The word "skinny" was originally a more neutral adjective. For modern women, hearing others describe themselves as "thin" may feel happier than winning the lottery.
Indeed, under the aesthetic of "thin for beauty", how many women try to control their diet in order to have a slim body, but in the eyes of many older generations, the word "thin" has a somewhat pejorative meaning.
In the eyes of many elderly people, slight fat and large ass are the criteria for choosing a daughter-in-law. Why do the old people, especially the old people in the countryside, dislike thin people and prefer chubby daughters-in-law?
There is a saying called "big ass, good life", many elderly people are convinced of this. They think that a big ass, chubby girl is good at breeding and can give birth to boys, while thin girls can't get into their eyes, they think that thin girls are weak and sick, and it is not good to have children.
Yuanyuan has recently lost love, and she is very aggrieved when she thinks of the reason why she was "dumped". Yuanyuan has been very slim since childhood, and belongs to the "eat not fat" physique. Although her name is "Round Circle", her face is not round at all. She is 1 meter 6 tall and weighs less than 90 pounds.
Such a figure once made Yuanyuan become the envy of girlfriends, she herself is quite proud, in the face of food, she can have a good body without taboo, but Yuanyuan did not expect that one day she would be rejected by others because of her slim body.
Yuanyuan and her boyfriend have been in love for many years, and now that Yuanyuan has reached the age of talking about marriage, it is time to meet each other's parents.
When Yuanyuan saw her future "mother-in-law", her mother-in-law kept a somber face and looked herself up and down.
At first, Yuanyuan originally thought that his future mother-in-law did not smile and belonged to the "high cold" type. She didn't think that her mother-in-law was expressing her dissatisfaction with herself with a straight face.
And the round boyfriend is good everywhere, that is, some "mother treasure", very listen to the mother's words. When Yuanyuan received the "breakup" text message from her boyfriend, she fell into shock and could not relax for a long time.
The message was this: "My mother asked me to break up with you, she thought you were too thin, small ass, and it was not good to have children in the future." ”
Yuanyuan was furious and immediately replied, "Roll on!"!
She was both angry and shocked that it was ridiculous that someone would now use the size of her ass to judge whether she could have a child. What is even more absurd is that the boyfriend he has loved for many years actually listened to his mother's words.
After the breakup, Yuanyuan fell into the sad mood of lost love. After a long time, she is still angry about the phrase "big ass, good birth". In her opinion, such a saying is simply nonsense and has no scientific basis at all.
What does having a baby have to do with the size of the ass? Yuanyuan's mother was also very thin and small, and she did not give birth to their sisters and brothers. So, what is the real situation, is there a correlation between women's ass and good birth?
In fact, the older generation believes that women's ass is big and good for breeding does lack scientific basis.
However, in the era of material scarcity, women with large butts do have some advantages in fertility. Because at that time, everyone did not have enough to eat, and in the case of insufficient food, women with large butts often had large pelviss.
And now, many people's ass is big only because of high body fat, which has nothing to do with pelvic size. So why does pelvic size help with childbirth?
The difficulty of maternal childbirth is affected by these factors, so take a look at the knowledge
▲ The size of the birth canal for women
Why do older generations like daughters-in-law with big butts? In the past, when the material conditions were not rich, people's figures were relatively thin, and at that time, if the girl's ass was large, it meant that the girl's pelvis was relatively wide. The pelvis belongs to the bone birth canal, and its width does have a great impact on childbirth.
Some women are too thin and have narrow pelvis, and they encounter difficult labor during childbirth. The birth canal has a great influence on childbirth, in addition to the bone birth canal, there is also a birth canal is the "soft birth canal", which is mainly composed of the cervix, vagina and so on. Women who have better conditions in both birth canals will encounter less resistance during childbirth.
▲The size of the fetus
Another factor affecting female childbirth is the size of the fetus, fat and thin, even if the woman's birth canal conditions are very good, if she is pregnant with a "huge baby", women are likely to encounter "difficult childbirth" in the process of childbirth. If the double top diameter of the fetus is smaller than the width of the female pelvis, the fetus cannot come into this world through vaginal delivery.
It can be seen that women must manage their own weight during pregnancy, otherwise even if their normal delivery conditions are superior, they may not be able to give birth to a baby that is too fat and too large.
▲ Whether women will use the right force
There is a type of mother, and the medical staff of the obstetrics and gynecology department have some headaches when they think of it. These women do not exert force during childbirth, and they like to shout and waste their energy.
You know, giving birth to a child is a very hard thing, and the mother must learn to store strength and use the force in the right place.
▲The mental state of the mother
According to studies, the mental state of a woman also has a great influence on the process of childbirth. The power of "faith" has a great impact on people, and it is also true for women who are going to give birth.
As a result, some hospitals now allow family members, especially husbands, to accompany the mother to childbirth. The encouragement of the family around can have a very positive impact on the mother, so that the woman is more confident in the success of the birth.
Parenting message
After understanding the four major factors affecting production, I believe that everyone has their own understanding of some of the sayings of the older generation. Now the medical technology is very mature, even if the mother is relatively thin, she can give birth by caesarean section.
As for the birth of boys and girls, it has nothing to do with the female figure, and the sex of the fetus has been determined as early as the time of the formation of the fertilized egg.
If you also have an encounter like Yuanyuan, don't be too depressed, people who will give up love because of a word from their parents are not worth cherishing.
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