Bao Ma Xiaoyun has a very naughty son, which gives the family a headache.
The old man in the family chases the child to feed every day, and the old man complains while chasing and feeding. Bao Ma Xiaoyun felt that this was caused by the old man doting on the child too much.
Although the child's father looks more majestic and can roar at the child, it is only a superficial kung fu. As long as the baby is not around, the child will "no tiger in the mountains, monkeys dominate the king" again. Bao Ma Xiaoyun thinks that her husband is the same, although it seems to be severe, but in fact, he loves his son very much and is reluctant to scold at all.
Even the child's teacher has a headache for this child, because this child is too naughty and mischievous, not only can not sit still, but also affects other students to listen to the class. The teacher repeatedly reflected the situation to Bao Ma Xiaoyun's home, hoping to take good care of it.
Bao Ma Xiaoyun did not think so, thinking that boys should be lively and cheerful.
Bao Ma Xiaoyun is a very enterprising person, only in the work, the children in the family are lost to the elderly to take care of, rarely asked. Therefore, the family feels that Bao Ma Xiaoyun has not brought much children, and it is only lip service to discipline children. Bao Ma Xiaoyun is also considered by her mother-in-law to be the laziest person in the family, who does not care about the children for a day, nor does she take care of the housekeeping, when it comes to educating the children with the baby, Bao Ma Xiaoyun is always left behind by the number of people in the family.
Bao Ma Xiaoyun retorted, "Although I haven't brought a baby much, it doesn't mean that I don't take a baby, I just use all my thoughts on work." Bao Ma Xiaoyun retorted, and the final result was that during the entire winter vacation, the family handed over the child to Bao Ma Xiaoyun to bring.
The family thinks that Bao Ma Xiaoyun is standing and talking without waist pain, and after Bao Ma Xiaoyun takes the baby for a period of time, she knows that it is hard and difficult to take the baby. But what the family did not expect was that Bao Ma Xiaoyun had brought out an excellent child with super concentration that the teachers praised in less than half a year.
Although Bao Ma Xiaoyun is lazy at home on weekdays and does not do anything, when she takes the baby, she still feels this way. But Bao Ma Xiaoyun with baby has her own means. Although in the eyes of others, these methods seem to be very stupid, and they are not suitable for family criticism, but the effect of bringing a baby is very good. Next, let's talk about a few stupid ways to bring baby mom Xiaoyun with baby.
Don't bother your child because you care about it
When the child is playing, Bao Ma Xiaoyun is still lazy to play with herself on the side, and will never always ask the child for warmth because she cares about the child, and then disturbs the child.
Because Bao Ma Xiaoyun knows that her child's concentration needs to be protected. If parents always go to the child to ask for warmth when the child is concentrating on playing with toys and doing things, asking the east and asking the west, asking the child whether he is hungry, cold, thirsty... These things will disturb the child, affect the child's concentration development, and eventually make the child become unfocused and do things half-heartedly.
Play crazy with your child
Bao Mama Xiaoyun either does not accompany the child, and if she wants to accompany the child, she will concentrate on accompanying the child. Never play with your phone while you're with your kids, or watch TV while you're watching. Bao Ma xiaoyun knows that the child does not need to be accompanied by inattentiveness, otherwise it will set an example for the child to do things half-heartedly.
Therefore, when Bao Ma Xiaoyun plays with the child, the baby Xiaoyun will be very serious and wholeheartedly accompany the child, even if it is a very childish game in the eyes of many people, Bao Ma Xiaoyun still plays with the child happily.
At this time, the family did not like to worry, because it felt that there was only one naughty monkey in the family before, but now it has become two.
Lead by example, put down your phone and pick up a book
Parents are children's role models, and many times children will take their parents' words and deeds as an example and learn from their parents. Parents all hope that their children will have excellent grades and be more successful in the future, but parents persuade their children to study seriously, often unilaterally, never thinking of becoming a role model for their children, setting up a model for children to study hard, but only unilaterally requiring children to study hard.
But Bao Ma Xiaoyun is not like this, he rarely holds a mobile phone or watches TV during his baby. More often, Bao Ma Xiaoyun is looking at the book with full concentration. Bao Ma's xiaoyun's actions also aroused her son's curiosity.
The son unconsciously will explore what the mother is watching, and actually find that the mother is looking at some story picture books, some of which are also very interested, seeing the arrival of the son, Bao Mom Xiaoyun will explain to the son, accompany the son to watch the children's favorite mountain and sea classics, Journey to the West and other mythological stories. From then on, one can speak vigorously, one listens to the mind, and in the end, the child will consciously or unconsciously go to the children's picture book by himself.
In this way, the son did not like to read much from the very beginning, and when he read the book, he could not sit still, as if he had committed ADHD, and became a good child who read a book and studied hard in the morning.
Guided by hobbies
We all know that interest is the best teacher. When a child is interested in something, he will do it wholeheartedly and intently. Therefore, we can use this characteristic of the child to explore the child's interests and hobbies, so as to cultivate the child's concentration.
For example, children like to play with stickers, we can buy children some sticker picture books that help to train concentration, and play with children, so that not only children like to play, but also exercise children's concentration, killing two birds with one stone.
Bao Ma Xiaoyun listened to the advice of an early education teacher and prepared a children's picture book for the child. At the beginning, it was also necessary for Bao Ma Xiaoyun to play with him, but with the passage of time, many times it was the children who played by themselves, and a play was most of the day, so that Bao Ma Xiaoyun was also happy and idle.
Bao Ma Xiaoyun plays the most for children is "Left and Right Brain Development Sticker Picture Book".
"Left and Right Brain Development Sticker Picture Book" is rich in content, not only common animals, plants, vehicles and other things, so that children can learn to know more things. It also contains 16 major themes such as intellectual development, moral business cultivation, situational ability, learning and business training, attention, hands-on ability, regular training, cognitive ability, financial and business training, reaction ability, memory ability, time game, creative ability, classification ability, space game, visual training, etc., to exercise and improve children from all aspects.
"Left and right brain development sticker picture book" is suitable for 3-8 years old children to play, the difficulty is also from easy to difficult, layer by layer, only need the first parents to accompany and guide the child, the later stage can let the child play by himself.
"Left and Right Brain Development Sticker Picture Book" can not only exercise the child's manual brain ability, but also exercise the child's classification ability and spatial thinking ability, and can also make the child become more focused. If you also have children aged 3-8, you may wish to play with your children in this set of sticker picture books. After posting, it can also be used as a storybook to tell stories to children, which is also a good choice.
Although these methods of Bao Ma Xiaoyun are not too clever, and there is not much skill, it makes people feel a little clumsy. But this is how Bao Ma Xiaoyun has cultivated a child with super concentration.
In fact, this corresponds to a sentence, that is, great wisdom is foolishness. Bao Ma Xiaoyun has used a method that suits the child's nature and conforms to the child's psychology to achieve such a good effect. And many parents ignore this, just by heart, for the good of the child, they always persuade the child in front of the child how to do it, pointing fingers at the child, but the final result is not satisfactory.
In fact, the best way to educate preschool children is to let children play and let children learn in play, which is the best way to educate. Do you agree?