The youngest son is a senior in high school this year, a winter vacation basically does not read books, every day to play games until late at night, even eat can not take care of, I his mother said he did not buy it, I was angry but ran into the room to put his mobile phone

The youngest son is a senior this year, a winter vacation basically do not read books, play games every day until late at night, even eat can not take care of, I his mother said he did not buy it, I ran into the room to break his mobile phone, he stood up to fight with me, I slapped him in the face, and clearly told him that you are not good at reading now, in the future you can not even eat, reading is your only way out, but he retorted that I said that reading well can make more money? You see civil servants with a salary of 3,000 can not even afford to buy a house, not as good as masons, they all have more than 10,000 wages, I listened to it even more indignant, what is this fallacy?

He said you see your cousin went out to work in junior high school, learned the wall craft with a mason, and now the salary is more than ten thousand a month, what is not good, he did not starve to death, 23 years old to get married and have children, his current job is very free, want to do it and do not want to do it at home to sleep, how comfortable. You look at the children in the next door, they are 25 years old, still studying for graduate school, not only did not earn money, but also asked the family for money every day, not even a girlfriend, even if he is admitted to the civil service in the future, how about it, even if he can't afford to buy a house, what is the point? It's not a job of two or three thousand, I have to go to work every day, I have to take leave when I have something, I'm not free at all, that kind of life is not rare for me!

I retorted: "The salary of two or three thousand civil servants is the basic salary, and people still have five social insurances and one gold, performance bonuses, provident funds, year-end bonuses, etc., adding up to more than 100,000, people go to work drinking tea, chatting, in the future people will retire, there are five or six thousand salaries, the level of contact is even more different, people's circle of friends is the director, section chief, director, county chief." And what is your cousin's circle of friends? That must be, masons, bricklayers, carpenters, reinforcement workers..., when your cousin retires, he can only take one or two thousand pensions, as long as people have a breath, there are wages and various benefits, and your cousin is different, he will get a day's salary for a day, and if he doesn't do it, there is nothing, you don't know it! You can't just look at what you see in front of you, you can't eat the pain of learning, and in the future you can only eat the suffering of life.

Listening to my pile of words, my son was silent, and I hoped that my son would listen to my words and know why I was angry and dropped his mobile phone.

I don't know if children are now rebellious and like to work against their parents, why can't they understand their parents' grievances?