Many people see this picture in front of them and will definitely think that the two quarrels are enemies, but the truth is just the opposite, they are father and son linked by blood. Why did the old man, who was more than half a hundred years old, hate his son Miaohua so much? The reason why they quarreled was because of the "he" in the two people, who was not someone else, but the second daughter of The Old Uncle, the second sister of Miao Hua.
Speaking of his second daughter, Lao Bo, is very helpless, 20 years ago, the second daughter knew the second son-in-law when she was working, but she was opposed by the man's parents, and she has not been able to enter the man's home and can only live in the mother's home. But Zhen Hua was not satisfied with this, and always tried to create rumors to let her daughter leave and not let the second son-in-law enter the door.
As for the old man's statement, we got confirmation from Jiaohua, who said that he only got married at the age of 30, and the purpose of his wife's marriage to him was for the two-story building at home, and the second sister, Miao Mengyu, was unwilling to leave here, resulting in his and his wife divorcing four years ago.
Therefore, Zhenhua believes that the second sister's inconvenience of living at home has affected her marriage, and she does not want her to affect her son again.
Zhenhua said that if the second sister leaves him, he will be very happy, and his wife will come back and remarry himself.
But the old man does not think so, the reason why his son Zhenhua divorced is because he is lazy and lazy, does not work well, and has nothing to do with the second daughter.
Both Lao Bo and Jiao Hua had their own reasons, and neither of them could convince the other.
In desperation, we can only ask the two people closest to Miaohua, first of all, his son Xiaoming, who told us that Miao Mengyu gave his grandparents living expenses every month, and the furniture in the family was bought by the second aunt, which was very good to himself, and the aunt did not affect their lives, but the father did not do well, often looking for trouble with the aunt.
As for the reason for his parents' divorce, he still doesn't know what happened.
But Miaohua's ex-wife gave another explanation, saying that the reason why she divorced her husband was indeed because the second sister lived in her mother's house and disturbed the normal life of their family.
From this point of view, the grudge between The husband and wife and the second sister has been deep, and the youngest son of the old uncle has been spoiled since childhood, and has spoiled him badly.
Especially after growing up, he intensified his efforts and beat his father, resulting in a complete break in the relationship between the two.
We also found that in daily life, Miaohua is not filial to his parents, usually does not see anyone, and returns home on time when he arrives at the meal, but when he improves the food, he eats at the restaurant himself, and the leftovers packed back are not eaten by his parents.
What's even more frightening is that when Old Uncle Jiao was sick, Miao Hua didn't ask him any questions. Compared with the unfilial son, the second daughter takes good care of the old man and the elderly, and will give them living expenses every month.
As soon as he heard about the living expenses, he immediately became excited, he thought that he could also take care of his parents to eat and drink, and was willing to give his parents 2,000 yuan per month.
Dan Jiaohua's eldest sister and third sister did not believe him, because he simply did not have the ability to come up with 2,000 yuan of living expenses, and the reason why he did so was only to force the second sister Tou Mengyu away.
Therefore, when Miaohua expressed his position, no one in the family believed him.
Perhaps determined to change, Zhenhua knelt down to her parents and asked for their forgiveness.
Seeing his son's determination, Old Uncle Miao finally promised to give him a chance, willing to let the second daughter leave for a while, and if Zhen Hua could not keep his promise, he would take the second daughter over.
For this practice, we called Yu Meng to seek her advice. She also revealed her heart, saying that the house was built by her parents and was willing to accept her parents' arrangements.
In this dispute, we see the horror of human nature, the second sister and brother-in-law were driven out of the house by the in-laws, as the younger brother, Not only did not help the sister but also fell into the well, for the sake of the house for their own marriage, the desperate second sister was driven out of the house, it really should not be.
If he were to think differently and his parents kicked him out of the house, what would he think? It all comes down to him because he's too selfish. In daily life, we must not only consider the gains and losses of interests, but also maintain precious feelings.
Today's topic: What can I do when I meet such a person?