I am 37 years old and a door-to-door son-in-law. Yesterday, I overheard the conversation between my wife and my mother-in-law, and I felt very uncomfortable. In a fit of rage, I filed for divorce. The wife said, "You have the ability."

I am 37 years old and a door-to-door son-in-law. Yesterday, I overheard the conversation between my wife and my mother-in-law, and I felt very uncomfortable. In a fit of rage, I filed for divorce. The wife said, "If you have the ability, you will leave, you nest man." I made up my mind that no matter what, I should live for myself.

I am 37 years old, an authentic rural person, but also a door-to-door son-in-law, and my wife has been married for more than 10 years, and I have been trying my best to please my wife and family.

My family has four brothers, I am the eldest, because the family is poor, I also went out to work early to help my parents subsidize the family. I have talked about two girlfriends, but because of the bad conditions of my family, they eventually broke up, and I know that I can't blame my parents, they raised me with hard work, it is already a great grace.

When I was 26 years old, I was introduced to my current wife, whose family conditions were much better than my family's in all aspects, although they were also rural people, but the population was small and there was more arable land.

The day after I met her, she offered to express her affection for me, but her only request was for me to come to her house, because there were no boys in their family and my father died early.

I considered that my parents were under too much pressure and in order to save money on the family's expenses, so after much deliberation, I decided to become a door-to-door son-in-law.

My wife and I did not have any emotional basis, and we got married directly in the second month of acquaintance, and we also belonged to the flash marriage. After getting married, I have been working hard, and I also want to try my best to please them. Because my wife said before: "Whether you can stay in the future depends on your performance, you also know that my family's conditions are much better than your family, and my father died early, so you have to be responsible enough for me and my mother, we can rest assured of you, if you hang erlang, we will not recruit a new one."

In the fourth year of marriage, my wife lived with me for the first time. Later, she gave birth to a son, but followed her surname directly. But I also understand, after all, their family has no male in addition to my son-in-law, and the son is the continuation of their hopes.

When my parents learned that their wife had given birth to a grandchild for them, they were very happy and wanted to come and see, but they were turned away by their mother-in-law, who said, "This grandson is my daughter's surname and has little to do with your family."

I am very disgusted with these words said by my mother-in-law, now they are all family, and there is still a difference between your family and our family, but I dare not say it, otherwise she will be angry and will have an opinion on me again.

2 years ago, when my second brother got married, I initially discussed with my wife, but she was reluctant to give money. I could only secretly take 50,000 yuan to the second brother, and after the mother-in-law and wife knew, they pointed out to me and scolded me, and even almost moved my hands and feet, if I didn't consider that I was a son-in-law, otherwise I would definitely scold back.

Over the years, relying on me alone, I have developed their family into a sound and colorful. Because of the amount of arable land, I planted a lot of fruit trees and built a large chicken farm, which brought hundreds of thousands of profits to my wife's family every year.

Even the wealth I created was in the hands of both of them. My wife also told me two years ago, "If you can ignore your parents and brothers over there and live with us well, I can also trust you with everything."

But how can I ignore that side, as a son of man, I am already sorry for my parents when I come to the door, they are my relatives after all, I can't ignore it. I have hardly helped my parents and brothers in all these years, and I am ashamed.

Last month, my third brother got married, asked me to borrow 50,000 yuan, thinking that the third brother was married, and I had to find a way to help him no matter what. After all, the whole family knows that I have made a lot of money over the years. After discussing with my wife, she disagreed, she said: "At most, we can only borrow 5,000, and we don't have more, and these 5,000 don't know if he can afford it."

Hearing my wife's tone, I really dared to be angry. That's my brother, it's her brother, and even if you don't borrow it, you don't need to be humiliated.

2 days ago, when I was in a hurry to catch the market, I quietly took out the 100,000 yuan I had saved over the years and handed it to the third elder, I said, "These money are used for marriage, more for my parents, if it is not enough, I am talking to me." This 100,000 is actually all my private money, and I can't let my family know that I am very unhappy here, so I can only pretend to be calm and not let them worry about me.

Yesterday, my wife asked me, "Did you secretly give your third brother a sum of money?" I said no. The wife immediately called the third elder, and the wife said, "This is what your brother stole from my house, and you must return it immediately." Hearing my wife's words, my heart suddenly fell short, and my parents and brothers knew that I might not be doing well.

At night, I took my son to bed, but I heard the conversation between my wife and my mother-in-law, although it was very quiet, but I was particularly sensitive, and I could hear it very clearly.

The wife said, "I wanted to divorce him, I thought he would be wholeheartedly committed to us, but he still couldn't let go of his parents in his heart, what did this kind of man leave him for?"? The mother-in-law said, "This year's harvest still depends on him, or don't wait for this year's fruit to sell money, and then kick him out", the wife said, "After this year's harvest, we both have millions of savings, almost enough, next time recruit an honest and obedient man."

I listened in my ears, but it hurt in my heart, I used it for more than 10 years, but I was still treated as an outsider by them, but it was dispensable, my only value was to be able to help them make money, that's all. I was angry and immediately rushed out, and I said direct divorce.

But the wife said, "If you have the ability, you will leave, you are a man with a nest after all." Since she had always looked down on me in her heart, I didn't need to please them anymore.

I also thought about it and got divorced the next day, and I had enough.

Should I get a divorce?

@Moving Emotions I would like to say:

After reading your sharing, I don't know how to evaluate you, being a man must at least have your own dignity, and you swallow again and again, so that you will only increase their arrogance and disdain.

Get a divorce as soon as possible, use legal weapons to get back everything that belongs to you, you have the ability, but you lack a platform. #情感 #