The Spring Festival Gala is out of the Divine Comedy again! The song "This One Word New Year" sung by Da Zhang Wei and Wang Mian fully interprets the helplessness of people when they are tortured by the souls of the seven aunts and eight aunts during the New Year.
"Do you have an object?"
"When will you get married?"
"Why haven't you had a baby yet?"
"When do you want a second/third child?"
"Did you buy a house?"
"How much is the salary/bonus?"
……
How will you respond to all of this?
Some people feel embarrassed and prevaricate in a few words;
Some people feel bored and may directly anger back;
Some people feel helpless, silent or directly ignore;
Others choose to preemptively kick the ball over before the other side can open their mouths:
"How much does my cousin earn?"
"Does my cousin have an object?"
"Did my cousin buy a house?"
"When did the old uncle hold his grandson?"
In short, with the seven aunts and eight aunts master tricks, fighting wits and courage, curve to save the country, not happy. Unconsciously, the brain makes up a happy picture.
They all say that they have money and no money to go home for the New Year. Going out and working hard, going home for the New Year is the warmest expectation in my heart.
After a year and a half of not seeing, family and relatives will naturally care, and are full of concern and curiosity about your personal work and life, which is the common sentiment of people and the temperature from home.
The seven aunts and eight aunts are sometimes too enthusiastic, always hoping to grasp the first-hand information at the first time. It is not excluded that there are a small number of narrow-minded relatives who have a comparison or gossip mentality.
But most of them still want to know more about you and see if they can relieve your worries, but their minds are simple and they don't think too much, often ignoring that this may touch the privacy of others and may embarrass you.
Therefore, facing their soul torture, it has become a sweet burden.
If you have a clear understanding of the other person's mentality, then it is easy to deal with.
In the face of ill-intentioned inquiries, since the other party is not at ease, it is natural not necessary to carry good intentions, see the wind to make the rudder, see the tricks, see people talk about people, see ghosts and say ghost words, anyway, as long as they do not break the law, you can pick up what the other party wants to hear, let them be blind and happy after less gossip, you can also be happy to be blind, let the other party be jealous and itchy, anyway, you can be comfortable. In short, how happy how to come.
And in the face of people who really care about you, you don't need too much psychological burden and resistance. Be honest and at peace. Believe that the other party is sincerely thinking about you, even if the methods and solutions are not necessarily what you like, but don't chill the other party's heart.
The most important thing is not to let your mood be overly affected and consumed by these small things.
Returning home for the New Year is a good reunion with the family, and you should cherish the time and get along with your family more, which is the right topic for the New Year. You say yes or no?
#如何花式应对亲戚们的灵魂拷问 #
