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#Beijing Headlines #[One Can Not Be Less] In the process of life, in the face of relatives who have naturally left, I mean the kind of situation you know, although sad, but still some heart

author:Beijing Zhao Guiqing

#Beijing Headlines #[One can not be less] original essay

In the process of life, in the face of relatives who have naturally left, I mean the kind of situation you know, although it is sad, but it is still somewhat psychologically prepared. This grief can always be healed over time. And in the event of an emergency, the loss of a loved one occurs in an instant, and the person will collapse. My hands are shaking as I narrate this, but unfortunate things happen every day, and it's really helpless. A living person, suddenly away from you, the last side has become a trick, what a sunny day thunderbolt, caught off guard.

White-haired people send brunettes, middle-aged widows, elderly children, or drowning/car accidents/fires/electric shocks......... These things, which are also difficult to avoid in peacetime, happen from time to time. Although it is a normal phenomenon, it does not alleviate my "unfounded worries". The reason why people have pain is because people are the top flesh and blood creatures with the richest emotions, getting along day and night, turning around and saying goodbye, this kind of thing will live like a year on anyone's body, collapse, and even want to go with it. In this regard, the vast majority of parties are not mentally prepared at all! There is no greater sorrow in life than this.

How can a living person who is just in his prime suddenly be separated from your yin and yang? How did the person get through this darkest hour? Only I know that no matter how others put themselves in the shoes of others, it is difficult to empathize. Why did I think of saying this? I don't know, just want to talk about it. I don't like to watch comedy very much, the kind of gong and drum noisy people setting up a feast, they are separating people, buying laughter. Maybe people need to be happy and increase the festive atmosphere to have a place for comedy sketches. Life is always hard, at least not salty, where there is so much joy.

I remembered attending my uncle's funeral before, and the young couple came to the house to say goodbye. With my observation, I can still find the unusual sadness of the visitors, and later learn that they have just lost their beloved son, which is caused by a sudden illness before preparing for the wedding. Aiko is 29 years old, all kinds of smooth, all perfect, everything is ready, but suddenly an accident happens, which makes the boy's parents, fiancée, relatives and friends how to bear! The sky has fallen. In the world of relatives, it was raining heavily in an instant, mixed with goose feathers and heavy snow, cold and bone-chilling. For a long time, I couldn't help but come to my senses.

I've also heard that my parents divorced because of an extramarital affair, and their son has been disheartened ever since, addicted to video games all day, smoking and drinking, drunk and dreaming, depressed, and died within a few years, at the age of less than 17. At the funeral, looking at the well-dressed, cold son, the portrait /wreath/mourning......... The father could not stand up, crying and crawling on the ground, and the mother fainted unconsciously, and then half-collapsed. Aiko retaliates against her parents by self-harming. It's the feeling of a knife cutting flesh and a knife cutting a bone, even then.

Actually, I'm afraid to see tragedy. How many homes have been destroyed by the traffickers who should have been slashed with a thousand knives, not to mention the demonic acts of selling qiguan. There is a TV program called "Waiting for You", which is dedicated to this kind of thing, and I am determined not to watch it, and I can't stand the emotional torture of inserting advertisements in the middle. The column group invited a group of celebrities to stir up emotions, and the music sounded, layered on top of each other. And the result of thousands of calls is that the child is still not found! Just such a person who artificially prolongs the suffering of others and destroys the nerves of the audience, why do you broadcast it? I have to wonder if the choreographer is hard-hearted, or at least not really capable.

Last night, I watched the old movie "The Rest of the Bitter Sea", which was a man-made crime in the war-torn era, but fortunately the story ended well. In reality, will there be such a good chance? People are struggling in the sea of suffering, feeling the unhappiness and various setbacks in life, but they still have to live tenaciously. People, all people understand people, few will really believe that there is any afterlife, anyway, I do not believe. Because no one has ever come back from the dead to give this world an appearance! People who believe in heaven and the afterlife, as a kind of emotional care, spiritual sustenance, and psychological comfort, can have.

I say this not pessimistic and world-weary, but I want to prove the most simple truth, it is not easy to live, relatives and friends should cherish each other in this life. There is a chance to meet, and what can really be kept together is this short moment at the moment, and it may no longer be seen. This view of mine is not encouraging negative emotions, letting you go with the flow, wandering the world, not learning nothing, seeing through the red dust, but calling on people to make a difference in their own life, not to waste a life. It can be seen from this that at least for what to make the bloodline raw, it is unwise and not worth it. If people want to be harmonious, they should not be less.

Thank you for your attention and gratitude!

#Beijing Headlines #[One Can Not Be Less] In the process of life, in the face of relatives who have naturally left, I mean the kind of situation you know, although sad, but still some heart

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