The phrase "you have the ability not to spend my money" will still feel sad even if you hear it now, let alone when we were children, how desperate and helpless we should have been at that time.
I saw a video of a child arguing with his mother because he wanted to buy something, and his mother blurted out: "You have the ability not to spend mine". How difficult it should be for children to hear this sentence at that time, and dare to express their thoughts bravely in the future?
Chinese parents like to threaten their children with money, because they know very well that their children have no earning power and can only rely on them, so they want to use this way to manipulate their children, which is really speechless.
It's so upside down, good and bad things are all what your mother is saying, how many family portrayals are said [covering face]
Murder and heart-wrenching, these two sentences [tears]
People are really duplicitous, belittling you and thinking that you are not from this family. When you really don't go home, you start to say that you are not filial and raise you for nothing
It seems that most people are like this, for example, I basically go home once a long time now [covering my face]
They won't remember, they will only say lightly that I have forgotten everything for so long, you are so stingy and remember it for so long [awkward laughter]
Fierce to his own family, very good to outsiders, I really don't understand. It is we who provide for their old age, and we are not outsiders [covering their faces]
One parent, one experience
It's so suffocating [covering face]
When I grow up, I have the ability to live on my own, and my mental state is much better
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