This year, when I went home for the New Year, I found a strange phenomenon in our village, those who have gone to college or are studying at university go home for the New Year, basically like to stay at home and rarely go out

This year, when I went home for the New Year, I found that there was a strange phenomenon in our village, those who had gone to college or were studying at university went home for the New Year, basically liked to stay at home, rarely went out to hang out, talked with their parents at home, helped their parents do housework, or went to their grandparents' houses to help do what they could, and then they were watching TV or sleeping and playing with mobile phones at home, anyway, they basically did not go out to play.

In contrast, those young people who have not gone to college or returned from working outside the home really put down their luggage, immediately called friends, and gathered together to drink and chat and talk about their ideals. And basically do not eat at home, groups of three or five about to get up to eat outside restaurants, after eating also about to sing, basically do not sleep at night, do not get up during the day. Throughout the Spring Festival, in addition to eating, drinking and having fun, there is nothing else to do, and after the New Year, it is a big bag and a small bag to embark on the road of part-time work, day after day, year after year.

Some people may feel that this situation is normal, after all, these two kinds of people think differently, and people who have read books and people who have not read books cannot do the same thing. Because the working young people work outside all year round, it is not easy to take a break in the New Year, they must have let go of eating, drinking and having fun, but the readers are different, they will use this time point to accompany their parents more, help their parents to do some housework.

For such a strange phenomenon, I think the main reason is: there is no common topic between the two, after all, everyone's circle is different, and it is impossible for people who read books to talk to others about how much money they have earned from working this year. Working life and reading life are different. People who read the book have a wider vision pattern, a deeper understanding of human nature and the world, will not be interested in low-level fun such as eating, drinking, and making some fox friends, understand that the so-called connections in this world are just value exchanges, focus on improving their personal value, and do not want to participate in useless social networking.

Is there such a phenomenon in your village?