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"The students are all repaying the motherland, and the scum are repaying the kindness of their parents"
When my parents watched the hit drama "The World of Man", they often issued such feelings. I know that my parents thought of their children from the three children of the Zhou family and got the insight.
Coincidentally, my family also has three children. The eldest brother graduated from a prestigious university and settled in a first-tier city with his sister-in-law who graduated from the same school. The second sister even read abroad to study, and finally settled abroad. And the old and young in my family, from childhood is also the most favored, but there is really not much talent in learning, coupled with the fact that my parents were more spoiled when they were young, and they were not so desperate to study, and finally reluctantly went to a university that did not slip away, and after graduation, they returned to their hometown to work, and the husband they were looking for was also local.
Three days after marriage, they returned to their mother's house with things at both ends, and they could spend time at their parents' house every New Year's Festival. My father and mother have any physical problems, and my husband and I can arrive at the first time. My eldest brother and second sister, on the other hand, could only greet my parents on the phone. Although my parents are proud of their eldest brother and second sister, they feel that they have a chance. But I often say that fortunately, I still have my study at home and stay around, and my later life will not be too lonely.
Later, after watching "The World of Man", my parents even put "the students are all repaying the motherland, and the scum are all repaying the kindness of their parents". I believe there are many things like this in life, and the reality silences parents.
The students are all serving the motherland, and those children who are particularly good at learning are destined not to stay around
Like Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong, who have been talented since childhood, have always been a bully, and have soared through learning, and have unlimited scenery in their lives. For them, the family of origin is just the starting point. The mountains and forests are difficult to inhabit the golden phoenix, and children like them who are so beautiful are destined not to stay with their parents. Their goal in life is to achieve fame and serve the country, and most of their time is dedicated to the cause. Parents mention that they are full of pride, and outsiders are full of envy, but it is difficult for parents to see them, and communication is getting less and less.
And many children who do not learn well, but later stay by the side of their parents and take good care of them
And children like Zhou Bingkun, who have not been very smart in reading since childhood, are not very smart to look at, and eventually did not go to a good university, and there is no career that is envied by people. But he stayed with his parents, taking care of their food, clothing, and living, and when their parents were in trouble, they had no complaints and waited before and after the saddle. Parents felt a real sense of joy in this son.
I think many parents see the shadow of their children in him, he can't go to a famous school, can't become a dragon, can't make his parents feel face. But he is the child who accompanies himself the most and takes care of himself the most, and his life in his later years all depends on this child.
Of course, these can not be generalized, not all excellent children do not stay with their parents, not all those who can't read are filial piety, in fact, those who can't read are more old. Parents' education is more important. Whether it is a child who serves the country or a child who stays by his parents' side, each has his own position, which is the pride of his parents.
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