More than 30 hours, more than 1,000 kilometers away, I don't know how my mother survived. The moment I received my mother, I held my mother and shed tears. She looked haggy all over

More than 30 hours, more than 1,000 kilometers away, I don't know how my mother survived. The moment I received my mother, I held my mother and shed tears. She looked very haggard all over, this time my mother only stayed for 3 days and then went back, no matter how much I kept her, let her play for a few more days she would not. Before leaving, I gave my mother 10,000 yuan, and I didn't know how my husband knew about it, and scolded me. The next night, when I cleaned the room where my mother had slept, I stumbled upon a passbook pressed under a pillow with 60,000 pieces left on it. I immediately dialed my mother's phone, but her words made my heart flutter.

When I was 28 years old, I married in Guangzhou, and after giving birth to my second child, I worked hard and part-time, and I was tired every day. In less than half a year, my monthly salary was more than 8,000, but my husband asked me to keep his salary for him, but the reason was that I was afraid that I would randomly pay the family. I think this reason is ridiculous, I am not a stupid woman, I did not agree to my husband's request.

My name is Wang Yue, I am 32 years old this year, my father died when I was 10 years old, I can't remember what my father looked like in my memory, my mother single-handedly brought me and my brother up. I was 10 years old when my father left, and my brother was even younger. Our mother, in order for us to grow up safely and healthily, resisted everything by herself, and still has not remarried to this day. My mother's income was very low, and I often couldn't afford to pay for my brother and me's tuition and living expenses.

Our family conditions were very poor, probably to reduce the burden on my mother, and I dropped out of school after junior high school. I left my mother to work in other places, and most of the money I earned at that time was paid to my brother's tuition, and so on for many years. My brother got good grades and was admitted to a good university.

When my brother graduated from college, I was 28 years old, and my brother was able to take care of himself at that time, and I began to think about my marriage. By chance, I met a very interesting person, my current husband, who is also a young man who came to Guangzhou alone.

We developed rapidly, and in less than half a year we began to talk about marriage. I want to marry from my hometown to Guangzhou, my mother did not stop, very blessed, just kept telling me to take care of myself, if I was bullied, I would go home. My brother told me to go with confidence, saying that I could take care of my mother and myself now that I was working.

My brother had a girlfriend in his hometown, he also had a job as a teacher, and the family was relatively wealthy, he gave his mother 1,000 yuan a month, and our mother was not so lucky.

I was more stressed after I got married. Because my husband and I came to Guangzhou to work alone, we didn't have any savings and no house. My husband and I earned only 10,000 yuan a month, but we had to save up to buy a house.

My husband often said that I couldn't help him, saying that if I could make more money, he wouldn't be so tired. I knew he was under a lot of pressure and I wanted to comfort him, but I was really sad to hear that.

2 years later I gave birth to a girl, my husband's side is more traditional, because I did not have a boy, not so happy, I just gave birth to the child mother took a car to see me, said to take care of me as a confinement.

As soon as the confinement was finished, my mother went back, and before leaving, my mother asked me to take care of myself. I originally wanted to give my mother 5,000 yuan, and my mother seemed to see my mind, let me take care of my daughter, don't worry about her, and said that it is normal for a mother to take care of her children, don't think about giving me money.

Two years later I had my second child, this time as a boy, and it made my husband and mother-in-law very happy. I called my mother to tell her she had a boy. Because there are some things in the family, my mother said that this time she will not come, let me pay attention to my body, just hung up the phone my mother transferred 6,000 yuan to me. Let me eat well and take care of my body, I know that this money is accumulated by my mother little by little.

I wanted to return the money, but my husband wouldn't let me go back, saying: Your mother has a job, and your brother will transfer money to her every month, and they don't need that much money. Our family is now in a time of lack of money, you provide for your brother to go to school, for this family to pay a lot of money is deserved.

After the weaning of the second child, I worked hard to earn money, and in less than half a year, I earned the same income as my husband. My husband asked me to keep the money for her without my consent. Probably because I have understood the pain of no money for so many years, so I thought of putting it in my hands, not long ago, my mother said that she was going to come to Guangzhou, and I was very excited.

This time my mother stayed here for 3 days and left, before leaving, I gave my mother 10,000 yuan, but my mother refused to accept it no matter what, and at my strong request, my mother had to accept it helplessly. But my mother told me that she would help me save it in case I needed it.

My husband was not happy to see the souvenirs brought by my mother from home, and said: "They can be bought on the Internet, and they are not used to toss back at all." "Fortunately, my mother didn't hear it, otherwise my mother would have felt so bad."

My husband insisted that I gave my mother money indiscriminately, and under his persecution, I told him the truth. I didn't expect my husband to throw such a big tantrum at me, he said: "We don't even have a house, the child milk powder money is gone, you still have money for your mother"?

I didn't want to argue and left angrily. When my mother came home, the next night when I cleaned the room where my mother had slept, I stumbled upon a passbook pressed under a pillow with 60,000 pieces and a password on it. I called my mom and asked why she had left me so much money?

My mother said that she owed me too much, let me drop out of school when I was a child, and had to provide for my brother's schooling, which made me miserable over the years.

I didn't fall asleep that night, and countless times I thought of my husband's attitude towards my mother, and I seemed to have figured out something, I was going to divorce my husband, and I wanted to go back to my hometown with my mother and take care of her. I understood in a trance that my distant marriage was a mistake.

Do you think I should get a divorce? Can you give me a suggestion? #情感 #