How to guide a child

How to guide a child. The family is crucial to the child's development. The family is the first school in a child's life, and parents are the most important teachers of enlightenment for children. Parents and children spend day and night, with the most time and opportunities to contact. The words and deeds of parents have always affected their children. The education of parents guides children from childhood to adulthood, which has great and far-reaching significance for children's future success. As the first bridge connecting children and society, family education plays an extremely important role in children's personality, quality and healthy growth. How should parents educate their children? I think we can start with the following points:

1. Cultivate children's self-confidence and stimulate their enthusiasm for learning

When it comes to educating children, we should not be obedient to them. We must not only manage the child's eating, wearing, playing and learning, but also pay attention to the child's education and training. Do not blindly affirm or deny the child's achievements or mistakes, and consider the child's psychological characteristics, avoid adult education methods, even simple and rough. Parents should encourage and praise their children for every achievement. They should also help them analyze problems, identify deficiencies, and patiently persuade and educate them to avoid damaging their children's self-esteem. When the child gets the transcript in the exam, occasionally the score is not good, parents should first help him analyze the reasons for the failure of the exam, tell him not to be afraid because of the exam failure, encourage him to strengthen learning in the future, encourage him to achieve good results next time, maintain the child's self-esteem, cultivate the child's self-confidence, and stimulate the child's enthusiasm for learning.

2. Cultivate children's sense of innovation and tap their intellectual potential

There are many opportunities and ways to cultivate a child's sense of innovation in family life. First of all, parents let their children pay more attention to everything around them and learn to find and analyze problems. In family life, when a child encounters something, the parents will guide him to observe and speak his own characteristics from different angles, thus constantly expanding the scope of his thinking. If necessary, we should also ask some questions for him to answer, and gradually cultivate children's creative thinking. Whenever a child encounters a difficulty, parents try not to tell him how to solve it. First of all, let him find his own way to find the most accurate, convenient, fast, time-saving and labor-saving method. He can solve problems through his own independent thinking, and then be psychologically satisfied and exercise his creative thinking skills. Second, hands-on operation is the source of cultivating children's sense of innovation. Hands-on is the embodiment of children's wisdom. Allowing children to do more hands-on will promote the development of children's abilities in all aspects, children will find many new problems, and find solutions to problems through hands-on. When they encounter any difficulties and problems in the future, children will give full play to their creative thinking skills to solve them. Finally, parents also pay attention to giving their children a relaxed and harmonious family environment. In such an environment, children's ability to observe, imagine and think can be healthy developed. When the child puts forward the so-called "strange theory" or does "strange things", the parents never easily deny it, but let him give full play to his imagination and exert his "talent". Parents should believe that the hidden wisdom of their children is enormous. As long as his parents can guide him correctly, his potential will be fully realized.

3. Correctly understand the child's ability and have moderate expectations for the child.

As parents, they want their children to be dragons and phoenixes. To achieve this, some parents do whatever it takes to implement various intellectual development or skills training that is not in line with the content of schooling. In their spare time, they will invite tutors for the children, such as learning piano, drawing, chess, dancing, etc., so that the children are troubled by a variety of learning tasks all day long. It has been proven that imposing heavy learning tasks on children can lead to fatigue in children. Because children are not active in learning and lack interest in the knowledge they have learned, even if they participate in learning, they are still "Caoying people, Hanxin people". In the long run, this will damage children's enthusiasm for learning, and the gains will not be worth the losses.