I am 63 years old this year, last year I helped my son bring more than 8 months of children, I thought of letting my wife come over to have a New Year's reunion dinner together. Who expected my son and daughter-in-law to unite to deceive me, after learning the truth, my heart was like ashes, sad, it seems that my son is not counting on, I decided not to take my grandson this year, and spend my old age with my wife.
My wife and I are retired employees of the municipal printing factory, I have been retired for 8 years, my wife is 3 years older than me but retired 2 years later than me (the general male staff in the factory retire is 60 years old, and the female staff is 55 years old), we have been in love for 40 years, and at home we are respectful of each other. Take a walk together, dance square dance, and live a very pleasant and comfortable life.
We have two children, my daughter has been married for more than a decade, and my son was only married the year before. My little grandson was born last May, and my daughter-in-law urged us to go and take the baby. My wife and I have not been separated since we were married, and I said to my son: Either I will not come or come with your father.
My son said: Mom, you also know that my home is more than 60 square meters, and dad can live there. Let me ask the babysitter your son not to be so capable! Mom, you don't come to help me, who will bring your grandson?
My wife is actually a very capable man, and I am not worried about any housework. But my concern is that he has high blood pressure and diabetes, and I walked him one at home, and I was really uneasy.
alas! There's no way around it! My wife and I have not been separated for half a lifetime, and when I left, he was still secretly wiping tears, and I was very sad and sad to think about this.
My son lives in the provincial capital city, when he first bought a marriage house, we helped support 250,000, and at present, the wages of their young families are very low, and the two people's monthly wages are about 10,000, and after the mortgage is paid, the remaining money is also tight. As far as this son is concerned, I feel that helping to bring my grandson is my unshirkable responsibility and obligation.
I am at my son's house, I get up at 5 o'clock every day to buy vegetables and make breakfast, mainly with my grandchildren, and I take time to cook, wash dishes, sweep the floor, wash clothes, and I keep the house in order. I went to bed at 11 o'clock in the evening, and my body seemed to be tired and about to fall apart.
My monthly retirement payment of more than 3,000 yuan was also attached to the family expenses, but it was gratifying that for my own efforts, my son and daughter-in-law were very satisfied.
On the eighteenth day of the eighth month of last year, I told my son that your father was alone at home, and you took him to have a reunion dinner together during the New Year, and then you took him out for a walk around and let him see the world. The son did not squeak at that time, and after a while he said that he would discuss it with his daughter-in-law.
I was very angry at the time, I helped you to be a free nanny for more than 8 months, and also posted 20,000 or 30,000, is it not okay for me to make such a small request? Besides, you bought a house and we paid 250,000, shouldn't we live for a few days? Even if we don't contribute to you at all, our son should be filial to his father!
It wasn't until the evening of the 24th of the lunar month that my son said to me: Mom, this year my parents-in-law took me over there for the New Year. You'd better go back and reunite with Daddy!" Come back after the New Year, this is the train ticket I bought for you, the time is tomorrow 5 o'clock in the afternoon.
I think it is also my own family is such a daughter, the mother's family is more than a thousand kilometers away from here in the south, it may be that the two sons of the family miss their daughters.
On the afternoon of the twenty-eighth day of the Waxing Moon, the weather cooled down and the north wind blew, I was afraid that my grandson was cold and cold, and the other was to see if my son and daughter-in-law's family drove away? I dialed my son's landline, who expected to answer the phone was my mother, I was confused at once, she said: Dear family! We also just arrived, the two of them were holding the child in the mall to buy something, I said the weather in the south is warmer, my daughter said that she said that she would pick me up and her father to come over for the New Year, my mother, how did you go back, stay together for more than a busy year. #Emotion#
After I hung up the phone, I understood everything, I poured out my heart and lungs for my son and daughter-in-law, making cattle and horses for them at his house, and my wife and I wanted to have a reunion dinner at their house, so that the wish became a luxury, but in the end they were calculated. Although I am very cold, but this is also good, I will not go to take the children in the future, at home with my wife to enjoy a stable and happy old age. (Netizen)
Is it right for you to say that I did this?
Nowadays, there are many children who eat the old people, what to find a job, to find a partner, you have to let your parents worry, what marriage to buy a house must also let parents both pay and contribute, as if parents are living for their children. The key to the selfless giving and dedication of parents is that as children, they do not know how to give back and be grateful, as if everything should be. Parents want nothing more than a word of concern and a trivial act.
Can it be done to rely on the elderly and count on the children? The answer is no, definitely not. As a son, after marrying his daughter-in-law, all actions are restricted, and many things are powerless. Having a retirement gold, a house, and a wife is the guarantee of a happy life in your old age.
Conclusion: Don't be deceived by the beautiful lies of your son and daughter-in-law, and walk together with your wife to complete the long and long life path.
