The military force from Jiaozuo, Henan, is more than forty years old this year, the four brothers and sisters are the youngest in line, there are three sisters on it, and before the maintenance of their parents, the four brothers and sisters have signed an agreement to take care of each of them for five days in turn.
Now it is the turn of the military to take care of it, but the sisters will not let him enter the house, which can make the military force bad, he had to call the police for help, but after the police left, the sisters still did not open the door.
The military force did not understand why his sister did this to him.
The military force still insists on making a good meal every day and bringing it to the door of their parents, looking forward to seeing their parents and giving them filial piety.
Why do the sisters cruelly refuse their brothers to fulfill their filial piety? What kind of contradictions are there between sisters and brothers?
Under the coordination of the mediator, the four siblings met with the military father at the local village committee.
As soon as she saw the mediator, the eldest sister of the military force cried and said that she was too upset with her father, and the father cried with her, and the son would not let him eat enough.
The second sister said that the father did not dare to tell the truth in front of his brother, and only after the brother left did he dare to say that the old man cried a handful of tears at that time, saying that the son would not let him eat enough, nor would he let him take medicine, and he would live all day as a pig and a dog, chilling!
The three daughters were distressed by their father's suffering, hugging their headaches and crying, they comforted their father, the younger brother was not filial piety, and he would not let him take care of it in the future, and there was a daughter.
This is the scene where the sister does not open the door for the younger brother.
The second sister said that although the younger brother and his parents lived in a courtyard, they both had their own houses and lived separately, and the previous days were relatively peaceful, but since their parents fell ill one after another, the days have changed.
Half a year ago, the mother fell into a fracture, life can not take care of themselves, the disaster is not alone, three months ago, the father also fell into a fracture, the three sisters thought that the younger brother would take care of the parents who could not take care of themselves, did not think that the old man now even can not fill the stomach.
For the sisters' statements, the military force is denied, the daughter-in-law of the military force loves flowers, the military force is working outside, only to come back for a month, usually she takes care of the elderly, worried that the old man eats a problem, cooking is soft and digestible, often noodles, corn porridge, and not as harsh as the sisters said to treat the elderly.
Aihua said that she couldn't help but cry bitterly, she had been serving the elderly for more than twenty years after marrying, but no matter what she did, she couldn't get into the eyes of her sisters, and said that she was not filial piety.
But the father of the military force said to the mediator, I don't want this son anymore, he is too bad for me!
The two sons of the military force insisted that they had not treated their parents badly, but the sisters and father said that they were not filial piety.
Junli told the mediator that he was not biological, that he had been adopted a few days after birth, and that his adoptive parents had been very kind to him. The first conflict occurred in the matter of him finding a partner, he and his daughter-in-law fell in love freely, but his parents felt that the woman was six years older than him, did not agree, and the military did not give in on this matter.
Although in the end, their parents agreed to the marriage, but since then they have a heart knot and feel that the military power is not in line with them.
Aihua, the daughter-in-law of the military force, complained that since she married in, her in-laws and three sisters had not given a good face, and she had not raised her head in the in-laws' family for more than twenty years, and had no right to speak.
The second sister of the military force said that although the military force was adopted, his parents always treated him as his own son, and the three of us sisters also treated him as a brother, although we opposed the marriage of my brother, but the sister-in-law never treated him differently after marrying.
The second sister's statement was recognized by the local village cadres, and the relationship between the two families has always been quite good, and since 2008 to 2009, the village planned to acquire land, and there has been a contradiction.
The second sister of the military force said that at that time, her father received 83,000 land compensation, but it was only saved for a year before it was remembered by her brother, and then her father gave 50,000 yuan to her brother, who promised to manage her parents' lives.
Asked why he asked his father for money, the military said that he was the only boy in the family, to support his parents, before he and his parents were separated, after getting the money, he would be fully responsible for the daily expenses of his parents, and every month he also took out two hundred to the elderly, he said that he had also done it, and it had been operated in this way for several years. Later, after his father received a pension, he told him that the money was enough to spend, and he did not have to give the two hundred a month.
The second sister said that the younger brother did give money several times, and then the father received the pension and did not give it, at first the electricity bill was also paid by the father, and then the brother paid for a few months, the father complained that the son and daughter-in-law restricted his use of electricity, and installed a separate meter.
The daughter-in-law of the military force explained that the in-laws always waste electricity, people are not in the house, the air conditioning and tv are on, the lights are not turned off, every time she sees it and turns it off, for this reason she has also reminded many times that the in-laws just don't listen.
The three sisters said that since the meter incident, the relationship between parents and brothers is no longer as harmonious as before, coupled with the fact that after the parents broke their bones, the younger brother did not take good care of them, resulting in the three sisters' increasing opinions about their brothers.
On December 5, 2021, the three sisters and their brother signed an agreement in the presence of the local village committee.
The agreement stipulates that the four siblings take turns to take care of their parents' homes, and the living expenses are borne by the military; if the elderly are sick and hospitalized, the costs are borne by the military, and the four children jointly bear the responsibility for the care and care of the elderly.
But when he signed, the military repented, saying that this way returned to the original point, the contradiction would only escalate, and he felt that whoever took the turn to support him would receive whoever it was.
The military force put forward two plans, one is that he comes to support his parents and is responsible for all the expenses, and the sisters are not in shifts and can come to visit and support at any time; the second is that the three sisters come to the family to support them, and the specific operation is set by the sisters, and he bears the cost and pays them a salary.
Who knows that the three sisters do not agree, they think that the military power is not biological, will not really treat their parents, do not agree to let him take care of.
The two sons of the military force are very cold, and no matter how hard they are, they cannot get the approval of their families.
After the mediation, Junli opened his heart and said that his parents and sister had always been good to him before, and the reason why the contradiction escalated was that he could not do it in place. He reviewed himself with his sisters and father, talked and did things straight and cold, chilled the hearts of his family, and knelt down to kowtow to his father.
The sincere repentance of the military force was forgiven by his father and three sisters, hoping that the military force could win the trust of his relatives with his next actions.
Forty years of nurturing grace, not biological is better than parenting, nurturing grace is greater than the sky, a lifetime can not be repaid.
Adoptive parents and three sisters treat the military force like a biological child, give him the warmth of the family, but when the parents need him to support, he is because of money and care is not weekly cold to the family's heart, especially the old father said that "he is not good for me", let people sympathize and feel uncomfortable, think about how cold the old man should be, fortunately, the three daughters are filial piety, and have been guarding the old man's side.
The misconduct of military power made the sisters feel that he was weak and unsympathetic, and would not treat his parents sincerely if he was not his own. Fortunately, the military is aware of the deficiencies, willing to work hard to make up for it, and hopes that he will do what he says and live up to his family.
The grace of birth is greater than that of man, the grace of nurturing is greater than that of heaven, the grace of nurturing is more difficult than the grace of procreation, filial piety comes first, you raise me small, I raise you old.
Always have a grateful heart, know the gratitude of the map, in order to be worthy of the heart.