the "degree" of education, neither too lenient, nor too harsh, to be lenient and strict, there is tension and relaxation. Ask the child to do it, they must do it first, ask the child can not do, they will not do it first, see more how to do a good job of the parents' book, improve their educational ability, learning educational methods is not a bad thing.