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Mentally ill nephew today on the second day of the Chinese New Year, I went to the second sister's house as a guest, the second sister's family is in the countryside, I have not been to her house for two or three years, because in those years she and the second brother-in-law have been working outside, almost

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Mentally ill nephew

Today, on the second day of the Chinese New Year, I went to the second sister's house as a guest, the second sister's family is in the countryside, I have not been to her house for two or three years, because in those years she and the second brother-in-law have been working outside the home, almost the New Year has not returned home, this year went home for the New Year, but also invited my family to her as a guest.

There are not many guests in the second sister's family, they are all familiar faces of old relatives and old relatives, and they have not been seen for several years, which is particularly kind.

After eating, I suddenly thought about my nephew who had graduated from college for many years, and my second sister replied to me: "Upstairs." ”

I think something is wrong, a few years ago to the second sister's house, when the nephew was in college, when he saw me coming, very enthusiastic, asked han and warm, but why didn't he come to greet me this time?

Besides, he used to be my student, and my uncle took good care of him. He applied for high school and college or I helped him to guide, especially after the college entrance examination, he filled in the volunteer left and right, I let him fill in the teacher training, but he has no interest in being a teacher. Finally filled in Xi'an Jiaotong University, graduated from college and was admitted to the Second Bureau of China Railway, which is indeed the pride of the family.

When I heard my nephew upstairs, I immediately said to my second sister, "I'll go and see him." ”

The second sister quickly stopped me and said, "Don't look at him..."

I asked, puzzled, "What's wrong?" ”

The second sister looked a little sad, paused and said, "Brother, I don't know how to tell you that he is a ruined person..."

I looked even more confused, I couldn't hold back, I wanted to get to the bottom of it: "Isn't he working in the second bureau of China Railway?" How did it go wrong? ”

The second sister was full of grievances and quietly said to me, your nephew has a mental problem. When I heard the second sister say this, I was shocked, how such a smart young man had become mentally ill, I couldn't believe it.

The second sister slowly told me that it turned out that my nephew entered the second bureau of The China Railway five years ago to engage in design, where the work treatment was also seven or eight thousand, working for a year, he still felt that the salary was low, but his high school classmates let him come out to do business together, and bragged to him that at least 100,000 yuan a month. When the nephew heard the classmate blow, he simply resigned from the job of the Second Bureau of China Railway, and borrowed money to invest 200,000 yuan to do business with his classmates, but they did business together for less than half a year, and they lost all 200,000 yuan. The nephew has no return, there is no other way, and he wants to return to the second innings of the China Railway, but he can never go back.

This nephew entered the trough of life, had to go south to work, although it is a college student, but in the south to work college students abound, have to find some ordinary work to do, but the salary of the work is not as good as in the second bureau of the China Railway, this gap is really a bit big, so others slowly become silent, almost do not go to work, all day in the rental house in a daze, gradually depressed.

Last year, the second sister received a call from her son's friend and told her about her son's situation, the second sister stopped working and rushed thousands of miles away to visit her son, seeing her son like this, she was also scared and crying, but many times advised her son to go home, but my nephew could not go home.

The second sister did not receive her son, and the second brother-in-law brought some friends again, and finally forcibly took my nephew home.

After the nephew returned home, he still locked himself in the house all day, for half a year, all day without even eating downstairs, all sent by his parents, but this nephew only ate once a day, only at night, during the day to serve the meal, he could not move.

When I heard the second sister say this, I was very sad, and I ignored the second sister's obstruction, I still went upstairs to find my nephew. The door to my nephew's room was closed, and I knocked on the door repeatedly, but he just wouldn't open it.

Finally, at the repeated requests of the second sister, my nephew finally opened the door, and the nephew standing in front of me really frightened me, he was disheveled, bearded, dirty, almost human-like, and the nephew I saw a few years ago was not a person at all. When I called his name, he didn't react halfway, and Muna's expression was similar to that of the people in the madhouse.

I said angrily to my second sister, "My nephew is like this, why don't you tell me, why don't you take him to the hospital?" ”

But the second sister was also sad, she said: "I said to take him to the doctor, he said he is not sick, what do you say I should do?" ”

I took my nephew's dirty, black hand and said, "Obediently, listen to your uncle, and your uncle and mother will take you to the doctor." ”

My nephew threw away my hand and muttered to himself, no one could hear what he was saying, and then my tears flowed out, and I really didn't know how to help him.

Mentally ill nephew today on the second day of the Chinese New Year, I went to the second sister's house as a guest, the second sister's family is in the countryside, I have not been to her house for two or three years, because in those years she and the second brother-in-law have been working outside, almost

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