People are old, if the wife is gone, please take the initiative to rely on three people 01: Although it is not realistic for future generations to raise children and prevent old age in modern society, after all, children are also facing endless pressure

People are old, if the old partner is gone, please take the initiative to rely on three people

01: Descendants

Although raising children and preventing the elderly is no longer realistic in modern society, after all, children are also facing endless pressure, and in the case of self-care, they are more powerless for parents.

But even if your children can't fully afford your old age, they can help you in some ways. For example, after your partner and children leave, they will take you to the house for a small stay, occasionally talk to you, and take you to the hospital as quickly as possible when you have a physical problem.

Just like the TV series "All Is Good", although the relationship between Su Daqiang's family is very tense, just after su's mother died, it was still three children who accompanied Su Daqiang. Even if su Mingcheng is as stupid as Su Mingcheng, he still gives Su Daqiang a certain amount of companionship and comfort, otherwise Su Daqiang's second half of his life may really be lonely.

Many parents today always feel that their children can't help themselves, so they would rather live alone than take the initiative to rely on each other, not knowing that sometimes it is the happiness of their children and grandchildren around their knees that can fill the emptiness and loneliness of the second half of life.

There are also some people who are well aware of the hardships of their children and do not want to take the initiative to trouble each other, but forget that supporting their parents is the responsibility of their children, even if these responsibilities cannot be fully realized in modern society, they should let you rely on the rest of your life.

Relying on your children in your old age does not mean that you have to put all your life on each other, after all, the other party really can't do it, but I hope that you can enjoy their care in time for your children, because you have paid so much, and it is time to reap.

Although people's hearts are unpredictable and their feelings are getting colder and thinner, the affection between parents and children is always difficult to give up, and it is enough to heal people's hearts. Occasionally trouble children should be deserved, if everything is carried by themselves, perhaps it will cause bigger problems.

Just like many people are reluctant to eat, do not want to wear, and dare not take the initiative to go to the hospital when they are sick, in the end, there are big problems, and there are more places where children need to spend money.

Traditional education has always tended to favor the love of parents as selfless, but few people tell us that parents can also ask for their children. This is not deviant, but a very normal thing, after all, no one has the responsibility to be unconditionally good to a person.

I hope that when it comes to trouble with your children, you can take the initiative and don't wronged yourself in order to take care of your children.

02: Confidant friend

I once saw a variety show, one of which was five girlfriends together to form a group for the elderly. Most of these aunts are not married, or married and widowed, in short, in their old age, they are lonely and lonely, fortunately, each other is the best spiritual sustenance for each other.

Each of them took out a part of the money and jointly built a beautiful house and settled down in the beautiful scenery of Yunnan. Although looking forward, each of their lives is lonely, but because of each other's company, the rest of their lives are full of poetry.

This is not a case, around us, many people have had a group pension plan with girlfriends and friends, especially at a time when many people are not planning to get married, this way of providing for the elderly is more popular.

Although similar paths are full of unknowns compared to traditional lifestyles, if there is no one around, this approach is not a good result. Walking and chatting with friends, tasting food, seeing the variety of life, hugging each other at night to keep warm, maybe the happiness you get will multiply.

Of course, this requires us to make real confidants and friends when we are young, and maybe in the future you will not form a group with your girlfriends for the elderly, but as long as you think of a companion in this world who knows and communicates with you, your heart will be warm. When your wife is gone, they may be the light of the rest of your life.

03: Yourself

All his life, people continue to move forward in the atmosphere of people coming and going around, and when they reach the end, they are only left with themselves, and the only thing you can rely on is yourself.

Loneliness is the norm of life, even with the company of a lover, we still have to live on our own, others are just the icing on the cake.

If in old age, there are no friends and other halves around, and the children have their own lives, it is better to rely on themselves. Idle tea to plant flowers, study and travel, continue to run their own careers and hobbies, perhaps a person's life means freedom and happiness.

There are unpredictable storms in the sky, and people have bad luck and bad luck. No one knows if the other half will leave, but as long as there is such a possibility, we must be prepared.

The other half may take away some of our happiness, but I believe that in addition to that, you have so many people to rely on, children, friends, yourself, and if you never give up on life, then life will not give up on you.

Hopefully, after leaving anyone, you can live passionately.