I am 73 years old, with a pension of 5800, and I have lived in my son's house for ten years, and this morning, my mother ran up to me angrily and said, "You move quickly, right?" You live here again

I am 73 years old, with a pension of 5800, and I have lived in my son's house for ten years, and this morning, my mother ran up to me angrily and said, "You move quickly, right?" If you stay here any longer, my daughter will go crazy. I said a word to her, and she looked at me stunned and asked, "Are you really a mother?" I said to her, "I'm just too close, otherwise would you dare to come to me and make a fuss?"

I have a grandson, now 12 years old, when I first came to help them with children, I can't say that I brought children to my daughter-in-law, I can only say that I brought children so that their two sons can reduce the pressure of life, devote themselves to work, I am willing to be this strong backing.

At first, this backing was that the mother was not me, and when the daughter-in-law gave birth, I was very grateful to let the mother come to help, but then the daughter-in-law's sister-in-law also gave birth to a child, so the mother-in-law helped to take it to her son's house at the age of three.

The daughter-in-law couldn't help me, and I was still a more traditional person, thinking that it was appropriate to bring my grandson, so I went to my son's house.

When my grandson was four years old, my son consulted with me: "Mom, the child needs a school district house for elementary school, you sold your old house over there, let's make up a good school district house to live, how do you see it in one step?"

I definitely strongly support this kind of thing, but my son said that I was going to make it up alone. I don't bother with this kind of thing, my money is also my son's sooner or later, and now I spend it on them, and they can still read my good son!

When my grandson was in elementary school, my daughter-in-law said to me, "Mom, you are a retired primary school teacher, and we can rest assured that we can help us with our children."

Because of the daughter-in-law's words, I take the child more carefully, and strive to let the child learn the best in the primary school stage, everyone knows that the most important thing before the third grade of primary school is to develop a good learning habit, who has brought children who knows, eating and drinking is not nothing, the most headache is the child's learning.

He's really disobedient! Smart and energetic, lack of concentration, educating children for decades, in the end found that he could not educate his grandson, his father when he was young, why did I have to worry so much? After finally educating the child, he could give his son and daughter-in-law a satisfactory answer sheet, but he did not expect to be taken away by his daughter-in-law?

I wasn't at all surprised when my mother said these things to me, and I asked her how I had driven her daughter mad? She said that her daughter-in-law had been complaining to her that she had not had a single comfortable meal since I had been here, saying that I had deliberately cooked meals that she did not like to eat, and that I had deliberately not washed her underwear and socks.

I didn't see that she was uncomfortable eating the food I made? It's true that I don't wash her underwear and socks, is a woman really lazy like this? Son's I don't help wash it? Can't I help with other clothes?

I found that in the past six months, my daughter-in-law's attitude towards me has changed greatly, and the rice I cooked has become salty, and the porridge has become a place for her to find me. She didn't pick a fault before?

She also deliberately choked me in front of her son, I was not good at seizures, and my son did not say anything to help me speak.

I said to my mother, "Does your daughter think that her child will soon graduate from elementary school and doesn't want me to stay here?" Wouldn't that be the one you wanted to come over? I heard that you have not had a conflict with your daughter-in-law for a day or two, how? She also thinks you are not comfortable cooking? Also said you're going to mad at her? ”

My mother was speechless for a moment, and I continued, "This is easy to do, didn't your daughter say that I was going to mad her?" It's okay to go, but it's not me, the house is mine, and it's their family that wants to go. ”

The mother-in-law narrowed her eyes and immediately said, "Are you a mother?" Where are you going to get them? ”

I said how come I'm not a mother? I am too close to them, these ten years I have worked hard to do free nanny not to say, but also to take the pension out of the living expenses, they eat my drink, I live mine, and finally want to take me away? They are indeed crazy.

Didn't your daughter complain to you and let you pass on the message to me? You go and tell her that if you want to leave, they will also go, I will not point to them to give me a pension in the future, I have money and a house, I am afraid that there is no place to go? You tell her again, I have a nephew and a nephew, and it is not certain who will leave the property to after that?

A few words said the mother rolled her eyes, I was angry, but in the future this old mother I have not done it, I have also lived a dashing old age life, the daughter-in-law came back to dinner at noon when the hippie smile said: "Mom, you did not cook ah?"

I also smiled and said, "Mom is old, I can't do it, I'm afraid I'll have to wait for you in the future."

The daughter-in-law immediately said: "Mom, look at what you said, you have done so much for this family, what are you doing at this age?" After work, I cook, you just wait to eat, there is nothing to go out for a walk. ”

I know why she is like this, but I don't say broken, it is good to live like this in the future, everyone says?

@Wei Wei Wei Wei wei said: This article is based on the dictation of the aunt.

Aunt this age of the old man, their own life to the family and children, all said to raise children to prevent the elderly, reality tells us, money and house in their own hands to really prevent aging, you have to rely on morality and good customs to restrain children to be good to you really rely on heaven. If you take up the legal weapon to fight for a pension money for yourself, then you will not be happy, so the old people should make plans early.

Auntie is a smart old man, it seems that the original purchase of the house is also written in their own name, although the daughter-in-law's approach is very chilling, but she through the words to knock, effectively resolved this crisis, this is the aunt's cleverness, really throw the son's family out may not be better than now, everyone says?