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Do you have the same feeling when you return to your hometown during the Spring Festival? This year, we had a very early holiday, and on the twenty-sixth day of the 26th month, we returned to the countryside with our children and husbands and drove more than 300 kilometers. In my impression

author:PA Li Fengqin

Do you have the same feeling when you return to your hometown during the Spring Festival?

This year, we had a very early holiday, and on the twenty-sixth day of the 26th month, we returned to the countryside with our children and husbands and drove more than 300 kilometers. In my impression, going home for the New Year is a very pleasant and happy thing. I didn't expect to return to Jiaozhou every New Year's Day, and my husband and brother had 4 brothers. The two children of the Dabai family, a daughter and a son, waited to go to the civil service examination after the daughter graduated, and still ate the old age at home. I really can't figure out, why should I wait there for the civil service examination? So young to think. I want to continue to be admitted to the civil service and work in the mountain village, in fact, I think young people should go out of the mountains and go to the outside world to see, at least to help those big cities to experience, and then come back to the civil service, as long as they are not over 35 years old, they still have a chance. If it is just to get an errand, I think as long as there is a pair of industrious hands, you can make a living anywhere, you can survive, even a quality of life. Without understanding why the eldest brother and sister-in-law let his daughter go to the civil service examination, my son I will certainly not let him go to the civil service examination, unless he has a very deep friendship for contributing to the cause of the country, and he especially wants to do this thing. Of course, the child is under my careful care and cultivation, and I think that in the future he may not go to the civil service examination. The old three families came home at the latest on the twenty-ninth day of the Waxing Moon, because this year's Waxing Moon Twenty-ninth is the Thirty-ninth Waxing Moon. The daughter-in-law of the third is very lazy, the third is very diligent, and every day after I come back, I cook with my youngest brother and daughter-in-law, I am only responsible for cooking, I am not responsible for washing dishes. The mother-in-law is a relatively strong family member and is said to be the daughter of a landlord. Thinking feudal, always think that the son is his own family, the daughter is the son's slave, the next person only discusses with the son, do not let the daughter-in-law participate, in fact, in such a ideological environment, I do not agree, I do not like, I do not want there is such an atmosphere in the home. In fact, I especially don't want to go back to this home for the Spring Festival, but I think that the children are still young, we should give them a good example, so that every Spring Festival we have to follow our parents to celebrate the New Year, because only in this way, in the future, I think children should know how to be grateful. So no matter what the mother-in-law does to us daughters-in-law, in every year I actually honor her and show her to the children, and set a good example for the children. After going to my mother-in-law's house, I still have to go to my grandmother's house. Knowing where I was raised when I was a child, finding childhood friends, we chatted together, talked about homely things together, gossiped together, big things happened in the village, and small things visited each other, in fact, outlined a lot of things that I didn't expect. Because back in the countryside, many people's thinking is different, in the countryside to climb than than too normal, I am a very optimistic person, I do not compare with people, I have my own way of life, but I am not a backward thinking person, I want to keep pace with the times to the world, to life, to add some style to their lives. Seeing that we are all divorced after the 80s, and then both men and women have a child, I am glad that I have a happy family. Two playmates of the same year as me, a male, divorced, and the child had graduated from junior high school, but dropped out of school because he did not have the company of his mother. Another girlfriend who was no more than a few days away from me also divorced and lived alone with her son. The next is that after the 90s and 00s got married less than a month, the child was born full moon, and then I heard about the divorce, I don't know why there is such a decision that I can't do, because the child is my hard-earned pregnancy, or even my own education, maybe I didn't get a good education from a young age. In short, my children, the children I give birth to, I must raise them alone, personally. Let him have a perfect childhood, I will not leave him alone, unless I have passed away. Or some of the predecessors after the 60s tail and the 70s, they are still single, I don't know if it was a poor family when they were young, or because of the environmental genes at that time, social evolution has not yet reached a certain level, why they have worked outside for so many years, and even a wife has not been obtained. Fortunately, each of the three sisters in our family has become a family, has a car and a house, and his parents are not particularly good, at least he will not be carefree. Parents are particularly inspirational, although living with us in Guiyang, they will still find their own things, seek their own survival, not idle for a moment, I think to make us a very good example, to be honest, especially admire their parents. The Spring Festival is over, tomorrow I will start work, I don't know if everyone goes back to the Spring Festival to go back to the New Year and I have the same feelings. Today is the first ten days of February, I wish you all perfect and auspicious Year of the Tiger.

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