He Wenxiu, who is nearly 50 years old, and her husband Li Hong, who have been living a peaceful life in Changsha, were broken one day in July 2016.
This morning, the couple who were about to go out to buy vegetables had just opened the door when they saw a middle-aged man standing outside the door with a wooden bed in his hand. Looking at his posture, this bed is to be dragged to the two people's homes.
He Wenxiu was surprised: "Which one are you, what is this doing?" ”
Only to hear the man reply: "He Wenxiu, you will not even forget me, this house is originally mine, quickly take the handle, I can't make it up now, let's put the bed in together." ”
He Wenxiu
He Wenxiu looked at the man in front of him who had been sentenced to two people for a long time 9 years ago, and then he recognized that this man was no one else, but her ex-husband, Wang Quanzhi.
After that, Wang Quanzhi forcibly moved to their home, which was only 30 square meters, despite the obstruction of He Wenxiu and his wife, and what made the couple even more angry was that it was not long before he also picked up his mother...
Why stay
In 2007, Wang Quanzhi divorced He Wenxiu and then ran to Nanjing alone. Although he can be called a fruitless thing over the years, he still has the dream of making a lot of money.
But how do you make a lot of money? Soon, Wang Quanzhi found a business opportunity, he found that Nanjing rarely sells Changsha's well-known snack sugar oil, if he brings his hometown characteristics to Nanjing to sell, will he not be able to realize his dream?
Wang Quanzhi
Speaking of dry, Wang Quanzhi immediately began to prepare for the sale of sugar oil and rice dumplings, and officially opened in a few days. However, if you want to do a good job in a business, a reasonable way of doing business and a business mind with the right general direction are indispensable, unfortunately, these two necessary conditions Wang Quanzhi is not occupied.
Wang Quanzhi this person also has a shortcoming, that is, the nature is too anxious, unwilling to give themselves the opportunity to slowly become rich, sugar oil and sugar oil business development for a few days, he did not see the income, no matter how much investment in the early stage, said to give up.
Later, Wang Quanzhi made several entrepreneurial attempts, and each time there were various problems, and then he gave up halfway. After eight or nine years of mixing outside, Wang Quanzhi still achieved nothing and was poor. To make matters worse, Wang Quanzhi also suffered from a serious illness such as cerebral infarction, and even suffered from paralysis. Although he can walk now, his hands and legs do not have much strength, and it can be said that his body has completely collapsed.
In this case, Wang Quanzhi, who had almost no property left, had to return to his hometown in Changsha in 2015. After arriving in Changsha, Wang Quanzhi learned that He Wenxiu had remarried to a man surnamed Li, and he had no place to go, so he went to his second sister.
Wang Quanzhi's second sister
Wang Quanzhi's sister also has her own life to live, and does not want her brother to live with her, but she feels that her brother's appearance is really pitiful, so she let him live in another house of her own. Coincidentally, the house happened to be located next door to the current home of Wang Quanzhi's ex-wife, He Wenxiu.
When Wang Quanzhi and He Wenxiu first got married, they did not have a marriage house, and the second sister lent them this house to live, and later Wang Quanzhi and He Wenxiu each paid 18,000 yuan, bought the house next door and moved in. After the two divorced, Wang Quanzhi went to Nanjing to do business, and his sister had another home, so the house was empty, and now that Wang Quanzhi had returned, he lived in it again.
Since Wang Quanzhi had a house to live in, why did he take his mother to his wife and stir up trouble?
It turned out that the house where Wang Quanzhi was located was on the first floor, and it was backlit, and it was still very wet, and the opening of the wardrobe was all mold, and Wang Quanzhi's body was sick, and living in such a house was really a sin. In addition, Wang Quanzhi's sister was reluctant to let her brother continue to live, because she wanted to rent out the house as a warehouse.
However, if he was not allowed to live, where could Wang Quanzhi go? At this time, the second sister gave him an idea: "Didn't you pay half the money for the house next door?" Live next door. Wang Quanzhi scratched his head after listening, and said to his sister embarrassedly: "I signed a divorce agreement with her before, and although the agreement said that the house was half the right to use it for me and her, I had to pay Xiao Ke's maintenance before the end of 2008. ”
Exterior of the house
The second sister did not think much of her brother's answer: "You didn't give it at that time because you were difficult, and you didn't deliberately not give it." Over the years, you have successively transferred more than 60,000 to XiaoKe, and there are many gifts. You live in your own daughter's house, you want it. ”
Wang Quanzhi listened, was silent for a while, and said slowly: "I am just worried about the child's feelings." After I divorced her mother, I hadn't seen much in all these years except when I was paralyzed when she came to see me, and if I moved over now, she didn't know what she would think of me. ”
"Sooner or later, the girl's family will marry someone, and if she falls in love and marries someone, she will not return to her mother's house." She also graduated from college this year, and now that she doesn't live here, what can you do to get in her way? The second sister replied impatiently.
Hearing his sister answer like this, Wang Quanzhi thought about it and felt that there was no problem. He paid the money, and his daughter was not in Changsha, so he had no other worries about living in this house. At the same time, he also decided to take his mother with him, and all these years the second sister had been adopting his mother, and he felt that he should also take on the responsibility of being a child.
Both the Wang siblings believed that Wang Quanzhi had a good reason to move into the home of He Wenxiu and Li Hong, and as for what others thought, they did not care and could not control it.
Wang Quanzhi and He Wenxiu
He Wenxiu, Li Hong and their daughter Xiao Ke
He Wenxiu and her current husband Li Hong are not as calm as the Wang family's siblings about Wang Quanzhi's sudden move in, their house is only 30 square meters, and it is inconvenient for two people to suddenly move in. The problem was that Wang Quanzhi could not drive away, the couple was kind-hearted, and they could not bear to violently expel them, and He Wenxiu could only wash his face with tears all day long.
He Wenxiu believes that Wang Quanzhi's sister and brother have seen that her life has not been better over the years, and only then did she suddenly live in as a patient and an old man, which can be in stark contrast with her benefits. If she had a tougher attitude, the Wang family could say that she was "not saved by seeing death, and there is no humanity", and then use this to morally suppress her and force her away.
At the same time, He Wenxiu was very unaccustomed to Wang Quanzhi bringing his mother to his home, because the old man had a house of his own, and the Wang family had signed an agreement that after a hundred years of the old lady, this house would belong to the eldest sister of the Wang family. However, the brothers and sisters of the Wang family "have a heart of interest", they have long rented out the resettlement house belonging to the mother, the old lady is homeless, and lives with several children, and now the second sister does not want to raise it, and pushes it to her.
He Wenxiu who was crying
As another "victim" of this incident, Li Hong is even more aggrieved by this matter.
Li Hong believes that in recent years, Wang Quanzhi's business has failed, and his health is not good, since he has returned, he should continue to live with his sister, raise his body well, and dispel the idea of starting a business.
According to Li Hong himself, he had no hostility toward Wang Quanzhi, and if Wang Quanzhi had not disturbed his family, he would even be willing to be a good neighbor with him. The problem is that Wang Quanzhi has gone too far. And in this way, it will hurt Li Hong's daughter Xiao Ke, who is like his own.
"Although the child is older, it will always be our child, because the child will not come back to live, and it is natural to occupy the space that originally belonged to her. She knew that she had no place in this family, what would she think? ”
"Please move away, even if it is for the sake of small considerations, I beg you!" The child has graduated from college, is a big girl, a man who has not been seen in so many years suddenly lives here, what is she going to do? Li Hong thought that his daughter would have to bear this inexplicably, and his heart was particularly uncomfortable.
Li Hong
On the other hand, Wang Quanzhi's daughter Xiao Ke was also shocked to learn by phone that her biological father had suddenly moved into her home with her grandmother. Since Wang Quanzhi divorced his mother, their father and daughter have rarely contacted each other, and their feelings are not very deep.
However, during Xiao Ke's college years, after learning that Wang Quanzhi was paralyzed for a time, she still could not spare him, she took care of her studies while doing some extracurricular part-time jobs, saving money to go to Nanjing and accompany her father on the sickbed. Unexpectedly, my father not only did not understand his own mood, but also ran to destroy his current family.
In contrast to his biological father, his stepfather Li Hong is a down-to-earth and reliable man. Although he had inconvenient legs and feet, could not do heavy work, and paid a small salary, he gave his mother and the peaceful life she dreamed of. Over the years, he has always regarded Xiao Ke as his own, and the relationship between father and daughter is very harmonious. What is even more valuable is that Li Hong has been teaching Xiao Ke not to remember to hate Wang Quanzhi, but to remember to repay Wang Quanzhi's kindness to her in the early years.
Xiao Ke said that after he found a job in the future, he was willing to take on the obligation of supporting Wang Quanzhi, and only begged him not to destroy his current family.
Amid the different reactions and different thoughts of each side, things seemed to be at an impasse. Now, whether it is Wang Quanzhi or He Wenxiu and Li Hong, they all urgently need a solution.
settle
The best way to break the game is to inject external forces. Wang Quanzhi, He Wenxiu and Li Hong all realized that dragging on like this was not the way to go, and after consultation between the two sides, they decided to turn to the community mediator, hoping that under the witness of a third party, the matter could be resolved as soon as possible.
Wang Quanzhi's appeal is very simple, that is, money. It is okay for him to move away, but He Wenxiu and his wife need to pay themselves 30,000 yuan. Of these, 10,000 were used for their own medical treatment, and the remaining 20,000 were used as living expenses for their own restart. Wang Quanzhi did not care about the difficulties of Li Hong and his wife, for him, money was the most important. If it weren't for the lack of money, he wouldn't have ended up where he is now.
He Wenxiu and Li Hong's appeal is also very simple, that is, Wang Quanzhi and his mother immediately moved out of their home and returned the tranquility of their lives.
The couple had long been distressed by Wang Quanzhi's sudden arrival. When the two returned home every day, they could see Wang Quanzhi's rice cooker placed on a stack of rolls of paper in place of the table, all the while smoking white. Not to mention that in the 30 square meters of space separated by only a door with a latch, they could always hear the sound of Wang Quanzhi dragging his legs, and the old lady coughed from time to time, worrying every day, and couldn't sleep at all.
After learning of each other's demands, Wang Quanzhi and Li Hong once again fell into a quarrel.
Li Hong said directly to Wang Quanzhi, "You are taking our lives!" Where are we going to find you the 30,000 yuan? Otherwise, if we go well, will you give us money, will we go well? ”
Wang Quanzhi responded: "How can I move out if I can't get the money, and where do I move?" If you really want me to move out, the money is indispensable. Without a day of money, my mom and I wouldn't go anywhere! ”
Seeing that the mediation was about to turn into a meaningless and repetitive quarrel, Wang Quanzhi's second sister spoke at this time: "Don't you quarrel again, aren't we going to solve the problem now?" In this way, I am in charge of my mother's whereabouts, and she has lived with me for the past twenty years anyway, and now I will take her home.
But my brother, I don't have a place for him to live, so I want him to move away, and you two are definitely going to give some money, and as for the amount, you can discuss it again. ”
Wang Quanzhi, who was on the side, also spoke again: "How much money to give, how to give, and how long to give, we can all discuss." But after all, you are going to give me money. ”
The concession finally appeared, and Li Hong and He Wenxiu finally breathed a sigh of relief after hearing Wang Quanzhi's relaxation. Yes, the money thing can be discussed again, and the top priority now is to let Wang Quanzhi and the old man move out.
Since Wang Quanzhi suddenly appeared, the two of them had tried to understand him with all their kindness and exhausted their patience to tolerate him. He has never used tough means to drive him away, which is already very generous.
The two sides finally began to negotiate specific conditions, and they had a detailed discussion on the amount of money, the date of Wang Quanzhi's removal, and future places, and the difficult mediation finally ushered in the dawn.
In the presence of community mediators, they signed on the spot an agreed mediation agreement on various conditions. In this agreement, it is clear that Wang Quanzhi will give up the right to use the house and need to move out of He Wenxiu and Li Hong's home within three days, and He Wenxiu and his wife will pay Wang Quanzhi 11,000 yuan as compensation, and as for Wang Quanzhi's life after that, the community will continue to help him.
Wang Quanzhi, He Wenxiu and Li Hong all signed their names on the agreement, and until this moment, this long farce finally came to an end.
After the mediation, Wang Quanzhi shook hands with Li Hong and made peace
Wang Quanzhi's story is undoubtedly a tragedy, and he failed to do business several times in succession, and as a result, he left himself homeless and could only send people to the fence. However, this is not a reason for him to forcibly move into his ex-wife's home and disturb his normal life.
And the kind Li Hong and He Wenxiu couple, even if they were angry and crying, did not forcibly drive Wang Quanzhi away, which is undoubtedly a manifestation of the beautiful quality of gold.
Fortunately, this matter was finally resolved satisfactorily.