20220210 there are a lot of reasons why it is difficult for couples to get along. Talk about some psychological reasons. To paraphrase an old saying: men are from Venus, women are from Mars. Are two different things

20220210 why it is difficult for couples to get along

There are a whole bunch of reasons.

Talk about some psychological reasons.

To paraphrase an old saying: men are from Venus, women are from Mars.

Are two different species. It's not that they come from different planets, it's that they are very different, like they come from different planets.

Why? It is believed that the division of labor in the evolutionary process is caused by differences.

Males evolved primarily responsible for obtaining food, defense, and warfare (fighting). So he was asked to solve the problem quickly and rationally.

A woman's main function in the family is to raise children and communicate with others. So they are natural communicators and need to be listened to.

In modern society, the division of labor between men and women tends to be equal. Women are more adapted to complex jobs that require communication. Men are more comfortable with targeted work.

So this creates a lack of communication in marriage: women feel like they are not understood, men feel that women are nagging.

Specific to each person, they care about different things, receive different training, and have different understandings of the same thing: the wife thinks that this matter is 5 points, the husband thinks it is 10 points; the wife thinks this is a serious provocation, the husband thinks this is a drizzle, it doesn't matter.

Therefore, it may feel that the other party is difficult to understand the problem. Later developed to want to see two bored, let the other party immediately get out of the egg...