Controlling parents, insecure, emotionally driven, give their children a sense of uncertainty. This uncertainty is the child's lack of security, and he will spend his life looking for the certainty of love, which is also true

Controlling parents, insecure, emotionally driven, give their children a sense of uncertainty. This uncertainty is the lack of a child's sense of security, and he will spend his life looking for the certainty of love, which is also the root cause of addiction, early love, and mental illness.

Based on the instinct to prove oneself, control necessarily leads to counter-control, and giving rise to stronger control is a source of learned helplessness. Children who grow up in such families are either controlling, flattering, or incompetent.

The controlling personality is not self-aware, so don't expect him to change on his own. The child's rebellion is a cry, and the rebellious period is a choice. Acknowledging the rebellion is a precious opportunity to release.

On the contrary, children who are given positive attention and optimistic feedback will get the positive energy of love and can walk steadily and far.

Love yourself or love your children. The love of loving oneself is control, and the love of loving one's children is fulfillment. Children feel loved and life will fully explore their own worth, like an army with plenty of food. Naturally run 🉐 steady, fly 🉐 high.