At 10 o'clock in the evening, my wife took my mobile phone to visit Taobao, accidentally saw the 50,000 yuan I transferred to my ex-wife, instantly angry, returned to my mother's house overnight to complain, the next day, my mother-in-law came to my house with my wife early in the morning, when I told my mother-in-law the truth of the matter, my mother-in-law said something that made me particularly shocked!
I am Zhao Liang, 40 years old, a rural person, I grew up in a single-parent family, it was my mother who worked hard to pull me up, since I got married, in order to live, my wife and I chose to go to the city to work.
The two of us worked hard in the city for more than 3 years, and our lives have improved, and we planned to fight for two years to buy a house in the city and then have a baby.
But the weather was unpredictable, my mother suddenly had a stroke, paralyzed in bed, no one to take care of, helpless, I had to go back to my hometown to wait for my mother, but my wife refused to go back with me, had to stay in the city to live. Unexpectedly, a year later, my wife married a new family and decisively filed for divorce with me.
After the divorce, in order to earn a breath, I took the only 30,000 yuan in my hand, and asked my relatives to borrow 20,000 yuan, transformed my cornfield into a greenhouse vegetable, after my efforts, slowly expanded the area, and now I can earn more than 200,000 yuan a year, I am very pleased with my efforts!
Two years later, under the introduction of friends, I married my current wife, my wife is a woman who is both virtuous and filial, taking care of my mother at home, never worrying about me, after a year of marriage, my wife gave birth to a son for me, I was very happy, thinking that this was the beginning of my happy life.
Five days ago, I pulled a cart of vegetables to the city to wholesale, unexpectedly, when I finished wholesale vegetables, just about to go home, suddenly saw a woman with a face full of vicissitudes, holding a broom and sweeping the garbage on both sides of the road, the most shocking thing to me was that this woman was actually my ex-wife.
Seeing this, I immediately stepped forward, grabbed my ex-wife's hand, and said to her, "How did you end up here?" What the hell is going on? Aren't you married to a rich man? "My ex-wife was startled by me, and when she saw that it was me, tears fell down her cheeks. After a while, my ex-wife calmed down and told me about what had happened to her.
It turned out that after the ex-wife and I divorced, married to a rich businessman who was 10 years older than her, she had a good life at first, but since the ex-wife became pregnant, she found that her husband had long been a family person, his wife and children were living in other places, her husband was never sincere with her, just playing with her feelings, the former wife knew about this matter, made a big fuss about her husband, wanted to get back a justice, did not expect her husband not to say a word, directly dumped her.
The ex-wife was heartbroken and wanted to beat up the child, but after all, it was her own flesh and blood, and some of them could not bear it, so in the end, they had to give birth to the child and return to their mother's house with the child.
However, as the child grows up day by day, there are more and more places to spend money, and slowly, the savings in his hands are gone! In this way, the ex-wife had no choice but to hand over the child to her mother to bring, go out to work by herself, in order to earn money to raise the child, she did everything, sweeping the street during the day, going to the restaurant at night to clean the dishes, and working two jobs a day to maintain her life!
After hearing this, my heart was sour, although it was she who abandoned me first, but after all, we were husband and wife, because I was raised by my mother since I was a child, and I understand that it is not easy for a single mother.
So, I took out my mobile phone, transferred 50,000 yuan to my ex-wife, and said to her: "You use this money first, don't worry about paying it back, no matter what happened before, it has already passed, after all, you and I are husband and wife!" ”
After my ex-wife listened to my words, she excitedly shook my hand and hugged me and cried!
What I didn't expect was that at 10 p.m. last night, my wife said that her mobile phone was out of battery and wanted to use my mobile phone to visit Taobao, and I accidentally saw the record of my transfer to my ex-wife.
It is conceivable that the wife directly exploded, dropped the mobile phone, and shouted at me: "You are OK, actually carrying me outside to find a woman, and also transferred 50,000 yuan to others, are you right about me?" ”
After I listened, I wanted to explain to my wife, but my wife did not give me the opportunity to explain, directly came forward and slapped me, and then slammed the door and left, returning to my mother's house overnight.
The next morning, I was woken up by a knock at the door, and when I opened the door, I saw that it was my mother-in-law who had returned with her wife, and I thought to myself, my mother-in-law must have come to ask me about the crime.
Unexpectedly, after my mother-in-law entered the house, she said to me calmly: "Liangzi, I believe that you are a person, you will not do that kind of betrayal of marriage, what is going on?"
I told the ins and outs of the matter, and after my mother-in-law listened, she turned her head to her wife and said, "Daughter-in-law, from this incident, we can see that you have not married the wrong person, Ryoko is a generous and kind person, seeing that his ex-wife has difficulties, he can help her regardless of the previous suspicions, the purpose is just to make her live a little better, he is not wrong to do so, but it is you who are wrong, you should not argue with him indiscriminately."
After my mother-in-law left, although my wife did not argue with me, she never spoke to me, and I felt that my wife still could not pass the hurdle in her heart.
Let's talk about what kind of wife should I be now to forgive me?
@ The other side of wisdom: First of all, to be thankful that you have such a mother-in-law, there is an old saying in the countryside that "buy a house to see the beam, marry a daughter-in-law to see the mother-in-law" That is to say, the mother is the child's first teacher, if the mother is a reasonable person, then the child will not be bad.
Second, your mother-in-law is a reasonable person, so your wife will not be the kind of selfish and unopened-minded person. Therefore, as long as you treat your wife with 100% sincerity, she will definitely understand you and forgive you.