My mother-in-law had a birthday, and the whole family came to my house for dinner, and I was busy with no one to help. After making the last dish, I just picked up the bowl and prepared to eat. The mother-in-law said: Is it only a few for my birthday?

My mother-in-law had a birthday, and the whole family came to my house for dinner, and I was busy with no one to help. After making the last dish, I just picked up the bowl and prepared to eat. The mother-in-law said: Do I have these dishes for my birthday? At this time, the sister-in-law also interjected: Give our mother another longevity noodle. By the way, make two more hard dishes. I was furious and said something that made them regret it

I'm Arlene and I'm 27 years old. I married my husband two years ago, he was I used to meet at a friend party, when he took the initiative to talk to me, we also added friends, and then chatted for a long time and thought he was also quite humorous, after two meetings, we were together, and after a year of dating, we both got married

At first, the mother-in-law was very happy, after all, it was a big day for my son to get married, but as time went on, my mother-in-law and her family were less and less eager to see me. Because we have been married for more than a year and have not had children, sometimes they ask their husbands when they want children, and their husbands are embarrassed to say: Linlin does not want it now, and wants to wait

I am very angry, this is what I want to wait for, obviously my husband has a physical problem, I can't blame me for not wanting to be angry. My mother also often urged me to hurry up and have a baby. In fact, I am also under a lot of pressure, after all, this is not my own business, and my husband can't cooperate with me

My husband begged me to help him keep the secret, saying that he had wronged me. After all, he is a man, let people know that he has a problem, he will be very faceless. No way, let me be this sinner. So I silently endured these gossip, hoping that my husband would be well soon

Later, I secretly came to the hospital with my husband for examination, and the doctor said that there was no good way to this disease, and I could only slowly recuperate. And prescribed a lot of Chinese medicine.

My husband and his family basically have dinner at their mother-in-law's house every weekend. Some time ago I went with my husband, and when I arrived at their house, my mother-in-law didn't open her eyes to look at me, and I knew that she thought I didn't want to have children, so she was angry with me. While cooking, I shouted at my husband to let him grab the hen in the yard that doesn't lay eggs and stew it. I knew that there was something in her words, and she wanted to say that I was the chicken that wouldn't lay eggs, and I was very depressed at my mother-in-law's house that day. But I can't tell her it's your son's problem

Later, when I got home, my husband and I had a big fight. I said I really can't stand it, obviously it's your problem, they all say I have a problem. My husband begged me not to be silent, saying that my body was about to be conditioned, and let me bear with it any longer

Seeing his helpless expression, I was half relieved. Although now, after all, when we were in love, he was very good to me. After all, it is also their own choice, no matter how difficult it is, they have to insist on it. But then again, why didn't I find out before I got married?

Another year has passed, and my husband's body is still not well conditioned. Now my mother-in-law's opinion of me is even greater, and I know that other relatives are laughing at me. Look at my jokes. I'm all their talking point behind it

This weekend, the mother-in-law said that next weekend is her birthday, when she is an old birthday star does not want to cook, ask who is responsible for cooking next weekend. At this time, my husband took the initiative to ask my daughter-in-law to come. I also want to take this opportunity to perform well and change my mother-in-law's perception of me through my own efforts

Everyone saw that someone had won the bid, and they all agreed with it. After all, being responsible for the meals of a large family is definitely a chore. Few people want to do it. In the end, my mother-in-law agreed to go to my house for my birthday when she said it

Soon it was the weekend, I got up early in the morning, went to the market to buy ingredients, I spent my six hundred to buy a lot, chicken, duck, fish, ribs bought a lot, after all, I was afraid that everyone would not be happy to eat. When I got home at eight or nine o'clock, I started to get busy. They were busy until noon, and they were not finished, after all, I did it alone. The efficiency is a bit slow

But everyone was on the couch, the kids weren't playing games, the adults were chatting and brushing their phones, and no one was there to take the handle. I served the food one after another, and they ate it first, and kept urging me to hurry. I didn't eat until a little more than a little, I didn't eat in the morning, I just wanted to sit down and eat something, my mother-in-law said: Is it over with these few dishes? I held the bowl and did not say a word, the sister-in-law interjected: you go to give our mother a longevity noodle, by the way to make two hard dishes.

The little uncle also interjected at this time: Your meat is not rotten, our young people have good teeth, you make it so hard for our mother to eat. He also said that his daughter-in-law had just become pregnant, so he asked me to make another sour and spicy soup. This is obviously another mockery for not having children

I watched me busy for half a day, one or both picking my thorns. I've put up with it to the extreme. At that time, he slammed the bowl on the table and said: I have had enough. Then he yelled at his mother-in-law: It is your son who is useless, it is a matter of two people to have a child, and don't think it is my reason not to come out all your life. Ask your baby son to go

I originally wanted to give my husband a face, but I really couldn't stand it, and I didn't help from the beginning to the end, so many people said me, he didn't say a fair word, not to mention that I was carrying thunder for him

I said I was going to get a divorce, I didn't go through with him, I didn't get angry with this anymore. My mom bought this house, and you all gave it to me. In the end, my husband and I divorced, do people think I did the right thing? Will it be over?

I don't think there's anything wrong with what you're doing. First of all, your husband's own problems, not only did not make a man's responsibility, only care about their own face, all the gossip let you bear it yourself, knowing that it is his own problem, and did not defend you at the critical time, so it was right to divorce him

And the mother-in-law's family has never cared about your feelings, so stay away from the people in this family. Your value in their eyes is the fertility machine. No matter how much they do without having children, it is wrong in their eyes, they only care about their own interests and feelings. Support your choice. Do you have any other opinions?