In 1999, under the stalking of the senior Xia Yu, the 22-year-old Yuan Quan embraced the vision of love and agreed to Xia Yu's pursuit.
For the two of them to be together, as a result, their relationship has not yet reached the "seven-year itch", in 2005, the relationship between the two lit up a red light.
With the intervention of another actress, Gao Yuanyuan, their relationship that they maintained for 6 years was declared over, and Gao Yuanyuan, who was ridiculed by the media as "the third on the top", was also complained about because of this matter.
What Gao Yuanyuan did not expect was that she and Xia Yu had been entangled for less than a year, but Xia Yu turned around and went back to beg Yuan Quan to reunite, leaving her alone to silently accept the ridicule of the media.
The reason why Xia Yu ran back to ask Yuan Quan to reunite was very simple, Yuan Quan was a more suitable woman to live a life.
In fact, Xia Yu's choice is also correct, he and Yuan Quan have been married for so many years, Yuan Quan has not only been working hard to play the role of mother, but the identity of daughter-in-law is even more pinched by her.
From the glamorous and beautiful popular actress in front of people to the "virtuous wife" who handles family affairs with ease after people, the contrast between Yuan Quan's drama and outside the drama is really too big.
With the help of Yuan Quan, Xia Yu resolved the love-hate entanglement with her parents for many years, and Yuan Quan's cleverness untied the knot that had been entangled in her husband Xia Yu's heart for many years.
Under the careful management of Yuan Quan, the phenomenon of "mother-in-law discord" and "family discord" existed in many families, and with the arrival of Yuan Quan, Xia Yu never had such a situation again.
Speaking of this, as an "outsider" Yuan Quan, why can she let her husband release her resentment against her in-laws and in-laws for many years? What means did she have to make her mother-in-law treat her better than her daughter-in-law?
One
Yuan Quan, a native of Jingzhou, Hubei Province, was born into an ordinary family in 1977, her father was a table tennis coach, her mother was a local primary school teacher, and she also had an older sister.
Because her parents have serious occupations and a very stable income, although Yuan Quan's family conditions are not particularly good, she can also be regarded as worry-free about food and clothing, and she lived a particularly happy life when she was a child.
Her teacher mother is a person who knows how to enjoy life, and every weekend or holiday, she will take the sisters out to play, and usually buy them all kinds of beautiful clothes and dress them up nicely.
Influenced by her mother, Yuan Quan was full of interest in all beautiful things, when she was 11 years old, Yuan Quan, who was in the fourth grade, met the secondary opera school affiliated to the China Academy of Drama to enroll in the primary school where she studied, and with curiosity about new things, Yuan Quan signed up for the exam.
Originally, I just wanted to have fun, but I didn't expect that Yuan Quan, who grew up with a lovely water spirit, was really caught up.
In this way, Yuan Quan officially embarked on the path of an actor and studied Peking Opera performance in the Drama Academy for 7 years.
At the age of 18, yuan quan gave up the path of Peking Opera in order to develop in the long run, and applied for the acting department of the Central Academy of Drama, instead studying acting.
Yuan Quan, who had outstanding appearance conditions, was very watery at that time, and with the solid foundation laid by studying Peking Opera for many years, she successfully passed the examination of Chinese opera.
In 1996, she officially stepped into the campus of Chinese opera, and became classmates with Zhang Ziyi, Mei Ting, Hu Jing, Zeng Li, Zhang Tong, and Qin Hailu, who were later very popular.
Because of the particularly good relationship between several of them and the outstanding appearance conditions, they are also known as the "Seven Golden Flowers" of the Chinese opera, which is sought after by many suitors.
In the year of entering the Chinese opera, Yuan Quan met the man who later entangled her for a lifetime, and this man was her senior Xia Yu.
Two
Xia Yu is a year older than Yuan Quan, and at the same time entered the Chinese opera a year earlier than Yuan Quan, and more importantly, before entering the Chinese opera, he has entered the show business circle with the starring role in the film "Sunny Days" directed by Jiang Wen.
This work not only opened the door of the show business circle, but also made him, who was only 17 years old at the time, win the best actor of the Venice International Film Festival, the Singapore International Film Festival, and the Golden Horse Award, and he was also the first person in Chinese mainland to win the title of Venice Film Emperor!
Just as the so-called "debut is the peak", Xia Yu quickly gained a foothold in the entertainment industry with this debut work that entered the development of the entertainment industry and became a hot newcomer in the entertainment industry.
By the time Yuan Quan entered the Chinese opera, the 20-year-old Xia Yu had become a prominent figure in the Chinese opera campus, and almost all the idols and male gods in the hearts of all the students.
Even Zhang Ziyi, Mei Ting, Qin Hailu and other female classmates who were familiar with Yuan Quan at that time had already established a foothold in the show business circle, and she was the only one, or a "xiaobai" who did not have much acting experience.
When she later recalled her mood on the show, she said: "In the first six months of my entry into the chinese opera, I always felt that the sky was gray. ”
In order to stand out in the talented Chinese opera campus, Yuan Quan has been working hard to learn various acting skills after entering the Chinese opera, and when others are busy falling in love and playing everywhere, only she is immersed in learning.
However, what people did not expect was that Xia Yu, the film emperor who was already famous at that time, had a strong interest in Yuan Quan, a primary school girl.
Since meeting Yuan Quan on campus, Xia Yu has been obsessed with her, and in order to get to know Yuan Quan, he also ran to find a student who admired him to match himself.
As a result, I realized that I knew Yuan Quan, but Yuan Quan was only focused on studying at that time, and did not want to talk to him about anything at all.
Every time Xia Yu asked Yuan Quan to go out to play, it was a long time before he could make an appointment, often the kind that was rejected about 10 times and 8 times.
In 1997, Xia Yu, who had known Yuan Quan for more than half a year, finally agreed to go out on a date with him after a long period of booing and asking for warmth.
They went to the Great Wall together to see the night view, but unfortunately the sky was not beautiful, and when the two arrived at the foot of the Great Wall, it suddenly rained heavily, and they could not go anywhere, so they could only listen to songs in the car.
Xia Yu was playing Aaron Kwok's "Tonight I'm a Little Bad", Yuan Quan, who was sitting in the car, listened to this song and looked at Xia Yu's side face, and she finally had a good feeling for Xia Yu at this time.
Later, Xia Yu continued to launch a fierce attack on Yuan Quan, and Yuan Quan, who had already secretly promised Xia Yufang, did not hold back for long and agreed to his pursuit.
Three
After being with Xia Yu, while talking about a sweet love affair with Xia Yu, she is trying to make herself more excellent, especially thinking that her boyfriend Xia Yu has achieved success in the show business circle, she is even more afraid to relax herself.
In 1999, Yuan Quan, who was in her junior year, finally ushered in the opportunity, and director Teng Wenji took a picture of her pure temperament and invited her to participate in the work "Rhapsody of Spring".
Yuan Quan, who acted for the first time, originally just held the idea of trying it out, but because she played the role of "Zhou Xiaomei" in the film too well, she won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actress that year with this role.
Yuan Quan, who has emerged in the show business circle, has also ushered in a breakthrough in her acting career, and after graduating from Chinese opera, her first work "Blue Love" starred in was nominated for the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress.
In the following years, she successively filmed works such as "The Ruthless Sword of the Sentient Mandarin Duck", "Whirlpool", "Beautiful Bigfoot", "Little Fish and Flowers", etc., and achieved very good results.
Later, she partnered with her boyfriend Xia Yu and cooperated with the work "Shanghai Rumba", because Yuan Quan, whose relationship with her boyfriend became more stable, couldn't help but sigh: "I have never been so calm to face an actor, who is not only my work partner, but also the other half of my life." ”
However, what she did not expect was that when her career was getting better and better, she encountered setbacks in her feelings.
In 2006, boyfriend Xia Yu and Fan Bingbing were exposed by the media to "kiss photos", Yuan Quan, after seeing the photo, generously said: "I believe him, this is a scandal created." ”
As a result, not long after, when Xia Yu and actress Gao Yuanyuan collaborated on the drama "Sexual Encounter", the two really staged a "sexual encounter".
Some media photographed Gao Yuanyuan, who was cooperating with Xia Yu at the time, and "stayed overnight" at Xia Yu's house for two consecutive nights, when Yuan Quan and Xia Yu had not yet broken up, and after this matter was exposed, it attracted widespread attention from netizens.
At that time, Gao Yuanyuan was also labeled as "Little Three" and "Insert Foot", until Yuan Quan came out to explain that she had peacefully broken up with Xia Yu two months before Gao Yuanyuan stayed at Xia Yu's house overnight, and the matter was over.
And the scandal between Gao Yuanyuan and Xia Yu did not last long, the two of them entangled for less than a year, aware that It was still Yuan Quan's good Summer Rain, and went back to ask Yuan Quan to reunite, under Xia Yu's repeated assurances, Yuan Quan, who loved him deeply, agreed to reunite.
After leaving Xia Yu, he met Zhang Yadong, Xia Yu and other people's Gao Yuanyuan, and finally met Zhao Youting, the true son of heaven, and the two later not only entered the palace of marriage, but also gave birth to the daughters of the two of them, and now live very happily.
Four
After Xia Yu, who was separated and reunited with Yuan Quan, chased Yuan Quan back again, he especially cherished this feeling, and under his careful care, Yuan Quan also believed in his sincerity again.
In 2009, Yuan Quan, who had a deep affection for Xia Yu, agreed to his marriage proposal, and when friends around her learned that she was going to marry Xia Yu, they all advised her to think clearly, because Xia Yu's original family was not particularly good.
When Xia Yu was 3 years old, his parents chose to divorce because of their personality incompatibility, and not long after the divorce, his mother found a new man, and he lived with his father.
But his father was a man busy with work, and he was not at home for many years, so he threw him at his aunt's house.
At first, his parents would come to visit him, but as time went on, both of them seemed to have forgotten him, and it can be said that when he was a child, he always lived a life of "father does not care, mother does not teach".
Fortunately, Xia Yu's uncle and aunt have always regarded him as their own and raised him as their own son, not only for him, but also for education.
Just because Xia Yu was not particularly happy when he was a child, many friends were afraid that Yuan Quan would be wronged after marrying him, but Yuan Quan said: "I know him, he is definitely a good person, I am married." ”
In this way, the two of them began to prepare for their wedding nervously, but when it was time to hold the wedding, Xia Yu suddenly found her and said, "Otherwise, if the witness is married, don't look for my parents, let my uncle and aunt do the work!" ”
Yuan Quan was confused at first, but then he thought about it for a while before he understood that Xia Yu always had mustard in his heart, and he could not let go of his parents' questions when he was young.
Yuan Quan, who firmly disagreed, said that he could compromise on other matters at the wedding, but this was not enough, so when they held the wedding in 2009, they finally invited Xia Yu's parents as witnesses.
It's just that when Xia Yu, as a groom, thanked his relatives, he did not say too many words of thanks to his parents, but said a large number of touching words to his uncle and aunt.
Compared with the uncle and aunt who were moved to tears at the wedding scene, Xia Yu's parents seemed a little sad, they never expected that they would not be able to match his uncle and aunt in their son's heart.
All this is seen by the sympathetic Yuan Quan, who has been seeking to resolve the relationship between her husband Xia Yu and her in-laws since marrying into the Xia family.
Five
In 2010, when she gave birth to her daughter Xia Youran, her mother-in-law came to take care of her, and Yuan Quan showed special enthusiasm for her husband's cold wave to her mother-in-law, which made her mother-in-law particularly moved.
When the father-in-law who settled in Japan wanted to come back to see his granddaughter, it was also she who took the initiative to welcome her before Xia Yu refused, which gave the father and son more time and opportunities to get along.
It may be that he is older, when Xia Yu's father has the idea of returning to the roots of fallen leaves and wants to return to Beijing to settle down, Xia Yu behaves lukewarmly, or Yuan Quan takes the initiative to accompany his father-in-law to find a house everywhere.
Yuan Quan, who has always regarded her in-laws as her relatives after marriage, has been working hard to resolve the contradictions between her husband and her in-laws and ease their relationship.
Now that she has been married to Xia Yu for 12 years, through her own efforts over the years, she has not only untied the knot in her husband Xia Yu's heart for many years, but also with her help, Xia Yu's relationship with her parents has now been completely eased.
Through getting along with her father, Xia Yu also understood that when she was a child, it was not that her father did not want to accompany him, but that if she did not focus on work at that time, she could not raise him.
As for his mother, after divorcing his father, she also formed a new family, and it was even more unlikely that she would treat him like an ordinary mother.
All this, Xia Yu slowly understood and released with the help of his wife Yuan Quan.
After the relationship with his parents eased, Xia Yu was no longer in the relationship of "old and dead and no contact" with them as before, and he would take his wife and daughter to his parents' house to sit down every New Year's Festival.
Since his father was a painter, he also visited himself when his father held a painting exhibition, and now that he is getting along more and more with his parents, everything is developing in a good direction.
Six
Don't look at Yuan Quan after marriage spent a lot of thought on the family and the relationship between her husband and in-laws, she has never left her acting career, after so many years after marriage, she is still trying to bring good works to the audience.
She has brought us "Great Shanghai", "Sweeping Drugs", "Heart Flower Road Release", "Golden Age", "History of the Demise of Romanticism", and other films, which have won the recognition and support of the audience.
In 2018, she won the title of "Annual Performance Drama Star" of the TV Quality Festival with the role of "Tang Jing" in the starring role of "The First Half of My Life"!
In addition, in recent years, she has participated in "Captain China", "Qing Yu Nian", "Flowing Golden Years", "1921", "Chinese Doctor", "Falling Flowers" and so on, which are one after another, which have won the support and love of the audience.
She is getting better and better, and she has changed from a little girl who did not act when she knew her husband Xia Yu to a popular actress with a strong and popular actress whose acting career is even better than her husband's development!
Yuan Quan, who is now 44 years old, whether it is family or career, she is particularly well managed, and she has taken care of both family and career very well, and she has almost become the envy of all actresses.
She exchanged her love and tears for the warm happiness of the family and the harmonious coexistence between her husband and in-laws.
She exchanged her own efforts and persistence for career success, as well as the support and recognition of the audience's fans.
It can be said that Yuan Quan, who is now a winner in the life of a living adult, deserves our support and recognition in all aspects.
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