Mr. Yang Dai once said that I didn't even have you for a second, but it was as if I had lost you, which is the voice of many people who are deeply in love and can't extricate themselves.
No matter how generous people are, once they meet love, they will involuntarily become "miserly", even if they see each other smiling at other opposite sexes, they will feel sour in their hearts.
But there is no justified relationship, and all the sourness does not even have the right to say it, but can only be silently hidden in the heart.
Perhaps in order to stand by each other's side in an open way, or to satisfy their inner desire for love, everyone will quietly try to change the relationship between them.
If a woman wants to have a relationship with you, she sends these "signals".
1. Deliberately approach you
Most lovers start from friends, because even if there is love at first sight, it may not be exactly two-way, it is likely that when you fall in love with each other, the other party only takes you as a friend, so in the end, your relationship can only return to friendship.
Among friends, everyone will have a measure, especially friends of the opposite sex, even if the relationship is good, there will be a ruler in the heart to measure, so as not to accidentally cross the line to bring unnecessary trouble to each other.
But some people deliberately cross the line frequently, they always approach you consciously or unconsciously, whether it is eating or singing, always sitting in the nearest position next to you.
Even if at some times, there is nothing to talk about between each other, but she has been trying to find a topic, may be poor talking skills, will make people embarrassed do not know how to reply, can only be like an interview to ask and answer.
But this kind of embarrassment that everyone can perceive with a clear eye does not let her stop, but enjoys it, in fact, the purpose is obvious, that is, to be able to understand more with you and let the relationship between each other enter the next step more quickly.
2. Take the initiative to show that you are single
For friends who have just met, because the relationship is still in a relatively shallow stage, many private topics will not take the initiative to talk about, which will seem particularly rude.
There is only one exception, and that is when people with a clear purpose do not just want to be friends with you from the beginning, so they will first understand some key information.
At this time, women often take the initiative to ask about your emotional status, after learning that you will be happy after learning that you are single, and then will take the initiative to show that they are single, although they do not directly say any words of confession, but the words reveal that they hope that the relationship between you can be deeper.
Some women will also take the opportunity to learn about your past and want to know about the things between you and your ex, of course, these are more private, so if you just treat them as friends of men, naturally they will not say.
So on the contrary, if you are willing to share these past men with them, even if you do not have too strong love desire for them, at least you will not just stay in the stage of friends, which is also a way for women to judge whether it is possible between two people.
3. Invite you to your own home
Women's boudoir is not something that anyone can go to, and some men may not have been to each other's homes even if they have a good relationship with female friends.
Of course, there are some old friends who have been together for many years, or have visited, but for friends who have just met, the average woman will not easily invite each other to sit at home.
Especially in the case of only each other, such invitations will not be issued, unless the woman herself has other ideas about men.
When they invite each other to come to the house, they are actually sending a "I like you" signal, especially at night, if the woman does not mind you going to her home, and even takes the initiative to invite you, most likely hoping that your relationship can get a qualitative leap.
If you reject the other party at this time, it is equivalent to telling them that you have no other feelings and ideas for her, and the woman will understand that from now on, she will no longer have any illusions about you, and will gradually alienate you and keep each other in the relationship of ordinary friends.
In this era of indiscriminate affection, a "dear" is at best a hello, a sentence of "next time please you to dinner" is at best a thank you, why be too serious.
Perhaps it is because of seeing through this that many people are no longer willing to believe in others, even if they encounter love, they will hold a hesitant attitude, afraid that they have misunderstood each other, and finally they can't extricate themselves, but the other party leaves in a dashing manner.
If you have such a problem now, you may wish to benchmark the above three points, and if the woman does send you these "signals", don't doubt that she is really in love with you.
If you are still hesitating, hesitating, careful will miss this hard-won affection, many times, feelings are not defeated to time, nor to reality, but to our inability to be brave.
As long as you are brave and take a small step forward, you will find that everything is not as terrible as you think, and life and love are so beautiful.