The Spring Festival is the festival that children most hope to live, because not only can they wear new clothes, eat delicious food, but also get money.
As a parent, you will feel that the Spring Festival is a burden for yourself, although it is a day for the whole family to reunite, but it is inevitable that there will be certain expenditures in the economy, especially for ordinary families, new year goods and pressure money for parents and children are not in the minority.
The younger sister gave her daughter 1,000 yuan to press the old money, and the husband gave her two children 500 per person, which offended the whole family
This Spring Festival home, obviously is a happy thing, but did not expect that because of the pressure money to make the whole family unhappy, the younger sister in the second year of junior high school to give the daughter 1000 yuan red envelope, but because the younger sister's family is two children, so in order to be even, the husband gave each person 500 yuan of pressure money, the final total is the same.
I thought this was the best way to deal with it, but I didn't expect the attitude of my younger sister to change instantly, at first my husband didn't notice anything, until my mother dragged my husband into the house and asked: "Your younger sister gives your child 1,000 yuan, and you give 500 yuan to your child?" ”
This sentence instantly made the husband embarrassed, the New Year's pressure money itself is the exchange between the two families, but now it has become a burden, the mother means that since the younger sister has given the daughter 1000 yuan, then the husband should give their children 1000 yuan, plus 2000.
So this also caused the husband's dissatisfaction, and said bluntly: If she gives my daughter 10,000, do I have to return 20,000? Hearing this, my mother stopped making a sound.
But in the next relationship, I always feel that the family atmosphere is a little weird, and the whole family is not particularly willing to talk to her husband, and finally in desperation, I can only leave without eating.
The existence of pressing old money is a blessing and expectation
The pressure of the old money does not care about how much, and this is only a blessing and expectation of adults for the child, but for the current young people, do not want to bring economic burdens to others, and will not choose to take advantage of other people's homes, so there will be the same amount of pressure money on both sides.
How much money to give is the will of the individual, not the chip of moral kidnapping, which is also directly related to their own economic situation, but some parents do not realize the significance of pressing the old money, and use it as an important means to alleviate their economic pressure.
In fact, there will be such a controversy every year in each family, mainly because the ideological concepts between parents are somewhat different, because the child's pressure on the old age and the family's quarrel are actually the least worthwhile things.
What should parents pay attention to when giving money?
Give in front of your family
Mainly considering the age of the child, when giving the child the age of the money, must be given in front of the family, it is best to be the parents, on the one hand, let them know that they have done their part, on the other hand, to avoid the child because of the age of the relationship, the pressure money is lost, and finally it is not clear.
Pay attention to the amount of money you press
The amount here is not to say how much it refers to, but try to avoid some unlucky numbers, like "4", many people may feel that giving 300 is a little less, but giving 500 is still a bit more, so it will take an intermediate number.
However, during the Spring Festival period, if the child receives 400 yuan of pressure money, the parents may be more mindful, and some pleasing and auspicious numbers are "2", "6", "8", etc., according to their own economic situation to choose.
How should students distribute the money they receive?
Leave it to your parents for safekeeping
Pressing the old money to the parents is the choice of most students, and this time it depends on the credibility of the parents, because some of the old money has become the parents' money.
You can negotiate with your parents in advance, if your own expenditure is within a reasonable range, you can advance a small amount with your parents in advance, but you must consult with your parents.
Leave yourself a small portion for daily expenses
Students can set aside a small part as their daily expenses, such as hanging out with classmates, going out to dinner together, or wanting to buy a book, etc., which can be at their disposal.
However, in this process, it is also necessary to have its own expenditure plan, rather than letting yourself dominate, and you need to have a reasonable concept of consumption.
You can also save it yourself
In fact, after the students receive the pressure money, they can also keep it by themselves, which mainly depends on the self-control ability of the students, after all, the pressure money is not a small amount, if the students can't control themselves, there may be a certain loss.
But it does not mean that all students can not control, can choose according to their own ability, you can also cultivate the ability to manage money from an early age.
Finally, I would like to say:
In fact, I personally think that my husband's approach is correct, but I don't quite understand why my younger sister has such a reaction, pressing the old money itself is a blessing, not an important means of getting rich, giving how much is the heart of the family, but also has a direct relationship with the family's economic situation, and needs to be transposed.
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