Years ago, her sister-in-law was preparing to buy a house for her son in Wuhan, and for a while she had a tense relationship with her parents. I guess she was upset because she was stressed. Because she was a divorced woman, before

Years ago, her sister-in-law was preparing to buy a house for her son in Wuhan, and for a while she had a tense relationship with her parents.

I guess she was upset because she was stressed. Because she is a divorced woman, the parent-child relationship with her son was not good before. The son has not been a tool, and he has not let her be angry. She didn't pay much attention to it before. Now that he is old, he finds that he still only counts on his son, so he is ready to give his son everything he has to buy a house in Wuhan. But the son's father didn't pay a penny because he didn't have any money. Although the sister-in-law is unwilling, she has no choice but to think of the door alone.

I guess she must have wanted her mother's parents to help, but the girl who married out again, and there was also a brother and daughter-in-law, she had some scruples. Looking at her anxious, every day is not right, I can't bear it, so I took the initiative to send her a message, ask her about buying a house, and told her not to worry about the fire, her parents will definitely help her, we will also help.

I think I took the initiative to pick the words apart, and she would be more or less comforted and relieved.

Now the result is that the mother-in-law told me that the 140,000 she had put in her sister-in-law before was given to her sister-in-law, not counting the annual interest; in addition, the sister-in-law also planned to borrow 100,000 from her, and the mother-in-law said that she had to make an IOU for her, which was intended for her granddaughter. I listened, laughed and said, Okay, then your son and I listened to it.

Then, the mother-in-law said that we also had to borrow some. I said before to borrow 50,000 and sponsor 5,000. The mother-in-law and sister-in-law said that 50,000 is less, they do not want sponsorship, they want to borrow 100,000.

I was speechless.

What do you say about my mood? I am willing to help my sister-in-law, and I only want my family to love each other. But her appetite was beyond my imagination.

My father-in-law died a few years ago, and I felt that my father-in-law had passed away, and my husband and I's parents were gone. Because her daughter was admitted to a key high school, her father-in-law would stuff a big red envelope for her every semester before. Now the mother-in-law said that she had no money, that a month's salary was only enough for her, and that the red envelope had been cancelled. But said she would save money for her granddaughter to go to college in the future. Whenever I say this, my husband and I will be embarrassed to say, I don't want your money.

But the truth is that her money is given to her girl, and her so-called money for her granddaughter is estimated to not reach our hands in the end.

I refused my sister-in-law's request, and said gently, I also have to leave some money for my girl to go to college. So I can only borrow 50,000, another 5,000, and after my nephew gets married, we will sponsor it again.

I was resolute, and my mother-in-law and sister-in-law did not insist any longer.

This incident makes me feel very mixed. Maybe I'm too small and childish, I can't understand that I can take the initiative to borrow 50,000, why would others take advantage of the situation to borrow 100,000? If it were me, I wouldn't have done it.

There is also the fact that I think that the same children, smart, tossing will always get the most benefits.

However, after being a daughter-in-law for so many years, I have already calmed down my mentality, these are all things of my husband's family, if he does not mind the parties, why should I be an outsider and worry more?

It's just that I have to make my own decisions on my own money, and I have to insist on this, even if my husband is not happy, I am not afraid.