In the real married life, we women often put our position at the end in marriage, put our husbands and children in front of ourselves, and revolve around her husbands and children all day long, as if we are their servants and servants.
When a woman, after giving all her time and energy, becomes haggard and decayed, but is rejected, or even abandoned? In addition to being sad, have the women who are hurt ever examine and think about themselves? Why is it that the bright self before marriage was quickly tortured by married life into a housewife with decay?
Women in marriage, for the sake of their husbands and children and gave up the pursuit of their careers and lives, every day in the chai rice oil and salt around, so, the eyes and mouth are only oil, salt and vinegar, and there is no longer the spirit of external self-motivation and hard work and the motivation to improve themselves.
For the sake of her husband and children, women consciously take the initiative to give up these personal pursuits in life, which is equivalent to giving up a wonderful and excellent self and the opportunity to live well. Do not show yourself in society, only grievance yourself in the family. Such a day, although it is also a sacrifice of oneself, is not affirmed and appreciated later.
With the polishing of life, the corrosion of the years, the women in the marriage, will soon be made into a housewife by fireworks, only know the nagging of the chicken, for other charm, temperament, and style, but also gradually withdraw from their stage, they are husbands and children every day, eating and washing and doing housework.
Trivial family affairs, slowly let them be willing to live themselves so gray, wait until the children go to school, the husband's career is successful, they are really old and decaying, they can't keep up with the pace of their husbands, and they can't ask about their husbands' careers, because they are out of touch with these, and there is no more value.
Even if you are bright before marriage, as long as you become a yellow-faced woman who only knows chai rice oil and salt after marriage, your fate will also go downhill to be abandoned and betrayed.
Such a living woman will also have doubts about her husband who is more and more successful and beautiful, and the more insecure she is, the easier it is to think inexplicably, even if you have felt abandoned, betrayed, and the words you say for yourself, there is not much confidence, because you no longer have the courage to be independent.
I think that women in marriage still can't just live for their husbands and children, so that no matter how much you pay, even if you are tired like a dog and haggard, your husband and children will not really appreciate your efforts. Your excessive efforts can only show your humility, and you will also be inferior to your own value.
Women in marriage, no matter how big or small the ability, no matter how much money can be earned, as long as they still have the ability, do not forget to do their own work, although only earn a small amount of money, although there is no glory of success, as long as you have your own things to do, you can improve yourself in doing things, not to let yourself fall behind the times and society.
Not to be disliked and eliminated, women will love themselves first, and loving themselves is not just to buy themselves beautiful clothes and expensive jewelry, but to have their own things to do and have their own independent value. Thinking and ability are constantly improving, so that they can maintain a closer distance from their husbands in terms of the pace of growth, without being estranged and unable to communicate effectively without a common language.
The obscurity of giving oneself for marriage and family, but not being valued, but being disliked, this is indeed chilling. But from another point of view, women still need to live well, after all, everyone hopes that the lover around them can give themselves glory, rather than as soon as they go out, they will give people a gray face and make the lover feel faceless.
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